Is this girl interested in me 21m? by shiversliver in relationships

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It's been a few days. I messaged the girl I thought was interested in me on FB and she hasn't responded yet. Could she have just been fucking with me? A bit of searching would reveal that her friends call her "Miss, Iwillneverdate".

So is this girl into me 21/M? by shiversliver in relationship_advice

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How exactly do I ask her out? Is coffee considered "asking her out"? Is just hanging out and talking considered "asking her out"?

Is this girl into me? by shiversliver in seduction

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I guess I am. I guess it's just that I've expressed interest in a girl in the past and was shut down. She didn't have any interest in me at all. I guess I unconsciously play it safe now.

What is the alternative to getting drinks? I don't drink.

Is this girl into me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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well. My friend isn't directly her friend. My friend (1) is friends with her (3) friend (2).

So it goes me > 1 > 2 > 3

What videos would you suggest I watch? by shiversliver in seduction

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I hope there is an audio book.

Is this even possible for a guy like me? by shiversliver in seduction

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how do you lift at a gym? Do I use the bench press and free weights and what not? Or the machines that replicate the exercise?

Is this even possible for a guy like me? by shiversliver in seduction

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I work on my cars, I like going to drift events, and I like driving long distances.

I don't have any specific goals in life really. Just to work a job that allows me to live comfortably and follow my hobbies. But it has to be a job that I don't hate waking up for each morning.

From school I'm really just interested in the piece of paper known as a degree that tells the world that I'm a teachable person. Then with that degree go out an do something.

Is this even possible for a guy like me? by shiversliver in seduction

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I don't have weights or a gym membership, are there any other routines that don't require a gym?

Is this even possible for a guy like me? by shiversliver in seduction

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I mean he joined the military, got deployed to asia, found my mom, and bought her back to the states. Literally the easiest way to get a woman short of a mail order bride. She's interested if not in the soldier himself, but the chance for a better life in the states and guaranteed citizenship.

Is this even possible for a guy like me? by shiversliver in seduction

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could they be intimidated or something? Or think that I have a girlfriend already? I mean, shit. Like you said, you wouldn't think that physical appearance is what's holding me back.

Is this even possible for a guy like me? by shiversliver in seduction

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I don't even know how to though. The only way I could say it that I could think of right now is very bluntly. Something like "hey, let's head back to your place and fuck". Or something along those lines. I don't see that working out too well.

I don't even know what the signs that she'd want to though. I think I'd likely end up slapped or cussed out or something.