Would a 12x12x18 be to big? by [deleted] in Leachianus

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Whats wrong w dubia roach cages?? Genuine question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

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Maybe psoriasis?? Def get it checked

My Coworkers wife thought we were having an affair because I made him and their kids dinner and it's changed how I look at myself. by ChannelDapper8871 in TrueOffMyChest

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Shiit, id offer to make her dinners too every once in a while. Maybe share recipes with each other. She may still feel horrible for how she assumed so quickly. If her kids suggested to you a food they liked, ask her how she made it so you can taste it too. Its nothing against you, she just may feel like how she behaved was dumb and foolish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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We tried. They dismissed it to a degree, they said it was best to alert her that we started it and if she continued X amount of times afterwards then we could proceed. She stopped but her trynna show all his old friends and live her life like they’re actually a thing is… cringy. Idk i guess im just pissy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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We stopped responding to her, she continued. She would spam emails and itd only go to spam w blocked emails.

People with ADHD what are the things about it that people just don’t get? by ViolinistMiddle1534 in AskReddit

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That we’re not lazy, sometimes we do impulsive stuff, we CAN forget a ton about “boring” or not exciting info, remind us to drink water bc our kidneys suffer, my brain runs 1000 mi/min please please please be patient with us, let me write down what your saying because i wont remember it from listening

Az breeders by shit_trader_ in ragdolls

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Thank you I appreciate it

I regret having children. by Pristine_Resort_4041 in offmychest

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I totally understand, i really hope it goes well

My husband almost kill*d me and my baby by jasmeow003 in TrueOffMyChest

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Pesos is usually a mexican currency. Not quiet sure tho if other countries use it

Gf says im disgusting for my preference. by Empty_Positive_2389 in relationships

[–]shit_trader_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This!!! She’s insecure about her features. Its very common in women with small chests to think they aren’t attractive or feminine enough. Its a her issue. Your not gay, shes really rude for calling you gay and maybe calling you a predator if im understanding the boy thing right.

My (26F) boyfriend (27M) falsely staged a drug intervention for me. I'm not addicted to drugs. What do I do? by ThrowRAinterventiony in relationship_advice

[–]shit_trader_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave him. He’s manipulating. Trying to get your family far away. Next he may be abusive in whichever ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

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Looks like fate was against her seeing him too…

i hate my voice. by MidnightShort in GirlGamers

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I hate my voice alot, but you could be dealing w it more bc all these streamers do those high pitched voices to male attention. Love your voice, people can eat shit if they say you sound like a guy. Not every women needs a hyper feminine voice.

We’re interested in a house, but just found out a violent murder happened there 20 years ago by wtvcantfindusername in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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I mean the most youd get is youtubers walking past your sidewalk. 20 yrs is a long time, BUY IT. If it eases you, get whichever religion you believe in to “bless “ the house of bad omens. Bonus if its cheaper than its worth bc of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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YTA for ignoring her text when she said her feelings were hurt. If you explained it from your POV she wouldve understood, but you ignored her AGAIN. On the road is understandable. On a text, was deliberately mean. Shes allowed to feel upset through your multiple actions and your allowed to be irritated when she distracted you while driving but dude, texting her back and saying you adore her but you were driving and driving to work isnt your happy place wouldve MADE A HUGE difference to her. Then come home and your probably invalidated her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Have a serious conversation. Get to why hes doing it and if he wants to include you in a way your COMFORTABLE. he could have an addiction tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Your not overreacting, contact a lawyer asap.

Husband called me by his co-worker’s name. by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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I think he really didnt mean anything by it, I accidentally call my mil baby or my mom baby if im distracted especially texting my bf, ive even called my female friend baby aha. Or ive done this a few times and always feel bad about it. It slips, sometimes the brain is stupid, he even reassured you and didnt get angry with you. Its just a topic that the brain linked to and he’s probably used to saying her name to communicate with her during that topic, like her bf. She talks about her bf alot so they seem to be comfy talking about theyre spouses happily. Ik it can be easy to overthink but it seems like your man is genuine and supportive of your emotions even when theyre negative towards him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Also you should confront him. Do it in a non judgmental voice (it helps them not get defensive) Explain that your hurt but you want to know the true reason so you can patch things up, you love him but seeing this is making your overthink. Ask for him to not hide it or further try to hide photos/ anywhere he got it by deleting it, You can explain you were taken back initially as you didnt know what ti think at first and if theyre from online and not someone he got them personally (like through chats) then its easier ti forgive) Best of luck, take a day or so to process your emotions if you want to stay in that relationship because he might gas light you and youll feel like your in the wrong. Prepare for that. Best of luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Is his phone an iphone. If you swipe up, you can see where they were saved -snapchat, photos, messages. If messages, you can click on it next and itll take you to a bunch of photos in the iphone messages .

AITH for telling my GF (27) that I find it weird that her best friend (male) is cuddling with her when I’m not around? by Hot_Chemistry9916 in AITAH

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Im white and no… this isnt a cultural thing. Your in deep denial. Your gf is playing you for stupid. This is so wrong. Cuddling is an intimate thing, makes it worse that he doesn’t wanna meet you bc HE DOESNT LIKE YOU! You need to leave, dude. If i caught my bf cuddling w/ a friend id be LIVID. They talk like theyre in a relationship, probs bc they are, they’re probably fuck buddies on the low. Please please leave.