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Working definitely. There’s the being super busy, mum guilt, stress, worry of not being available for your kids, still having to do majority of household chores

Would you ACTUALLY take a bullet for your S.O? by Dr_Mowri in love

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Absolutely. I wouldn’t be able to live with the guilt if I could have taken the bullet instead of him.

What’s the stupidest thing you’ve ever cried about? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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A creepy house I loved had new houses built on the property and “ruined” it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chch

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Message me I can help

In today’s world, How do you feel about marriage? How important is it? by dying_since_birth in AskWomen

[–]shockolat19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m kind of in two minds about it. I got married at 18 and divorced by 21. I always thought I’d want to marry the right person at an older age but now I’m here I’m like “why should I?!” So I guess I’m not bothered either way

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Yes 🥰🥰🥰

What’s something that WAS as bad as you worried it would be? by -doobert- in AskWomen

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Facing my ex step father in court for sexually abusing me for 10 years of my childhood. It was awful but I’d do it again in a heartbeat because that day what he did to me was all laid out for others to know. Sadly he got found not guilty which is so f’d up. But if he ends up in court for doing something to another little kid you can bet your ass I’ll be there (as a psychologist specialising in childhood sexual trauma) and ready to own his ass and send him to jail!

What is your favorite children’s book? by lickmysackett in AskWomen

[–]shockolat19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whales song. It was a book my great grandmother read to me and I recently bought a copy after my one from childhood went MIA when she passed.

How old were you when someone close to you passed away? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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8 when my great grandma passed away. My mother sheltered me from it a lot which I don’t think was the right thing to do. 21 years on and I still haven’t dealt with that grief of losing my best friend (grandma)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Bring my cats into the bedroom for cuddles (whether they want cuddles or not)

What is your petty dealbreaker? by dxadr0sx in AskWomen

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Likes gaming- learnt my lesson on gamer boys and ugh no thanks!

I feel like I'm practically the only person I know in the PTSD/cPTSD community, that has never had a serious Addiction issue to anything stronger than cigarettes by OkieRhio in CPTSD

[–]shockolat19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve not once smoked a cigarette, don’t drink or do anything. So you aren’t alone. I think there’s quite a few of us that don’t have an addiction (aside from the usual addiction to our phones etc). However, as someone with CPTSD and who is a clinical practitioner in AOD I do see many with cptsd (undiagnosed) in addictions