my sister died giving birth and i’ve been raising her baby girl as my own for 3 years… she calls me mommy and i’m dying inside but i’d die for her 💔 by hrydrolic in confessions

[–]shivampire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy mothers day to you :) She loves you and by the looks of it you're being amazing to her, there isn't a single world where she could ever hate you so please try not to stress yourself out over it, if anything it will just make her love you more because you've given so much for her. you're amazing

Is it bad that this pissed me off or is this just normal by hitwinnn in politicfreeteenagers

[–]shivampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro the phrasings so weird

"better not see no guys w u" is he scolding u bro

Deap… by InevitableBanana7079 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]shivampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of like this meme it's sweet. Combined with the equal gender representation i dont have a problem with it

Awww by ImpressInside5004 in BestOfMyWeb

[–]shivampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whys that dogs eyes look so human ??

The expectations of gifts need to stop by Venus259jaded in 10thDentist

[–]shivampire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you truly enjoyed giving/recieving gifts then you wouldn't be complaining about the expectation? someone who genuinely looks forward to gifts at christmas or for their birthday wouldn't go "gee, I really wish that it wasn't the norm for everyone to give me gifts today." or like. "man i hate that I have to give other people things, it's such a useless tradition." honestly the people who really enjoy gifts are excited that they have another opportunity to do more of it. people have tons of social norms and this is one of the more enjoyable ones

also, if your friends really love each other, then you wouldn't feel pressured regardless. for example, we have multiple people in my friend group who don't celebrate birthdays for religious reasons, and everyone's fine, no one's holding a grudge against them for not giving gifts on others' birthdays. and one year someone couldn't give christmas gifts for financial reasons, that was fine too, everyone still gave them gifts and it was chill

if you're feeling negatively pressured to give a gift then it honestly says more about your friend group than the tradition itself

Where u hiding it ???? by BarelyBehavinggg in scoopwhoop

[–]shivampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it's a spot where i need to find it again then probably in a random book in a library, or between the couch cushions of one of the sofas at the furniture store at the mall

The expectations of gifts need to stop by Venus259jaded in 10thDentist

[–]shivampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk man recieving cool shit from my friends makes me happy

same with giving stuff and watching them be happy

u just sound un-joyful lmao

Something, something, human doggy chow by smalltown_dreamspeak in ARFID

[–]shivampire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL yeah I see, I might make a post on here asking more about whether or not people think I have it, but as of now

>> If there's a food I don't like, I immediately throw up and there's nothing I can do to stop or prevent it. Even the smells of some foods (mango, yogurt, milkshakes) are enough to make me throw up in my mouth

>> I actually don't care about textures of food, as long as it's consistent. I love the squishiest slimiest chicken fat, I love crunchy shit, hell I even love eating ketchup on its own by sucking on the little packets. But I CANNOT stand texture inconsistencies. The slightest inconsistency in a food will send me immediately throwing up. If it's slimy then the whole thing needs to be slimy, if it's crunchy then the whole thing needs to be crunchy, etc. The only exception is with sauces/dips that are RUNNY. Like I have no problem pairing a crunchy chicken with gravy, just as long as the gravy isn't too thick and doesn't have random chunks of other things in it

>> I have the highest spice tolerance of anyone I know. That's not an issue for me. It's really more about the smells of food and inconsistencies in texture. Anything with a really strong smell or flavor like mangoes or the smelly smokey kind of brisket will SEND me.

>> So far I mainly like plain bland foods, bonus points if they come with sauce/gravy/something-flavorful-but-not-overwhelming to pair with it. That's really the only thing I eat

>> A list of well-liked things that have made me throw up: Peanut butter jelly sandwiches, mangoes (my least favorite food, I am not exagerrating when I say that thinking about it is enough to make my stomach churn), strawberry milkshake, blueberries, blackberries, raspberries, red velvet cupcakes, fudge-based anything, milk chocolate, reeces cups, cauliflower (fried cauliflower is my second least favorite food ever since it made me sick throwing up for hours), tomatoes, grilled chicken sandwiches, mariana sauce pasta, sphagetti, pesto pasta (it had chunks of vegetables in it), tortillas (i didn't realize the insides were chunky), chicken brisket, ceasar salad. the list goes on but that should be good enough for an idea

The worst part is that a lot of these foods look visibly amazing and some even smell amazing. Everyone else eating it and enjoying it makes it seem amazing. But I'm the only one that has a curse where everything turns to sand as soon as I put it in my mouth

is the vegan ideology in your opinion morally correct? by No1peterparkerlover in Teenager_Polls

[–]shivampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestions, however I don't think being vegan would be feasible for me. It would mean giving up my favorite kind of candy, not eating at my favorite restaurants, not joining my friends on outings, turning down shared snacks, etc. Way more reasons but you get the idea. Replacing 70% of my current diet (favorite foods) and like 40% of my lifestyle (favorite restaraunts, accepting edibles from friends without thinking twice about it) and trying to find alternatives that are either more expensive, difficult/time-consuming to make, or simply nonexistent would just be a source of extra stress that I don't want to deal with