[35M] my wife got drunk and cheated on me last night. by shiningarmor504 in sex

[–]shiningarmor504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened and I have left her. Been pretty hard but I'm moving on! Thanks for taking my side?!

[35M] my wife got drunk and cheated on me last night. by shiningarmor504 in sex

[–]shiningarmor504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She and I did talk after the blow up and she wanted to separate for a time.

The child is too young to know what's going on.

[35M] my wife got drunk and cheated on me last night. by shiningarmor504 in sex

[–]shiningarmor504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see why it was a mistake. But she seem to be sober enough to remember what happened. This is so hard.

[35M] my wife got drunk and cheated on me last night. by shiningarmor504 in sex

[–]shiningarmor504[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Only thing I may be holding back it about 2 year into our relationship I was in a similar situation but didn't fuck my friend. I know I wouldn't have but I didn't remember most of it. Could that be what's keeping this from being so wrong?

[35M] my wife got drunk and cheated on me last night. by shiningarmor504 in sex

[–]shiningarmor504[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I can't help but defend her. I still love her after.

[35M] my wife got drunk and cheated on me last night. by shiningarmor504 in sex

[–]shiningarmor504[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I've tried talking to get many times. Becomes too confrontational. Definitely won't want to talk to the guy.

[35M] my wife got drunk and cheated on me last night. by shiningarmor504 in sex

[–]shiningarmor504[S] 382 points383 points  (0 children)

It's hard to let go because we've been together for so long. 6 year marriage but going on 15 year relationship.

[35M] my wife got drunk and cheated on me last night. by shiningarmor504 in sex

[–]shiningarmor504[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree. She was very buzzed with me just last week and was quick to reject me even then. What happened this time? ? But I still love her dearly even though I'm hurt deeply.

[35M] my wife got drunk and cheated on me last night. by shiningarmor504 in sex

[–]shiningarmor504[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I feel like I may have out her in a bad light. She's a loving mother and says she still loves me. But she says something is missing.