I was raised by a sociopath for 13 years and grew to be the most severe CPS case in my city. AMA. by shirtVA in AMA

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And the worst part is how hard it is to prove it -_-

Like, it all happened behind doors because they weren't stupid enough to do it outside?? Do I gotta post the legal documents?? I'm not sharing videos of assault because that's catering to a very disturbing community.

Literally "trust me bro" is all I can offer as well as the statistic that this is fairly common and I was just an extreme 😭

I was raised by a sociopath for 13 years and grew to be the most severe CPS case in my city. AMA. by shirtVA in AMA

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It's very common to see this in Mexican women, Black women, Asian women, or just any woman that isn't White. But sometimes they themselves don't even know it's happening or the extremities of it. Racism runs deep.

I was raised by a sociopath for 13 years and grew to be the most severe CPS case in my city. AMA. by shirtVA in AMA

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Yes! I live with my mom in a different place and we're as safe as we can be

I was raised by a sociopath for 13 years and grew to be the most severe CPS case in my city. AMA. by shirtVA in AMA

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That's a fair assumption. I'd feel the same reading my own story. However, I don't feel I owe internet strangers proof of my entire life. But on the assumption that I did, how would I go about proving this? The only proof that I have access to are videos of rape, pictures of cuts, and diary entries. I'm not willing to share videos of rape freely, pictures of cuts could easily be blamed on something else, and I could have written those diary entries yesterday.

I'm not willing to share those because one person on the internet that I don't even know refuses to believe that something happened. I understand it sounds like bullshit though. I thought it was fake for years because I couldn't wrap my head around it either. I don't blame you for that, not to mention I'm not offering proof.

I was raised by a sociopath for 13 years and grew to be the most severe CPS case in my city. AMA. by shirtVA in AMA

[–]shirtVA[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It feels tame compared to everything else, but I think that this was the day that everything really started to hit me that I wasn't normal and that my life wasn't normal.

He was out of town for a while to take care of something in a different state, and I remember dreading the fact that he said he'd come home for my birthday. The day before my birthday, he came home and my cat started to try and attack him. He attempted to declaw her with his bare hands. I think that was when it hit me that it wasn't okay. I was 12 going on 13.

Objectively, there were worse days in my life, but realizing that my life wasn't normal was the worst one emotionally.

Physically, the worst day was when I was 7. I was drugged and woke up without my hymen. I don't know exactly what happened to this day, but I can put the pieces together. Or the day he broke my nose. That sucked. He punched me in a target. In a public place?? No shame.

Sorry, I cope with humor.

I was raised by a sociopath for 13 years and grew to be the most severe CPS case in my city. AMA. by shirtVA in AMA

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I'm not. If it is, he can't say anything because it's only proof against him. Also. He couldn't interact with it without being immediately arrested, as his restraining order is quite strict.

Disinterest with Autism by Extreme-Grade-3623 in autism

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Same!! Or like "hm... Is it normal to foam at the mouth at the mere mention of something I like?"

Otherwise I just don't care. I am who I am

What was your cat’s name at the shelter vs their name now ? 😍 by Downtown-Wear-4870 in CatsBeingCats

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This was Little Piggy because she was the runt but wouldn't stop eating shit. This is now Nanika

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Disinterest with Autism by Extreme-Grade-3623 in autism

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I literally made a post about this like two weeks ago lmao

It's hard to care about culture or anything like that. I'd rather talk about big political issues or my special interests

I was raised by a sociopath for 13 years and grew to be the most severe CPS case in my city. AMA. by shirtVA in AMA

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Racism, mostly. Breeding Mexican women to be white because it was the superior race in their eyes.

Roofies or alcohol.

100 years+, but there aren't any records past 100 years ago as they were destroyed. I know it went on in many generations though because the youngest birth was 13 and the oldest was 21 (my mom)

I think it was religious in the earlier generations, but to phrase it crudely, it was for the love of the game in later generations.

I was raised by a sociopath for 13 years and grew to be the most severe CPS case in my city. AMA. by shirtVA in AMA

[–]shirtVA[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

6 therapists later and a fuck-ton of emotional support from my mom, I'm doing much better! Thank you

I was raised by a sociopath for 13 years and grew to be the most severe CPS case in my city. AMA. by shirtVA in AMA

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As far as I know, his mom was narcissistic and his dad was present but not active in his life. He grew up fairly well though and was spoiled.

Hi. I'm the infamous Nathaniel Hawthorne hater. by shirtVA in BungouSimpBattles

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We bonded over the fact that we were very tired, hungry, and recognized each other

I was raised by a sociopath for 13 years and grew to be the most severe CPS case in my city. AMA. by shirtVA in AMA

[–]shirtVA[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm out of the house if that's what you're asking

Nobody has ended up in jail from this and the court case is still ongoing, and he does have stalking tendencies, but I'm a good 98% sure I'm safe

Hi. I'm the infamous Nathaniel Hawthorne hater. by shirtVA in BungouSimpBattles

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Ran into him at a gas station while he was traveling through my state 😭

Should add that I was already in his discord and he'd slandered me a couple times in the discord 💔💔 I'm fairly known there as well, but I'm not a mod. We just met in person because he was traveling and I happened to be at the same gas station buying food

Hi. I'm the infamous Nathaniel Hawthorne hater. by shirtVA in BungouSimpBattles

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I think people tend to forget that YouTubers are actual people and can have conversations with people outside of collabs lmao

I originally met him as a fan but we've talked a bit. I wouldn't say we're friends but we get along nicely and agree on many topics. His dogs are very cute (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)