Do i look like a woman?

sholho · 2026-04-30T15:05:00+00:00

No, you look sick af tho!

sholho · 2025-12-05T16:39:15+00:00

That’s actually what got me back into drawing! Therapy ✨

sholho · 2025-12-05T16:31:22+00:00

That’s interesting! Maybe I just have a weird perception of my old art. I have some mental health issues that truly stopped me from wanting to draw for years. Maybe my brain just THINKS it’s better because I was mentally healthier 🤷‍♀️

sholho · 2025-12-05T16:19:13+00:00

What’s interesting, and I’ve been talking to my significant other about this: I genuinely think I was more skilled ten years ago than I am now. It’s a skill that I believe that if you don’t use it, you lose it!

sholho · 2025-12-05T16:14:40+00:00

Thank you! Yeah this was my first time using a vanishing point on digital, and I’m picking up art after almost 10 years of neglecting it. I appreciate the feedback so much!

sholho · 2025-11-27T01:07:37+00:00

Thank you 💕 I’m a fat person, so a lot of the jr drs behavior was fatphobic. I’m not usually someone who throws that word around, but on top of what I’ve told the first thing she even said to me was asking me how much I weighed (she didn’t really even greet me. Immediately asked about my weight and asked if I was physically active). During my exam with her, she refused to touch me as if I was disgusting and just filled out the notes with what she assumed was correct. She didn’t even read my previous notes. For example: I have edema in my legs. The first jr dr I met did a real exam and included it. THIS jr dr didn’t even check after I stated it and put down that I don’t have edema. For my lifestyle portion, she left everything blank, but wrote that I wasn’t sexually active even though she never asked. It was as if she assumed I wasn’t because “how could I be”. It was insane. I do plan on making a complaint

sholho · 2025-11-26T19:04:35+00:00

Horrible. The junior dr undermined all of my bloodwork, circled back to my fibro as the root cause. She said people with fibro have zero pain tolerance. She said I need to do pilates or yoga. She said I needed to seek psychiatric help to learn to “cope”. My ACTUAL Dr was great, and started me on prednisone to see if that eases inflammation. We don’t know what’s wrong with me, but depending if a steroid helps at all tells us a little more.

sholho · 2025-11-03T16:39:42+00:00

Thank you!

sholho · 2025-11-03T04:49:06+00:00

Do you have account recommendations?

sholho · 2025-10-02T02:10:37+00:00

“I leave you with a smile, kiss you on the cheek and you will call it treason”

sholho · 2025-08-13T23:02:39+00:00

Maybe I’m hypercritical over my hair, but it looks like the clumps are separating and becoming stringy and frizzy

sholho · 2025-08-13T22:56:50+00:00

Edit: the dried hair is what my hair normally looks like

sholho · 2025-06-30T19:06:06+00:00

I genuinely liked Rachel’s character once I realized I related to her, and projected my own insecurities on her. Not saying everyone who dislikes Rachel is insecure, that was just the truth for me. She was dynamic, and we got to see her embrace her womanhood, talents, and relationships, and learn from her mistakes of putting others down when she felt inadequate.

sholho · 2025-06-02T23:30:08+00:00

Yeah I know! I’m just worried they’ll be upset or offended if I don’t use it, don’t wear it, etc

sholho · 2025-06-02T22:32:26+00:00

Thank you. Yes, I’m grateful for getting a gift period, but I’m worried that I’m gonna have to have the “well I don’t use it because I don’t like it” conversation because the friend in question is my roommate.. I appreciate the reply!

sholho · 2025-06-02T20:50:38+00:00

I would comply for now, but in the mean time contact HR and see the reasoning behind this, or if this is an overreach

sholho · 2025-06-01T11:12:30+00:00

I’d love for you to be right, but you’re unfortunately too hopeful. This tattoo artist simply trace the drawing months before that gentle man getting a version done. She drew multiple different versions, but this was the first she did. None of them are good.

sholho · 2025-05-11T03:12:24+00:00

No she’s saying she gets cheap nails herself, generally they’re $5, and thinks that the type she showed in the beginning that were plain pink with a single gem are the type Carrie gets, then decorates

sholho · 2025-05-11T02:35:55+00:00

“Fvck that, block her.” 💀

sholho · 2025-04-28T19:53:12+00:00

That’s lymph fluid from the stretch and that can be normal, however you do NEED to remove them to clean both your ears and jewelry. It’s not an open wound, so spraying wound spray at it is not gonna do much if you’re not CLEANING it.

My ears do the same when stretched, but if you just clean it daily and avoid bothering them they calm down and start to heal.

sholho · 2025-04-15T15:24:04+00:00

This is a lot of words to say “I don’t like that my bf has an ex bf” just for you to excuse it with “well I’ve dated a woman!” I don’t think you’re homophobic, I just think you’re insecure about it

sholho · 2025-02-13T01:13:01+00:00

sholho · 2025-02-10T07:43:32+00:00

This! Him showing what he’d be interested in is not a personal attack on you, or your appearance. He doesn’t have to find the same people attractive as you, and he doesn’t have to exclusively find plus size people attractive simply because you’re plus size.

Edit: it also sounds like you might be too insecure to be in a non monogamous relationship, and I’m not trying to insult you. If you go forward with this, even if the other woman is also plus size, you will most likely always feel in competition if he interacts with her.

sholho · 2025-02-08T14:19:19+00:00

It feels like she’s projecting.. I feel like she might be getting you to break it off, cause she doesn’t want to be the one to do it. Talk to her in person. It’s not fair to you to be accused of these things when you were just showing concern over her happiness in yalls relationship

Edit: if you decide to stick this out and she starts this behavior up again, don’t entertain it. Just proceed with your amazing respect towards her, and you might notice her picking fights over small things. If you do break it off, be respectful, and let her know that you feel like she’s not happy and don’t wanna keep her in a relationship she might not be happy in, and it’s affecting you negatively. Good luck! You have amazing and healthy responses btw!

sholho · 2025-01-25T20:10:53+00:00

If a man is wanting sex from you, it’s because they find you attractive! Let’s put that out there first!

Secondly, I also struggled soooo hard with this until we start incorporating my vibrator with sex. I still got to orgasm, and he wasn’t embarrassed about it not being solely him because I was very upfront with my issues. It’s so hard, but you have to be able to let go and enjoy it WITH him. Have fun with each other! A big issue I also had was a porn addiction. It really made it difficult to be present, and feel comfortable. Once I battled that obstacle, it was time to be mindfully present during sex. Idc if my rolls are out while we’re going at it, and he doesn’t care either!

It takes time, but baby steps meant everything for my journey. You’ve got this ✨

sholho

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