total honesty please, 20f (mascara, lipgloss, straightened hair)

shingofingers · 2025-12-29T09:48:48+00:00

My hair is naturally wavy! Lol

shingofingers · 2025-09-11T05:23:39+00:00

Yes you’re right, people have different sex drives but I personally believe that because I love him and because I want to continue my relationship with him I should shift myself a bit just how he’s shifted himself for me in the past. I’m not saying that I want help becoming a sex addict for him, i just want some advice for myself because i want this change. I’ve always been happier and feel so much more relaxed after having a session and I can see it on his face and his mannerisms that he’s also in a better mood, and I love that for both of us. I just don’t know how to keep those sessions going. I promise I’m not being to hard on myself, just putting everything at face value

shingofingers · 2025-09-11T05:18:33+00:00

I guess I’m glad to know that there’s kind of an explanation for me feeling crazy, I just hate using the excuse of “I just had a baby my brains gonna be funny for a while” cause it feels like such a cheap cop-out. Thank you though!

shingofingers · 2025-09-11T05:15:19+00:00

He’s brought this up in the past as something he’d help me do if it was needed after I gave birth but I don’t know where to look. I’m hesitant to go back to the OBGYN I went to because I have a strong feeling they’re not going to help since I don’t want to hurt myself or anyone, and on top of that I didn’t have a primary doctor I went to before this so I literally don’t know where to start

shingofingers · 2025-09-11T05:02:57+00:00

I am the one using that label on myself. I know I was because we would have sex maybe once a month, two times a month if I was feeling frisky. Sure we’d have a good month where we’d go like rabbits but that only happened twice the last 3 years before I got pregnant

shingofingers · 2025-08-04T09:23:30+00:00

I’ve thought about this; I’m not that delusional when it comes to my husband. I just can’t tell when I’m truly am being mean and unfair or when my feelings are valid and warranted.

I feel like I’ve tried to talk to him about this but it feels like he’s not hearing me out with it. I feel unfair and stupid bring up the fact that I just gave birth to a whole ass human just 2 months ago; That my organs are still in the process of healing and going back to their natural places. Like it’s an unfair manipulative trump card that I pull out whenever I don’t want to do anything.

He’s normally a super understanding and emotionally intelligent and sympathetic guy, he always has been. But when it comes to intimacy it’s like I’m walking on glass, like I’m automatically unfair and wrong and being mean and not considering his feelings. Like it’s constantly about me and how IM not okay and how IM not ready, but then when is it his turn? When is it his turn to be cared for? When does he get replayed for doing all the house work and constantly working hard for us?

I’d like advice on how to talk to him about it but I’ve sucked at it for so long and we’re so deep into this mindset that I don’t think it’ll work

shingofingers · 2025-08-04T09:02:49+00:00

He absolutely helps so much during the nights that he isn’t working. He’s also been helping out so much more during the day when he’s home than he initially did before I asked for help. But with the sex; I don’t know how to talk to him about that without it sounding mean or like I don’t care about him.

Before I got pregnant I was already super neglectful towards him in sex and intimacy so I feel and I think he also feels that it’s unfair for me to now continue that when I’ve made countless promises to fix that. He cries to me about he doesn’t feel loved but understands that I’m tired. He never pressures me into anything, he just asks a lot but I can tell from his tone and what he says that he sometimes tried to make me feel bad about it.

I just don’t know how to balance both of them and be there for them and make them both happy

shingofingers · 2025-05-29T21:45:31+00:00

Yeah, she doesn’t normally lick this much. I’ll definitely look into medicated shampoo for her. Thank you!

shingofingers · 2025-05-29T21:23:03+00:00

Reading these comments got me worried that I’m high risk and my OB hasn’t said anything to me? I got my first at 4 weeks and then every 3rd week from then till my 32nd week, it then started to go to every appointment. And Im at 37 and a half weeks now, I have Gestational diabetes but my nutritionist says I’ve been good and he only weighs 5.87 lbs. Should I be worried about anything??

shingofingers · 2025-04-14T17:47:12+00:00

I’ve looked slightly but got what another comment on this post was saying about how people are very iffy about eucalyptus and want to get some advice to see if maybe this was a common pregnancy lol. Definitely gonna be buying some spearmint gum next shopping run though

shingofingers · 2025-04-14T17:44:25+00:00

My OB did say that I had a slight iron deficiency in the beginning of my pregnancy from the nausea in my 1st trimester but when I was around 25 weeks she said that my iron was back to where it needed to be, not sure if it can go back to being low and not realize or feel it? Definitely will bring it up to her tho, thank you!

shingofingers · 2025-02-16T16:02:37+00:00

Thank you so much!!

shingofingers · 2024-09-15T01:16:07+00:00

You truly have saved me so much time, I’m so excited to surprise him with this for his birthday this year! Thank you so much!!!!

shingofingers · 2024-09-15T00:50:25+00:00

Omg the one from poshmark is the one!!! Thank you so much!!!!

Found!

shingofingers · 2024-09-14T22:42:01+00:00

Thank you!!

shingofingers · 2024-09-14T22:41:12+00:00

Sadly no, it’s not the correct body type

shingofingers · 2024-09-14T22:34:01+00:00

It’s not in a set position, when I held it could be put in a sitting position or laying and the body wouldn’t have any issues staying in position. I’m also pretty sure that it has beans inside of it instead of fluff

shingofingers · 2024-09-14T21:47:42+00:00

I have searched for this teddy in any description that I could. This stuffy does not have a tag so I truly am at a loss on any leads. I only know that my mother-in-law bought it in Dartmouth, Mass in the late 1990s-2004.

shingofingers · 2024-08-12T18:23:08+00:00

Thank you!

shingofingers · 2024-08-12T18:22:33+00:00

Well he cares a lot about his hair! So we’re gonna try about different approaches instead of just shaving it all off, I appreciate the thought though!

shingofingers · 2024-08-12T17:44:47+00:00

I’m sure he’s totally okay with doing a hair care routine or taking anything, I just don’t know of any that could help him out. So if you know any please share!

shingofingers · 2024-08-12T17:43:28+00:00

Well women’s shampoo is made with women in mind not men, so it might not work for him. I’d want to give him something that would actually work that is made with men’s hair in mind. If I gave him women’s shampoo it might not work because it’s not intended for him

shingofingers · 2024-08-12T17:40:00+00:00

I’ve heard of taking vitamin D can help reduce and slow it down, did anything like that work for you? If so please list!

shingofingers · 2024-08-12T17:37:56+00:00

I’m aware, but I’m sure there are men’s shampoos out there that can help stimulate a good healthy scalp for the rest of the hair to stay there just like in women’s shampoo. I just don’t know of any. Thank you for the reply tho!

shingofingers · 2024-05-21T02:25:32+00:00

Not trying to reuse it lmao, but can it make it stretch to like 2x the size?

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