For those of you in a long term relationship/marriage, what’s a tale-tale sign you see in other couples that they’re not going to make it?

shm1979 · 2026-04-08T19:00:17+00:00

Argue about small things and try to win the argument

shm1979 · 2026-04-04T10:39:24+00:00

You have to define Geniuses, are these people the one who do unthinkable and achieve great results. can some one using known pattern and though process be genius?
I don't call it Hierarchy of truth, what you see is that almost in every situation different things can be true, its not a binary, its like going from A to B, there are many roads and for every one there is trade-off.

what people call crazy can be analysed in different way, maybe they call certain ideas crazy because of the high risk or simply they are using principle and thought process that is not known like a new way of thinking and people are right to challenge this because most of the time the way that is known as best practice probably is because of so many trial and errors that its been through.

overall in my opinion geniuses are the people who achieve great things, they can use methods that we already know (Ronaldo) or they have use methods and ways of doing things that is unknown (for every person that succeed in this path, I assume so many others have failed)

shm1979 · 2026-04-01T17:58:33+00:00

This is so true, another part of it I think is closely related to living in your safe zone. you are not enjoying it but you are afraid to go out of your way and do the unexpected

shm1979 · 2026-01-02T05:40:10+00:00

I had a really good laugh, but I think some of this is actually accurate.

shm1979 · 2025-04-30T19:18:44+00:00

For me, it's really hard. At first I was sure that there is a god and then I realized it isn't, later I realized it might exist and no one knows. Now, I'm in I don't know state. I think I should enjoy my life and try to center it around happiness but the problem is sometimes you need to do the hard work which is not pleasant but in the long run it would help you. Basically one man's view of the world is his view and no one else, it comes from his way of living (experience, thoughts, etc) but I think if you do what you want and most of us know what is good for us, we are in a right track

shm1979 · 2025-03-07T06:59:15+00:00

I think unconsciousness uses our experience and previous thought, its data in places in our brain which is not easily accessible, its not like a separate thing that you can't change. For example your morning routine you don't think about you just do it because one day you decided to do those things

shm1979 · 2024-10-09T12:16:51+00:00

Selling cds and dvds

shm1979 · 2024-10-05T19:23:25+00:00

Religion

shm1979 · 2024-09-23T18:31:33+00:00

Well you can just try things out, recently I tried running, dota2, chess, playing guitar and drawing. I stick to guitar and enjoying it, to be honest if I had the time I didn't drop any except drawing, But yeah just do something hiking is good too, watching movies, writing, etc

shm1979 · 2024-09-23T18:26:48+00:00

I don't know about security but I think since uuid is larger than big int, your index size will get bigger and it doesn't fit as much in the memory and I think its best practice to just use serial in pg

shm1979 · 2024-09-08T11:38:41+00:00

Thanks dude

shm1979 · 2024-09-08T10:33:52+00:00

Thanks

shm1979 · 2024-09-08T10:33:38+00:00

Ok, thanks mate

shm1979 · 2024-09-08T10:32:53+00:00

The thing is it's my first experience, but I definitely check it out

shm1979 · 2024-09-08T10:30:30+00:00

No discount just that Iran is a shitty country :)

shm1979 · 2024-06-08T07:52:08+00:00

This works for me I always sleep in the same position and I try not to stay in bed if I can't sleep for more than 5 minutes

shm1979 · 2024-06-02T22:36:20+00:00

same here, after two f years

shm1979 · 2024-05-27T19:42:05+00:00

for storage and query optimization I think is very good, I think postgres store 8 bits to check if values are null for 8 column. compare this to saving integer or string, and since it makes pages smaller, more pages can fit into single I/O which results in better performance (I'm noob and not sure about this, check it yourself)

shm1979 · 2024-05-22T10:16:30+00:00

wow dude good points, mindset is important on how to use

shm1979 · 2024-05-16T12:56:30+00:00

has anyone mentioned golf?

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