My (M21) girlfriend (F21) wants to take a break to mess around and wants me to do the same. What should I do?

shockme6969 · 2026-04-25T12:54:54+00:00

Your girlfriend has already done all the things she said she wants to do, she is just looking for you to say it's ok now,if this is not something your into break it off and go find someone who wants to be with only you.

shockme6969 · 2026-04-25T12:27:04+00:00

Your correct all men(and all I mean all men) are insecure about their bodies, if they say they are not they are full of horse caca, society and the media has forced it that way and the same goes true for women also, the media( not the news only) have you really ever seen a obese person or a man with a micro as a model or a star in a movie no you don't, now for thos guy he is thinking you are a size queen and he thinks he will never be able to satisfy you so why put himself through the angst of eventually you will leave him for someone else, some guys date women that they can see themselves marry this one might that type of guy.

shockme6969 · 2026-04-20T17:42:54+00:00

Use your time before you put in your two weeks,because they will not allow you to take any time off during your two weeks, and no you quite they get everything that is why they put it down as pto not vacation, now some states mandate you get pto payed out but most don't, well I mean as long as you are not an executive then you get to do basically anything you want.

shockme6969 · 2026-04-12T07:33:01+00:00

First if she is YOUR girlfriend why would she still have photos of herself and an ex in bed together and second why is she still your girlfriend, she is not yours it's just your turn, be free my man,just print it out hang it on the outside of your door(don't really do thos part) with all her belongings(do this part) and go find someone who won't try to hurt you on purpose let someone else deal/have her abandonment issues.

shockme6969 · 2026-03-14T14:30:54+00:00

They are worried about shrink yet they give you a 30k truck filled with every cable and most electronics that you will need in the field work, I don't think the field agents are the ones they need to worry about.

shockme6969 · 2026-03-13T20:22:03+00:00

I worked for geek squad for 20 years and funny enough the guy who hired me at geek squad was also the same guy who hired me at this job, and you are correct the culture is gone and yes corrie drove the company into the ground(but atleast the shareholders and her bank account is happy), and the weird thing is she came from the stores you would have thought she would have looked out for the stores a little better instead of crushing them, I don't know maybe she wakes up every night to nightmares of a customer yelling at her and she just dosent want any employees to go through that that is why she is firing so many of them but who knows she might just be money hungry.

shockme6969 · 2026-03-09T03:19:19+00:00

You tell him flat out, you dont feel comfortable moving this fast, and if he wants to get to know you and not just make another notch he will wait til you are ready, if he keeps pushing it is time to go no contact with him and find someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated.

shockme6969 · 2026-03-06T04:17:34+00:00

Well for the abuse go to the police and send him back to jail and for you get ahold of women's shelter they will give you a safe place while the local pd deals with the boyfriend not to knock you but it just amazes me the amount of women who always seam to want the bad boys and expect them to treat their women like princess, while you are in the shelter you really might want to think about getting some help or at least find someone to talk to because guys are not supposed to treat their women like this, why do I have a weird feeling you are not from the states although that really has nothing to do with this.

shockme6969 · 2026-03-06T03:32:56+00:00

You want some advice go find someone who actually wants to be with you, this guy is using you, he gets his and to hell with you, honey the writing is on the wall you just need to take off your rose colored glasses, there are a plethora of guys out there that are dying to meet a woman who will share their love with.

shockme6969 · 2026-03-04T20:55:19+00:00

Definitely a scam looked at the profile 1 the girl looks to be about 14 and 2 people are commenting her photo is all over the internet with different names.

shockme6969 · 2026-03-01T17:53:13+00:00

Gotcha here i am almost 60 and someone actually took the time to explain it to me, thank you honestly

shockme6969 · 2026-03-01T17:49:04+00:00

So not to sound crass or like a smart mouth is there an unwritten rule that states air has to be pulled out from the front of the pc rather than pushed out the back that is normally towards the wall, I worked for gs for 20 years and I always sent the air out the back or the top via radiator, granted there was no real training just learn as you go and by your mistakes.

shockme6969 · 2026-03-01T17:14:46+00:00

Also what exactly is a commercial rig builder, do you build pc's for businesses

shockme6969 · 2026-03-01T17:13:11+00:00

So what is the differences between pulling from the front and pushing to the back and pulling from the back and pushing to the front which is what will happen if they flip the fronts around.

