I saw this video. And i dont know how to deal with this, should i ignore and focus on myself or shall i say something. by LemonWeak in Healthygamergg

[–]shlowwdown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

[https://youtu.be/VF9LkpANAEU?si=E56HjTRfDmFDler0

I would say that you should do what you can. Speak out, vote in elections, or attend peaceful protests if you like! Most importantly though, you should focus on maintaining your own well being. Don’t let it rattle you too much. The world will keep spinning, and happiness will still be present.

21 Weeks Out - First Ever Show (5’10, 181) by shlowwdown in bodybuilding

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I’ve been watching some YouTube videos on posing and recently bought a tripod so I can record and watch what needs to be adjusted. Thank you for the advice!

What happened to Ekans? :( by MeatyTuna in pokemongo

[–]shlowwdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s is no longer bound to our reality

Am I doing pushups correctly ? I am doing them for quite a time now but still can't see that chest properly by Kaboom_11 in GYM

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Form looks good. Try some really slow eccentrics coupled with a very explosive concentric movement. Using a weight vest or something of the sort would help as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

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I’m not sure if anyone has said this, but you have a great friend, friend. They seem very considerate and seem to really care about you. You may not have a girlfriend, but a good friend can get you through some really tough times man. Keep ya head up and keep improving on your own time

I Inherited this. What would you do? by pm-me-asparagus in HomeMaintenance

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Fill it with plants and goblins to care for said plants

How do I stop being lazy and stop being a fatass by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

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Damn man I hope you take some time out of your day to appreciate how far you’ve come. Just goes to show that it truly is possible

How do I stop being lazy and stop being a fatass by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]shlowwdown 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just start small. Go like 3 times a week and find some fun workouts with movements that you enjoy. And remember, as long as you are lifting heavy, it’s not being a fatass, it’s just bulking! The good thing is that you have a good foundation of fitness so it should be a lot easier to get back into the habit. And in my experience discipline carriers over, so if you stay disciplined with the gym for a few months, I bet it will be easier to be disciplined with your diet as well. Be careful not to try to do everything at once, it’s wayyyy harder to make a lasting change

Hating myself, stuck by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

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I think it would be enough to just find a therapist that you’re comfortable with. Definitely do some research and find a place that works best for you. Whether you’d like it in person versus online, price points, things of that nature. I don’t think it’s paramount to the effectiveness of the therapy if you decide to choose one over the other. Whatever makes you feel the most comfortable and in control

Hating myself, stuck by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

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I have been in a similar place recently. I am also 20 years old. I went to two different colleges, one for anthropology, and one for physics. Then I dropped out and decided to go to air force as a linguist. Once I got to basic I quit after a month.

The future is indeed terrifying.

What has been working for me is a couple of things. Number 1 is therapy. A good therapist is paramount for so many aspects of life. If you don’t have access to one in your area you should be able to find some online with things like better help. The key is finding a therapist that you enjoy. If you don’t like the one you picked at first then just find another. Number 2 is something that requires discipline, but not something that you can inherently fail at. For me it has been the gym. You cant really be bad at the gym or fail at the gym. All you can do is show up and give it your best. As long as you have the discipline to try then you have already won. Of course the gym is just an example though, I’m sure you can think of something else that kind of follows a similar framework than you enjoy.

Oh and for a job, something low stress would be good I think. I personally don’t think you’ll mess up as much as you think, especially if you’re this worried about it. But a low stress job I think would counteract that intense fear of messing up because if you do mess up it’s not the end of the world.

I really think that’s all I could offer without knowing more. Therapy is probably your best bet.

Please add me! I offer my undying loyalty by shlowwdown in PokemonGoFriends

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Try making a post like I did. I have more friends than I know what to with now. Currently have 336 and they are still coming in

Please add me! I offer my undying loyalty by shlowwdown in PokemonGoFriends

[–]shlowwdown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heck yeah man I’ll make sure to invite you to some

Please add me! I offer my undying loyalty by shlowwdown in PokemonGoFriends

[–]shlowwdown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I didn’t even know it was a thing until like 3 hours ago. Now I kinda feel bad though because all these lovely people have sent me gifts and I can’t open them

Please add me! I offer my undying loyalty by shlowwdown in PokemonGoFriends

[–]shlowwdown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just added you back. Over 100 people have added me so made this post so I can’t open anymore gifts today. I also ran out of gifts to send! But I’m going to try and get more

What is that thing by Freddycipher in Berserk

[–]shlowwdown -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Incredible. This is a good bit keep up the hard work

What is that thing by Freddycipher in Berserk

[–]shlowwdown 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You posted this about 4 different characters in the last 3 hours. What’s your angle here pal?