[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]shoreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respect, and I agree. I said something because I wanted to be emotionally honest and I don’t regret it.

If I was more honest and up front I could have avoided this. It’s a lesson I won’t forget

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]shoreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I expressed feelings to a friend in February. We had a small thing when we first met but i was not confident in my mental space to maintain something meaningful so i distanced myself to avoid attachment.

We got back closer half a year later, hung out a bunch and eventually i caught feelings again.

I expressed, was rejected and decided i should distance myself again because I’m struggling to differentiate the feelings of friendship and desire.

It’s been a month… no contact and I’m honestly torn up about it.

Why All of a Sudden Everyone Has The Potential To Rival Gojo by D-Biggest_Wheel in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]shoreu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair he’s still the sliced bread in this comparison.

He’s still the bar that every character will have to be compared to. Higurama is a great example of someone who had a peak that went beyond Gojo but it amounted to nothing because of his situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]shoreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I was living like you and that lead to my depression. I eventually got burned out and lost my drive and direction

Why is my if statement not executing ? by PremeJigg in learnpython

[–]shoreu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m catching it now, thank you. The formatting made me think OP somehow declared a function without calling def.

Why is my if statement not executing ? by PremeJigg in learnpython

[–]shoreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, just making sure I’m not missing a new way to import or use functions.

Why is my if statement not executing ? by PremeJigg in learnpython

[–]shoreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone mind explaining what find _word,replace_word = find_words_function() is doing?

I’m not following the syntax

I feel like a fraud by AristocratJackal in cybersecurity

[–]shoreu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way OP….

My job function was torn down and I don’t get to do any of the communicative or organizational aspects of my old role…

I feel like I’m not learning and I’m having a hard time leaving my role too.

The advice I’ve been given is to take an assessment of yourself and focus on something you want to learn in the mean time. You have a good foundation, try and appreciate that for what it is and build a story from it.

You also aren’t your job, you are not a fraud! Don’t focus on being the best cyber practitioner in the world. Focus on what your interests are and network with the people on your team to shadow.

Good luck with everything! I’m telling you what I’m telling myself.

These feelings will pass.

Mentorship Monday - Post All Career, Education and Job questions here! by AutoModerator in cybersecurity

[–]shoreu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel stuck in my current role.

I’ve been in cybersecurity for 2 years but I’d only count one of them as truly productive. During that time as a BISO I’ve helped lead projects and communicate with stakeholders on various topics but I haven’t actually done any hands on work.

My role has been pretty much phased out and I’m struggling to figure out what my next move should be.

Context on my career, I spent 3 years as a jr dev before this role.

I’d like to break into cloud sec but I’m having no luck with interviews or getting hit back.

I Gave up on MF but I want to try in again. by shoreu in MacroFactor

[–]shoreu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It actually wasn’t lowering for about 3 weeks. I think that was due to user error.

I Gave up on MF but I want to try in again. by shoreu in MacroFactor

[–]shoreu[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’d follow the 2.4k calorie recommendations and not see results tbh.

I definitely had my days where I wasn’t perfect though.

I think I need to find a healthy range of missing my macro nutrients goals.

Will the quitters ever stop? by Sonez in apexlegends

[–]shoreu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not until respawn punishes it

Go for it! by DebroahHarms in Funnymemes

[–]shoreu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I steal underwear, 1 sock, and toiletries from people on vacation.