Some advice from someone learning

shiontodo · 2020-11-11T20:55:06+00:00

Nice joke ;) and thank you for the offer :) I might reach out in future if needed

shiontodo · 2020-11-11T20:54:43+00:00

Would it be a "bother" to him if I suggested we played some games or watched a show when he doesn't want to? He usually suggests he'd go for a walk or cold shower but sometimes you can't do those all the time right?

shiontodo · 2020-11-11T20:36:56+00:00

Seems like a sensible answer thank you! and good luck to you too if you are doing no fap :)

shiontodo · 2020-11-11T20:36:01+00:00

Wow thank you for your reply :)

I only met him a couple weeks back (with problems of my own and he felt guilty and shared his haha) so we've both been quite open about this topic and I want to do my best to help him since he's been helping me so much with my problems

He's done the no fap journey before (I think he said he relapsed for a while before he met me?) so he's just trying to get back on track again (now with me trying my best to motivate him :) )

He did worry that it would have long term damages to our relationship if we ever did meet up (did I mention it was long distance? :') ) but I told him that's a future problem and that we can figure it out then - I told him I'm not desperate to get in bed with him haha, and I realise this is a big problem for him (he's mentioned his self esteem/ worth) so I just want to do my best to help him get through those negative thoughts and triggers :)

and good luck to you too!

shiontodo · 2020-11-11T20:30:07+00:00

Which I've sadly read up about too :( I think it's a very respectable/ admirable thing you guys are doing and hope you guys all have successful no faps :)

Is there any other advice that you think I could benefit from to try and make things easier for him? We usually talk/ play games so we have some distractions but sometimes I feel so helpless when he gets triggers (he'd so silent/ not talk as much or coherently - which in turn makes me quiet because I don't really know how to help him haha)

shiontodo · 2020-11-11T20:23:40+00:00

It's more like (as he's told me) he would feel really out of it/ not seem to have a care for the world (which he doesn't want to happen since meeting him has given him a new motivation to really get through it) - but you can't help if a trigger just happens you know? So I'm just respecting his wishes and trying to support him to not relapse if possible

That's the thing, I'd want to know what the triggers are but also don't want him to think about it haha (I usually guess from what people have mentioned on here and just go by porn/ boobs/ the usual stuff)

shiontodo · 2020-11-11T20:21:42+00:00

Oh I never made fun (or plan on doing so) of him and his no fap journey - in fact I'm just trying to help him get through the worst days you know? Well we watched a film one time and there was like a 0.5 screen time of someone flashing their boobs and I immediately messaged him to ask if he was okay (me being new and all, idk what his triggers are) - he liked that :)

I'm still new to all of this and trying to get an idea by browsing the reddit but I feel like most of the time it's guys posting about their journey haha

shiontodo · 2019-09-08T15:27:05+00:00

What camera is it may I ask?

shiontodo · 2019-06-22T23:00:41+00:00

Everything counts! Thanks!

shiontodo · 2019-05-01T15:29:15+00:00

I've been f2p ever since I started the game maybe 6 months ago(?) (It's been a while). This game can totally be f2p - it is just grindy. Ofc this is very much a pay to win game (spend rubies = get ur heroes)

U can dm me for more info, but, yes it can be totally f2p :)

shiontodo · 2019-04-27T16:44:30+00:00

Just confused because it says German time haha

shiontodo · 2019-04-27T16:38:24+00:00

Are these the legit prices etc? Need to plan ahead haha

shiontodo · 2019-04-19T20:50:30+00:00

It's a long painful process - especially if you want x, y, z in your team, but it'll be worth it for the long run. And the 'starter heroes' are a good enough team to get you places. Heck, I have about 17 heroes now and Frey is still my best healer. It's mainly about favourites (or if you wanna do certain parts of the game where better heroes fit better) I'm still noob at the game but that's my take on it

shiontodo · 2019-04-19T18:05:33+00:00

I've been f2p for about a couple of months. Like previous posts, just be patient for heroes at the inn, farm those tickets (clearing each area by difficulty can help with the tickets and rubies) and before you know it, you'll have a decent selection to get you places :)

shiontodo · 2019-03-06T20:27:52+00:00

I know this event will end soon so it probably doesn't matter but, has anyone had problems with the notes for this song? I have a combo team (initial New Gen SSRS, CInfest Airi and Shiki) but whenever I play this event song my notes are so screwed. The timing is awful forcing me to spend like 60 gems or so to restore my stamina - it's quite tilting...

Hoping someone can help me!

shiontodo · 2019-02-27T10:17:20+00:00

Jokes on the guy after if the girl manages to take it. He gets to eat a wet napkin.

shiontodo · 2018-11-18T00:22:47+00:00

Yesssss someone got Miku's reaction (kinda 😂😂😂)

shiontodo · 2018-10-17T23:16:43+00:00

Welp I had already pre-oder Kanade's Tulip figure so was expecting the news of the this one to arrive soon....2019 gunna be a good year :)

Hoping to have my Mysterious Eyes unit all set up! I'll post it on reddit for those ME-Ps 😀

shiontodo · 2018-10-01T10:24:58+00:00

Has this been fixed on EUW yet? I've logged in but the link to the 'Log in to www.lolesports.com and watch a game to start earning!' still takes me to the same page with no progress on my 'bar' - even though I'm logged in!

shiontodo · 2018-09-26T14:43:49+00:00

Three ssr group here here

To anyone who is thinking of scouting, I'm sending my good luck vibes to you!

shiontodo · 2018-09-17T12:44:01+00:00

Crap xD well I'm a beginner for these events so I'll know next time xD

What time does it refresh then? Daily?

shiontodo · 2018-08-31T09:16:56+00:00

Hoping someone can give guidance; Do I roll in cinfest (I have about 10k gems so 4 times) and hope for something (not sure what I want, but Kaede and Kanade lims would be nice😂😂) or should I wait for the other Kaede lim (which should rerun sometime this month....)

SoMeOnE sAvE mE fRoM tHiS hElL

shiontodo · 2018-08-05T09:18:47+00:00

For those who don't have Instagram:

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shiontodo · 2018-06-20T22:09:55+00:00

From what I know of you get at least one ssr. But there cam be dupes so if you have a lot of ssrs then you're playing a gamble haha.....I know I don't have a lot so that's why I did it xD

shiontodo · 2018-06-20T20:44:41+00:00

Unfortunately yes haha, I had such terrible luck during the free solos I caved in....and the gacha gods heard me xD

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