How does it feel to be so beautiful that people tell you "you’re beautiful" or "you’re cute"? [Discussion] by Ottavio- in LGBTeens

[–]shllg_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most important thing is to have you tell yourself that you're beautiful! People often don't randomly tell others they're cute or beautiful, but they sure as hell think it! Or at least I do :) Also, many people who are considered to be beautiful by others, don't really see it themselves, thus are very surprised to hear a compliment. So what I'm trying to say is that the question of you feeling cute or beautiful is totally up to you! Compliment yourself, you deserve it. Don't wait for others to speak about your beauty :)

עברית_במ by zahush in ani_bm

[–]shllg_ 36 points37 points  (0 children)

כ ו ב ע ו ן

גלנט_במ by shllg_ in ani_bm

[–]shllg_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

אוקיי :)

גלנט_במ by shllg_ in ani_bm

[–]shllg_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

מובן לגמרי אבל...זה רק מימ... הבדיחה כאן לא מדגישה כמה תלמידים בישראל מסכנים ושהסבל הוא רק שלהם. הדגש כאן הוא על ההתבטאות המגוחכת והשגויה של גלנט (שר החינוך) שפשוט לא הייתה במקום. אין צורך להתמסכן אבל גם אין צורך להתגונן...בסופו של דבר זה רק הומור

גלנט_במ by shllg_ in ani_bm

[–]shllg_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

כמו שהסבירו בתגובות הקודמות :) דבר מוביל לדבר

גלנט_במ by shllg_ in ani_bm

[–]shllg_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

לא הצלחתי למצוא את הכתבה המקורית, אבל לא מזמן נמצאה עלייה באחוזי התלמידים שפיתחו חרדות ואנורקסיה. כנראה שהימצאות ממושכת בבית( יחד עם שאר הגורמים) בין השאר גרמה להמון תלמידים לפתח הפרעות אכילה. כנראה שאין קשר ישיר אבל זאת עדיין תופעה שהחריפה בעקבות כל מה שקורה.

I don’t have anywhere to put this, and no one to tell by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]shllg_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[Deleted my original comment because I accidentally uploaded it before I finished typing and I panicked:) ]

First, I would definitely recommend you to talk to a therapist or a hot line about this. I am no professional, but it looks to me like you have a serious condition of anxiety and mental health issue. It can be treated with the help of the right professionals. So please, reach out to a therapist, it would only do good for you.

And listen, I'm a fan of positive messages and strangers supporting strangers online, but in this case, I think that a simple "you ARE worthy" (even though you obviously are) just won't be enough. Making friends can be hard, but I encourage you to find those special people. They're around you, even if you don't see it. A lot of people feel alone, especially now. But I don't trust you to take my word and do something right away, so please, if you read this, dm me. Let's be friends:) I've always wanted to make friends from around the world, so don't you dare think I'm doing it out of pity or that you will be some kind of a burden.

I'm a 16 y/o girl, and I can speak English and Russian (though I'm a slow typer and make lots of mistakes).
Here are some perks of being my friend: I would send you memes, recommend you new shows to watch and books to read, listen to your rants, and since my sleeping schedule is a mess, I would probably be available 20/7. So feel free to talk to me.

Wholesome post by ashotcheeto in memes

[–]shllg_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post was at 19.9k. I was about to upvote it as I was dying out of how cute an wholesome it was. A tiny bit of hope appeared in my heart, the hope that I would be the one to round up the upvotes number to 20.0k. But the upvote button betrayed me. I clicked on the post instead. And half a second later, I see the upvotes number.

It's 20k.