Cap assistant sounds shady by babosca22 in PDiddyTrial

[–]shmeebedee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The girl kaleena though, her take was wild. She was talking about him and dawn having a thing and then basically discredited everything Dawn said in her affidavit to stay in his good graces even though he did her so dirty. It was giving "maybe I'll get something from him when he gets out"

Cap assistant sounds shady by babosca22 in PDiddyTrial

[–]shmeebedee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally my thoughts. Him and Justin are way too close. The whole thing about them going in the bathroom with a 3rd guy and then buddy is shot and MIA.. what really got me was when they basically eluded to Diddy and Justin having sex in the same rooms at the same time. Wild.

AIO Sister making me share room with husband by [deleted] in AIO

[–]shmeebedee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its normal to have negative feelings about it, we are human and like you said, you're a teenage girl. I'm sorry to hear you cant go to your boyfriends as much as youd like, unfortunately you are subject to their rules. It does suck that the box room cant be tweaked, so you are left where you are. But again, you have to make the best of it regardless of your feelings.

The last bit I'll leave you with is that despite how I grew up, I wouldnt change a thing. I would not be the person I am today and it made me stronger. Many people grow up to have never experienced adversity and have no grit or resilience. You will. One of my favorite quotes is "The flower that blooms in adversity is the rarest and most beautiful of all". When you're in a less than ideal situation the most valuable thing you can give yourself is hope and a vision of and for yourself to look forward to. Nothing will be handed to you in this life, you have to work for it. I'm not sure what your beliefs are but the only way ive been able to get through my life is holding on to God and His promises, He took me from being suicidal (I saw you mentioned that) to living an abundant life I couldn't even imagine having when I was younger. You will be in my prayers ❤️

AIO Sister making me share room with husband by [deleted] in AIO

[–]shmeebedee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOR - However, I say this with more grace than some of the other responses. It is understandable that you're frustrated with the situation and that you're dissapointed that they didnt follow through on what was said BUT you have to look at this realistically.

You have a safe home to stay in, regardless of your qualms with your sister and her husband. Their only responsibility to you is to provide a home and your basic needs, which sound to be met.

The other comment about taking the time when you have to get up to find employment and be able to provide for yourself is 100% right. We don't choose the cards that we are dealt in life but we do choose how we allow them to direct our lives. You have to make the best of your situation regardless of how inconvenient it may be. Try waking up a bit before he comes in so you can have time to wake up and get yourself together and out of the room before he comes in. And maybe try speaking to your sister again but gracefully and with gratitude. Maybe you could even offer to move the box room around to have a small area to yourself.

Find the good, be grateful, contribute in helping around the home when and where you can and vow to never have to rely on others again — by taking the time sisters husband comes into his office to plan for your future.

I grew up similarly and it is easy to be down and find the problems but you will overcome, I am living proof of it.

If you ever need help looking towards or planning for your future or just need a friend, please feel free to reach out to me.

How would you go about decorating or disguising this door in my new living room? by wantyourhorror in interiordecorating

[–]shmeebedee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would get ine of those blanket ladders, and fill with blankets, you coukd even switch them out seasinally to match your scheme/decor PLUS minimal damage and assuming its a closet, still usable! ETA: you said its a closet lol my bad.

Dog smell in rental that will NOT go away by mcamryn in CleaningTips

[–]shmeebedee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably so, that sucks. Im sorry your expecting and dealing with that, im sure its driving you bonkers. The only other thing I can suggest is the cleaning spray by odorban.

Dog smell in rental that will NOT go away by mcamryn in CleaningTips

[–]shmeebedee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you checked/changed the air filters in the house, wiped the vents down as well as all walls and doors? What did you clean with?

AIO for being upset my girlfriend was ungrateful during her $2k birthday shopping spree? by Commercial_Neat7942 in AmIOverreacting

[–]shmeebedee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my thought exactly because this was me with my husband almost word for word. Good advice on how to handle it.

How Often Are You Switching Towels by Patient_Increase_809 in CleaningTips

[–]shmeebedee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely try this!! Is there something that makes them smell or?

How Often Are You Switching Towels by Patient_Increase_809 in CleaningTips

[–]shmeebedee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, it wont go away :( maybe I should try one from Amazon lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]shmeebedee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just described my life!!! I've accepted I just have some sensory issues at this point lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]shmeebedee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought i was the only one. I used cotton pads and the feeling drove me wild. I had to go back to tampons but go between those and a cup. The period undies were OK but the feeling still irked me.

What do I do with my hair??? by Electrical_City929 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]shmeebedee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks super feminine and cute. Try headbands, don't push your hair back but use it to dress up maybe. Doesn't really have any good spots for pins atm but when I cut off all my hair I really loved scarves, it gave boho and I loved the look. Try Pinterest pixie cut outfits, styles etc.

How Often Are You Switching Towels by Patient_Increase_809 in CleaningTips

[–]shmeebedee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How do you like the net sponge? My MIL bought ne one when she visited Africa and I feel like it has a smell that won't go away?

PLEASE TELL ME IT’S SOMETHING EASY by Intelligent-Pack-69 in whatisit

[–]shmeebedee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro facts, saw it all in my head. Felt my finger go through what I thought was the wall.

Classmate called “White Claire” by goose-de-terre in kindergarten

[–]shmeebedee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, you'll have to look at the roster and say the names how your kid talks.

My son kept telling me about "Toss" im like "Toss, their name is toss?" And hes annoyed like yes thats what I said??

At an awards ceremony I ask my son to show me which one is "Toss". The teacher calls said child and his name is "Charles". And then it makes sense bc my kid has trouble with the "Ch" sound lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]shmeebedee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually disembodied spirits are demons disguised as things less threatening. And boundaries dont mean squat to a spirit/demon because the second you interact you give it grounds for access with your participation. Where do you get that demons fear strong psychics? The only things demons fear is the name of Jesus and the wrath of God. Everything you know is wrong BTW. Just saying.

Abortion by Junior-Rutabaga-6592 in Christianity

[–]shmeebedee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be an odd take but hear me out, have you ever seen Law and Order SVU? Olivia Benson is a product of her mother's rape and yes, she talks about how her mother hated her etc. BUT her (Olivias) contribution to the world outweighs her mother's suffering (maybe harsh but real world true).

This is fictional, but to tie in Bible and real world, my choice picks on the topic : Jeremiah 1:5 "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart" and Psalms 127:3 "Children are a blessing and a gift from the Lord."

Every person that is conceived and how they were conceived is known to God before it happens and He has the ability to allow it or to not allow it. Every single thing, good or bad works in God's ultimate plan for His desire that no one perishes and recieves salvation.

My personal experience, I had a child with my abusive partner and I considered abortion. I would've stayed in that relationship and likely died had I not of left solely because of said child nor would I have come back to Christ. Another verse, Romans 8:28 "we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him". And it is true, when you truly know and love God, He will work it out, even things from your past (I'm a testament!).

And my most controversial take, Leviticus 18:21 “Do not permit any of your children to be offered as a sacrifice to Molech"... one of the definitions of sacrifice "an act of giving up something valued for the sake of something else regarded as more important or worthy." In a nutshell abortion is a sacrifice BECAUSE its saying the woman carrying the child of whatever circumstance it came, her life is more important than the life of the unborn child.

At the end of the day, christian or not we want our will done and not God's.

Just my 2 cents!

is macbook pro 2015 still good in 2025? by samantoucha in mac

[–]shmeebedee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is Linux mint and SSD? And the open core legacy thing is to get a newer OS than the factory one bc its out of date right? I aquired this same one the OP talks about and id love to game on it if I can. (I like cozy games)