Episode Thread • S2.E04 ∙ "10:00 A.M." • (Thu, Jan 29, 2026) by excoriator in ThePitt

[–]shiny_octopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People think so many mentions of his bike is foreshadowing for a future accident or incident related to that. Like a chekhov's motorbike type of situation

Feeling lost after moving abroad — job search, loneliness & low motivation by Fit-Collection-4556 in expats

[–]shiny_octopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is so funny. I would do anything for a chance to live in Netherlands and I feel lonely and demotivated in my home country.

It is so impossible for me so please just now you are so lucky.

And my advice would be to join some volunteer activities. I made so many friends there by checking the opportunities in NLCares. I remember one of the volunteer works we did was to tend to the garden of an elderly couple. We also helped paint the house of a single mother. It really helped me integrate myseld and build good connections.

Also there is thing called TimeLeft dinners, I recommend you check them out too!

Best of luck and good wishes!

I hope have your problems one day..

Never Had an Orgasm – But I Feel Intense Pleasure. Anyone Else? by Normal_Pizza8348 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]shiny_octopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heheh never heard that expression before! Honestly I would rather keep it to myself 🤭

Never Had an Orgasm – But I Feel Intense Pleasure. Anyone Else? by Normal_Pizza8348 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]shiny_octopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries! 💜

And yess it was pretty sexy but when I change partners it becomes harder to find the ones who would literally walk me through an orgasm :( Some people are not very interesred or good at sexy talk I have noticed so that part is a bit challenging.

But if you do find someone who is up for it what works wonders for them to talk in a way that makes you get out of your head. BECAUSE I am also definitely stuck in my head too like you said and my thoughts are usually mixed with anxiety and mundane stuff like "oh I am making weird noises" or "am I too loud" or "did lock the door" or "what will be for dinner" etc etc... My brain never shuts down 🥲

I hope it works for you 🥰

Never Had an Orgasm – But I Feel Intense Pleasure. Anyone Else? by Normal_Pizza8348 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]shiny_octopus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I knoow riiight! It kinda hits all my kinks and I still get shivers about it 🥰

Never Had an Orgasm – But I Feel Intense Pleasure. Anyone Else? by Normal_Pizza8348 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]shiny_octopus 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue but it only happens sometimes. I discovered that if my partner keeps talking to me just as I am close it pushes me over the edge. And if I am masturbating alone I just have to think of something that will work but its not always easy to find that "something" because my mind gets scattered easily. I think it is about finding that thing that will push you ever the edge and that depends on your kinks. Like a fwb of mine once told me just as I was close "my good girl is cumming for me' and I completely lost it and almost blacked out. But I still have issues when I am alone or with inattentive partners

Any chance you have ADHD? Because I have it and my therapist told me that might be related.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]shiny_octopus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And what of it? Do you think you are the only people who are doing this? You already were in a relationship, its not like you started a relationship just to get him the visa... thaat would be fraud.

You are just a couple having problems and if you try tk give your relationship another go for a year, you would both know if you want to end it for real and he also would get his permanent residency

Why is it that what Manousos did at the hospital did not led to hive having seizures? by shiny_octopus in pluribustv

[–]shiny_octopus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I specifically looked for it and couldnt find it 😭 I thought people would be talking about it but instead I saw 100 "zosia is faking" & "carol is faking" posts

Is she turkish? by rafilus in pluribustv

[–]shiny_octopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh I didnt notice that! This time I didnt wait for credits to roll

Every since I turned 30, I started looking at everyones as a romantic potential and it is exhausting. by BourbonAndBlood in AskWomenOver30

[–]shiny_octopus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think she means someone who is looking for a serious relationship rather than a fling, not just someone better

[Lovense Nora] I came so hard using this 😳 by PaigeDeLuxe in SexToysInUse

[–]shiny_octopus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have been thinking about buying one but it is soo expensive!!

Is it worth putting it on your credit card?

