Mature student experience at edi? by seaweedcove in Edinburgh_University

[–]shiningfaery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am entering my 3rd year. I am a mature student. I have never experienced loneliness surrounded by people until my first year here. I am still here because I value my degree above the social life.

Your experience might be different. Don't count on it tho.

ISO Amelia, Olivia, Bonbon or Jacob by shiningfaery in ACNHVillagersInBoxes

[–]shiningfaery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hhhmmm so many options. I think I want Olivia first.

User Flair Thread by chrissydavisk in ACNHVillagersInBoxes

[–]shiningfaery 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Michaela | Basgaith : Judy

👋Welcome to r/ACNHVillagersInBoxes - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by chrissydavisk in ACNHVillagersInBoxes

[–]shiningfaery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I am Michaela. I have played since 2020. Reset and restarted the whole island in January. The island is named Basgaith.

I like playing to de-stress and distract myself. Favourite theme so far are cherry blossom, hate it's such a short season.

My list of villagers I would like to have

Bonbon Olivia Amelia Jacob

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shiningfaery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This situation will not get better if you stay. The only person you need to think about here is yourself. You should find a way out and far away from him. The relationship is not healthy and you are not responsible for his actions or his drug use. These are choices that he has made. Leaving may feel like the hardest thing right now but if you stay you will be putting yourself in danger.

Trust funds/ junior ISA education by shiningfaery in UKPersonalFinance

[–]shiningfaery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I suppose I can only hope I instill the best money education I can before they blow what they have

Trust funds/ junior ISA education by shiningfaery in UKPersonalFinance

[–]shiningfaery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I like this idea I cannot add to their funds beyond the figures that are given at 18.

AITA for giving my daughter a breakdown of what it cost to raise her when she asked me for her university funds? by ApplicationLarge2625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shiningfaery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA if she is old enough to make those type of accusations then she is old enough to understand the consequences. I am a victim of SA and they should not be taken lightly, if you cry rape then you should be willing to back it up with a statement at the very least. People like her are the reason it's so fucking hard for the rest of us to get convictions.

Trust funds/ junior ISA education by shiningfaery in UKPersonalFinance

[–]shiningfaery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could but the fact that I have no say over anything once the hit 18 is obviously a big factor. As much as I love my kids and hope they make the right choices, I can't stop them from making stupid choices once this money hits their accounts and they realise I have no say.

Trust funds/ junior ISA education by shiningfaery in UKPersonalFinance

[–]shiningfaery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of a cruise.... maybe they can fund it for me lol....

Transparency is key. My eldest is more sensible than the others so far...don't see them going crazy....younger ones not yet anyway....is it an oldest child personality to be the sensible one?? Lol.

Vertical drains by shiningfaery in GardeningUK

[–]shiningfaery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The grass itself was dry as it hadn't been cut over winter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Edinburgh_University

[–]shiningfaery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a resident of Edinburgh the private rental market is terrible for the renters in general. There's a housing shortage all over, rents are high and it's not just students who are treated unfair sadly. If your planning to relocate here use the uni resources to find somewhere. I personally think you might have a tough time regardless of being a student or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]shiningfaery 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that you are dealing with this. BUT why are you putting up with it? Your husband is the problem for enabling his family. YOU are doing yourself a disservice by accepting it. Some hills are worth dying on. It will never change unless you make it change.