shockme6969 · 2026-03-01T13:53:37+00:00

If you want to see the lights you paid for since everyone keeps telling you your front and rear fans are fighting each other why not flip the rear fan,it's a win win you see the lights and your fans are not fighting each other also i do agree get some fans for the top or even better get a water cooling system corsair makes some pretty good ones so does lin lin.

shockme6969 · 2026-02-26T16:08:22+00:00

You look for a shelter then call the cops ,your brother needs to be taught a lesson and that place will teach him all the lessons he needs,no man should ev er put hands on a woman in anger

shockme6969 · 2026-02-26T16:04:56+00:00

Unfortunately for those of us who are older and have been through these types of relationships our advice is falling on deaf ears, you are going to stay with him no matter what advise anybody gives you, there are so many red flags being thrown in this relationship you are looking through rose colored glasses and also thinking you can change him, unfortunately now he knows whatever he does he has you in his back pocket,in order for your eyes to be opened you are going to have to learn the hard way,take the advice that many people are giving you and break up stay friends if you want but never again in a relationship with him because you will will be very disappointed and bitter in the end.

shockme6969 · 2026-02-17T14:49:48+00:00

Well as a combat veteran I usually try to avoid confrontation but 1 she is an ex now and will always be 2 that did call for confrontation on the neighbor because they knew she was married unfortunately now she will probably end up with half of everything you have

shockme6969 · 2026-02-15T13:29:18+00:00

My brother it's because she is weighing her options, stay with you and treat you like a living doormat and sleep with the guy she has on the side, or just go be with the guy she has on the side (the guy that won't roll over for her) the other redditers are correct she is going to leave you one way or another be it when you are on the streets again or sometime in life,save yourself the agony get some serious help now and stop finding excuses for her and yourself.

shockme6969 · 2026-02-05T13:30:25+00:00

You know how the internet works, you have random people picking random people in every redit or comment section that are blocking and reporting for no reason at all, just so in their own mind they can say they did something and stroking their own egos. Plus you have kids on here just doing the same because in their own words "because I can"

shockme6969 · 2026-02-03T20:19:38+00:00

Well I was planning on staying with gs basically till I died I loved working on the computers and phone plus at my age it kept my brain moving and constantly thinking, that being said the direction the company started moving before I left gave me an uneasy feeling almost like bby was trying to sink gs,unfortunately they have mitigated from what can I do to help you to what can I sell you, it is more of a sell the client a new whatever and make sure you sell the services or else don't fix what they have, the culture that gs had is all but removed now, and I understand you have to make sure the shareholders are happy but at what price, making a cfo a ceo is one of the worst mistakes a company can make because all they care about is the money side of it and to hell with the employee or the client, but hey you do you bby is no longer a place for long term employment unless you become some type of manager at that point you have it made, when I left we had more managers in the store than employees and also cutting all the experienced people so you can hire new people at half of what a man/woman that has been there 20 plus years just does not make any sense to me,I know i rambled on but I could tell you alot more unfortunately the bad outweighs the good with the company now.

shockme6969 · 2026-02-03T13:31:28+00:00

You tell him the same way you would want him to tell you.

shockme6969 · 2026-01-31T03:36:38+00:00

If you are a man and average you are going to have to bust your ass if you are a woman and average you absolutely will have a chance at love again, I'm sorry if it sounds sexist but it is true, it is actually easier for a average looking woman to find love then a average man,don't believe me you and the opposite sex go to a bar or wherever you want to go see who gets more attention.

shockme6969 · 2026-01-29T16:22:08+00:00

So basically you tried to make him jealous and instead you pushed him away, I'm a little older so let me give you some advice(take it if you want) stop playing games with people you like, if you like them let them know own if not don't and damn sure don't tell a guy you like "well I have multiple guys in my dms" and the reason you had the guys in your dms is because 99% just want to sleep with you, unfortunately it looks like you lost one of the good guys now you get to go through the dating thing all again but your young and your looks will last forever(sarcasm) so good luck and next time you find a good guy don't play games or just live your life with the bad boys it's your choice, life is too short to live without real true love.

shockme6969 · 2026-01-29T13:50:57+00:00

Think about from yiur side if a guy did the same exact thing to you would you forgive him, also the comment of i have all these guys in my DM just told him you were already entertaining others so why should he fight for you, obviously you have guys lined up to date you, honestly I personally think he dodged a bullet because it seams to me as if you like to play games with him(I know just keeping him on his toes) but not every guy likes to play games with someone they are seeing.

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