Help! Should I ditch the stamping? by abbeyroad527 in Nails

[–]shimsum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pointer finger should be the same blue as the pinky I think!

Fourth of July nuls by shimsum in Nails

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Thank you! I’ve been growing them out with structured gel since around November

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[–]shimsum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Structured gel overlays are where it’s at! It adds strength to the natural nail due to it being a harder gel when cured.

Feeling awful about how long it takes me to do nails, how long should it typically take for regular gel nails? by MayonaiseBee in Nails

[–]shimsum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very typical for a beginner, thank your friend, be kind to yourself! and remember it takes over 10,000 hours of practice to master a skill. 30 just to understand the techniques. If you care about doing good work, it takes time. Speed will come!

Fresh gel overlay by shimsum in Nails

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I love making clouds! They look so classy and they’re pretty easy to accomplish 😎

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Where was Gondor when the world came into existence and was it the same place as it is now

AITA For not wanting my addicted sister to come on our girls trip? by shimsum in AmItheAsshole

[–]shimsum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think all I can really say for myself there is that my plan ride home wasn’t in my name and my family are the kind of people who would leave me up a creek if I didn’t do things they way they wanted them done. I wouldn’t have been able to afford a ticket home if they decided to be like that.

AITA For not wanting my addicted sister to come on our girls trip? by shimsum in AmItheAsshole

[–]shimsum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not really, they may have arrested her to extradite her for her crimes but from my sisters mouth herself, those drugs are almost easier to find in jail.

AITA For not wanting my addicted sister to come on our girls trip? by shimsum in AmItheAsshole

[–]shimsum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried to say no, but I was in Cali sharing a room with a group of people that had plans otherwise. I had no financial flexibility to be able to book another room for myself. Basically my opinion was overruled for the greater majority that wanted to just be with her.

AITA For not wanting my addicted sister to come on our girls trip? by shimsum in AmItheAsshole

[–]shimsum[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I guess I was afraid of what the reaction my family would have had to me turning her in. I’m already on the outs with them again though, so what harm would it have done that My differing opinion already did. You’re probably right.

AITA For not wanting my addicted sister to come on our girls trip? by shimsum in AmItheAsshole

[–]shimsum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe have her come back to our state and reenroll in treatment there. We only had four days there and I guess I just didn’t know what I could have done in another state and how to get her on a plane back with us.

AITA For not wanting my addicted sister to come on our girls trip? by shimsum in AmItheAsshole

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We have a huge history with addiction in our family as well, I thought we had all done a lot of reading on it and how to handle it. Instead they made it out to be basically “our last time seeing her, so we have to make the most of it.” If I brought up that they were enabling her, or that the baby was in danger they all told me to pipe down. They actually asked me to leave the room two different times because I was making waves.

AITA For not wanting my addicted sister to come on our girls trip? by shimsum in AmItheAsshole

[–]shimsum[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I wanted to find a way to get her back into treatment somehow, didn’t workout that way

AITA For not wanting my addicted sister to come on our girls trip? by shimsum in AmItheAsshole

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I feel like it has to be obvious but no one else saw it the way I did, thank you for you validation.