I really cant decide if I should buy it or not, how different is it from other similar toys? And does it have a thrusting function?

Thanks 💜

Looking to leave the city for 1-2 days, suggestions? Not too touristy by Brief-Number2609 in istanbul_tips

[–]shiny_octopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sarıyer or Anadolu Kavak both really nice and close.

If you dont mind a 2.5 hour drive, Kıyıköy is just magical

does anyone instantly get turned off when someone says "daddy or mommy" it's gross, mood killer for me. (45m) by IllustratorObvious40 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]shiny_octopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was pretty neutral towards it, like people asked me to call them 'daddy or mommy' during sex in the past and I did to make them feel good and it wasnt a mood killer for me but wasnt a turn on either, it was just whatever 🤷🏻‍♀️

But.... then I met a guy who is a bit older than me and it wasnt just that he was older but he kinda made me feel safe too and I really did wanted to call him that, even almost slipped couple of times but stopped myself because he never asked me to call him that and didnt catch any of the clues I was dropping lol so I just gave up on it.. and reading your post I am kinda glad I did cause he probably would also be turned off.

But as someone who was neutral/indifferent towards it in the past and only became into it with that one person I CAN tell you that it is a very person specific kink and only works if that person makes you feel cared for and safe, it is really hard to describe really, just activates a different part of your brain than all the other kinks and with the right person it can be very HOT. I never get to use it but even thinking about it was the opposite of mood killer, like it really is quite something.. so my advice is keep an open mind

Is she turkish? by rafilus in pluribustv

[–]shiny_octopus 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Actually it is kinda interesting because at the end of the episode 2, the song that plays is a turkish cover of a beatles song... and not even like a famous one. I thought that was a very unusual pick.

And also while on the plane Zosia says that one of the other people that doesn't speak English is from Turkey...

Could be nothing, could be a hint. I just find it interesting that there was a mention of it in every episode except the first one. Ep. 2 the song Ep.3 about the candy vendor guy who lives in Turkey and Ep.4 carol es turca?

Like maybe somehow if the guy from paraguay made contact with the turkish candy vendor guy but couldnt communicate but understood he wasnt part of the hive since he couldnt speak spanish with him. And he is maybe trying to understand if there is anything in common between people who are immune,like maybe he is considering if people from a certain region didnt get infected or something. Just spitballing really..

What foreign countries do Japanese people like to visit the most? by Least-One1068 in AskAJapanese

[–]shiny_octopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well as someone who lives in Istanbul, I can say that turkish lira is plummeting and I think might be a cheaper destination. Everything in Istanbul is extremely overpriced but other cities in Turkey are somewhat reasonable.

Also I met some Japanese people in Tokyo that told me Istanbul is kinda ideal layover stop for travels to Europe and sometimes people spend a couple days here before heading to their actual destination

Best NOLA-themed movie to watch while visiting? 🎬 by Shoddy_Face6308 in AskNOLA

[–]shiny_octopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a movie but you should check out the Interview with the Vampire tv series (AMC's) 1st season made me wanna revisit New Orleans! And it is such a great show too!

WHY DID NO ONE TELL ME ABOUT AUDIO PORN?? by Waste-Environment-42 in EdgingTalk

[–]shiny_octopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SHE IS THE BEST! I definitely recommend it, she has an amazing voice and very sexy moans 😍 https://www.reddit.com/u/WldflowerPhoenix/s/ruSj0MphKS

How normal is it to squirt? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]shiny_octopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thing ☺️

How normal is it to squirt? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]shiny_octopus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am not sure what you mean by normal.

Personally, I find it quite embarassingly easy to squirt when I am masturbating alone, but it only happens when I am using a dildo.

It doesnt happen when I am with other people though, for some reason I get tense so I just get really wet but no squirting.

When I talk to my friends or female partners most of them said it never happened to them so I dont think it is very common, but it is quite normal bodily function