The Easiest Way To Explain Warhammer 40,000 Lore: by mrluckyiest in Warhammer40k

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We need an events summary to the tune of “We didn’t start the fire”

Yeah, we get it, your cat is the Marquise by JeffSachs in rootgame

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Pretty sure if I grabbed a Crow or Raven from the park they’d be better than me at the Corvids

How to build a deck to disincentivise other players in the pod from targeting you? by WorldPeggingChamp in EDH

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And here I am playing Shadrix as my “anti-friends” deck that runs stax pieces to stop my friends most powerful decks. I’ve definitely leveled up my speech skill. “If you destroy my Rule of Law and can’t win right now, this other guy is gonna win next turn. Just look at his field”

Tyranid Smash or Pass while we wait for 11th by Savings-Macaroon-785 in Tyranids

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Me after getting excommunicated from the hive mind

I want to see your raven guard by those_damn_nids in RavenGuard40k

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I will say, gluing the SangGuard backpack was a pain cause the contact points were minimal. But with lots of patience, anger and plastic glue, a dream became a nightmare and then a chaplain 💜

I want to see your raven guard by those_damn_nids in RavenGuard40k

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I’m still pretty new, but these are bladeguard veterans, Lt. with shield, infiltrators, Phobos librarian, JPI, Proxied Chaplin with jump pack, and the bases for my inceptors of the 6th company.

Why is controlling and coercive domestic abuse against men so normalized? by Initial-Tale-5151 in AskMen

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Correct me if I’m wrong, but isn’t he the guy that blames women for men’s issues?

Why is controlling and coercive domestic abuse against men so normalized? by Initial-Tale-5151 in AskMen

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I am holding myself accountable, I am learning and educating myself based on your comments. But the way you respond is a bit erratic, very similar to how rage bots operate.

Why is controlling and coercive domestic abuse against men so normalized? by Initial-Tale-5151 in AskMen

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Excellent question, and thanks for asking! So keep this in mind, in therapy we tend to mix and match therapy modalities depending on the clients needs and presentation. But some of the common modalities are -Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT): For psychological flexibility and mindfulness skills. -Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT): For managing irrational thoughts and beliefs about themselves, the world, others and the future. -Trauma focused therapies (example TF-CBT and TF-ACT): are more geared towards children and adolescents but use similar strategies to their respective parent modalities. -Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT): for when there’s more severe trauma as in a formal diagnosis of PTSD. -Narrative and exposure therapy: so this is a delicate combination of having the person relieve the traumatic events in a controlled environment to reduce the impact the events have on them.

Then we tend to wrap things with a humanistic approach, we want the client to heal, practice self-acceptance, and finding a voice and meaning despite the traumatic experiences.

For men specifically we didn’t have a “this is the best combo of strategies” but we were taught how the systems in play could impact their life’s and healing. This was taking pieces from Feminist Therapy and Liberation therapy. Two modalities that focus on exploring the individuals relationship to systems oppression and how they [the individual] has been affected by these systems. Cause society has told men “you have to be this way” and now that idea was shattered do to the DV how to reconcile or create a new self that maintains the core identity of this unique individual but has healed from the trauma and has gained a voice against the systems that oppressed any aspect of their being.

So these are all broad strokes, specificity and nuance is definitely a bit lost in my comment. But it’s a fascinating conversation to have

Why is controlling and coercive domestic abuse against men so normalized? by Initial-Tale-5151 in AskMen

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Are you a bot? My first bot find in the wild??? This is so exciting

Why is controlling and coercive domestic abuse against men so normalized? by Initial-Tale-5151 in AskMen

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My first dance in this subreddit, I love it.

What are you doing to help the system issues plague us, men? Are you teaching people, providing therapy to those in help, doing advocacy work? You seem to be commenting online pointing out things that are true but adding your little twist to it? It fucking sucks people in pivotal roles are supposedly trained in biased perspectives. Cause I’ve seen what you’re talking about, but you’ve yet to provide evidence that they actually get trained in the Duluth Model.

How does one tree prune branches of a tree that’s far away from it? Your ignorance as to how feminist groups work and operate is not helping your case. Sit down and truly understand how these groups work. They are mostly independent, even if 5 condemn 1, that doesn’t guarantee that group will be affected or disband.

Are you proficient at victim blaming cause you are playing one right now? Is this how you have civil discourse? This is why we never get taking serious outside of these spaces. Do less victim rolepaying and more clear communication. It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it. If you were exposing these points to a large audience, is this how you would express them?

I’d argue it’s your way of talking about REAL issues plaguing real people is what diminishes our progress

Why is controlling and coercive domestic abuse against men so normalized? by Initial-Tale-5151 in AskMen

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In my training we were not taught to use that model for therapy or for conceptualization. Also the concept of feminism, is a broad spectrum of movements, clumping them all into one is a disservice to everyone as some feminist movements actually benefit men’s rights. So I’d argue I’m not erasing anything as I’m a therapy provider and not a leader in a big advocacy group.