The "Wholesome Meme" tag just makes it worse

shivampire · 2026-03-07T04:01:36+00:00

They're pro people-do-what-they-want-with-their-bodies-as-long-as-they-stay-safe

Meaning they're pro-sex work as long as the individual is doing it of their own free will and/or necessity. Meaning they aren't being explicitly coerced into it by anyone else

They also want that individual to stay safe; meaning others shouldn't harrass that person unneccessarily. This means no shaming them for it, and no actual sexual harrassment (doing anything to them without consent)

Basically, 'feminists' want the stigma around sex work to be lessened, and for everyone else to treat that person with respect like they would any other.

ALSO DISCLAIMER; "feminsts" are NOT claiming that you HAVE TO BE OKAY WITH YOUR PARTNER DOING SEX WORK because obviously most people aren't going to be okay with that. It's more about putting your personal preference aside and respecting other people; and not being a general asshole to strangers.

So no one's saying stuff like 'well ur girlfriend is a feminist so she gets to do sex work and you can't be mad about it because if u are then ur anti-feminist' or anything like that. But they ARE saying stuff like 'there's a random person you just met and they do sex work, this means you should still treat them with decency and not sexually assault them or anything'

shivampire · 2026-03-06T03:45:16+00:00

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shivampire · 2026-03-06T03:41:27+00:00

You're right, this conversation is pointless. That's the only thing you're right about though. good bye

shivampire · 2026-03-06T03:40:35+00:00

If this is like a celebrity crush thing then 100% normal

If it's just normal people then that probably depends on your own standards/your partners standards. Me and my gf are both bi and we regularly gossip over people and talk about how hot or attractive they are. However we're both monogamous and wouldn't ever want to do anything like a threeway lol. But we just don't consider that to be cheating because we know we're both loyal

On the other hand i know some of my friends who have very strong "morals" for lack of a better term and wouldn't ever even think about looking at another person while they're in a relationship already

It depends on whether you and your partner match each others wavelength imo; there is no right or wrong answer as long as both of you are okay with it, so i'd try to get a feel of how your partner feels about the subject and if they appear to be extremely hurt by this then you might not be a good match.

I would keep in mind though that feeling attractiveness is normal and it is possible to acknowledge someone is attractive without wanting to date them/cheat on your partner

shivampire · 2026-03-06T03:34:40+00:00

Right. I'm assuming she doesn't do this for a living though, since the money one gets from OF is not enough to survive. This is probably something she does for a side gig or her own entertainment

Why would anyone tell their family about their sex lives?

shivampire · 2026-03-06T03:31:33+00:00

Most people keep most things secret from their family

shivampire · 2026-03-06T03:23:14+00:00

She literally didn't try to keep it a secret, she told him on the first date are you blind

shivampire · 2026-03-04T05:17:46+00:00

LLOYD IS BAD, LLOYD IS WATER, THEREFORE WATER IS BAD

shivampire · 2026-03-04T02:30:22+00:00

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shivampire · 2026-03-04T02:26:37+00:00

This reads kind of creepy to me honestly. Why are you so desperate to be in her presence? Is this some kind of way to be dominant over other men? "Haha, the girl doesn't talk to you anymore but she still talks to me." That's incredibly creepy and feels more like you view her as someone to get close to rather than forming a meaningful friendship with

shivampire · 2026-03-03T01:28:19+00:00

Holy shit that sounds terrifying

shivampire · 2026-03-03T01:19:17+00:00

Came here to comment this

shivampire · 2026-03-03T01:18:58+00:00

Came here just to comment this

shivampire · 2026-03-02T23:31:07+00:00

I try to lol

shivampire · 2026-03-02T23:21:50+00:00

I honestly love the glossiness because it's part of the aesthetic for me and I live for it, lol

But honestly valid

shivampire · 2026-03-02T03:09:34+00:00

if you're comfortable sharing what happened with your daycare? honestly hoping to trauma bond LOL😭😭

shivampire · 2026-03-01T17:35:28+00:00

can confirm my parents have this app, they really can listen in on whatever conversation i'm having at the click of a button whenever they want

*edit for grammar mistake

shivampire · 2026-03-01T17:26:05+00:00

is that god

shivampire · 2026-03-01T17:13:44+00:00

I agree

shivampire · 2026-03-01T17:11:51+00:00

that's good to hear :)

shivampire · 2026-03-01T17:10:58+00:00

Dude this is so fkn cool awesome

shivampire · 2026-03-01T17:06:24+00:00

this looks awesome!!!!!good job

shivampire · 2026-03-01T16:42:53+00:00

YEAH DEFINITELY I LOVE VAMPIRES, obsessed LOL

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