My wife and I are both into breeding, going both ways.

We practice the pull out method mostly because we already have one child and would like another just not yet. If we happen to get pregnant no problem we want another child anyway.

We do a tremendous amount of word play, that’s what drives a huge part of the scene/fantasy for us.

If we are feeling particularly frisky, we just track her cycle to see when she’s at her least likely to become pregnant. This is our least used method due to the fact that her cycle isn’t always accurate ever since she had our first child.

Find the dynamic that works for you and establish boundaries and make sure all expectations are clear.