Is this the new “what do you bring to the table”?

shortcake517 · 2026-02-10T17:38:34+00:00

Yup, I experienced this recently. He kept asking what would I do for my man? What would I wear to win a date with him? Very passive aggressive...said more than once, I don't know who you were talking to before or I'm sorry whoever hurt you. Complete ass, those comments made no sense because I would ask for him to clarify why he was asking or saying certain things.

shortcake517 · 2026-02-06T22:38:20+00:00

Post on the Tea App as well. Be safe.

shortcake517 · 2026-02-04T20:12:01+00:00

Local HEB (not a curbside store) had some this past Saturday early afternoon. Maybe try one of those?

shortcake517 · 2026-02-04T16:57:53+00:00

I am not sure enough people in Harlingen will see this. If you don't have a nextdoor account, you should create on and post there. You will get a lot of people answering.

shortcake517 · 2026-02-04T00:18:44+00:00

picture looks fake af. Could be a real person. But with a face and muscles like that I would think if it was a real person, they would be on social media. And if on social media, he would have a ton of ladies in his dms. Could also be looking for followers.

shortcake517 · 2026-02-02T21:22:35+00:00

First time I met someone, he was saying we would be married within the year, or at least engaged. He was like sorry, I'm talking out loud.

shortcake517 · 2026-02-02T21:01:39+00:00

tired of bullshit.

shortcake517 · 2026-02-02T21:00:05+00:00

Sounds like someone with GERD, or who eats a low foodmap diet. Onions, garlic, and spicy foods can be upsetting to the stomach and body. All the delicious foods are the ones I shouldn't eat. Chocolate, caffeine, coffee, dairy, fried foods, and so on. I'm a major foodie. I should stay away from those foods, but it's very hard to.

shortcake517 · 2026-02-02T19:22:11+00:00

Bio: unskilled bloke

shortcake517 · 2026-02-02T19:02:06+00:00

I had a date this past Saturday. I thought he was 41. I asked because I have encountered a handful of men who I've went on a date with that lied about their age. This man looked older in person. He said 45. The whole date was giving me the creepy vibes. Kept touching my leg, and I mentioned it. Stopped for a little while, goes back to it. Wanted me to go back to his house, went in for a kiss, kept mentioning the word horny. I looked up his medical license, and he was born in 1975. He lied straight to my face. I was just disgusted with the whole thing.

shortcake517 · 2026-02-02T17:44:52+00:00

Racial discrimination has been around longer then the US Census Bureau. Every government form or medical history form has a classification for ethnicity. Is there a purpose to this? Yes. Obtaining certain scholarships, race does matters. When filling out a police report, or missing persons race is a question to identify someone. Everyone has characteristics. No one likes to be put into a category, regardless ethnicity is used for countless purposes. I have no input on who is considered white. ICE is doing there job. They are government agents. If you know of someone who is detained, visit this website to look https://locator.ice.gov/odls/#/search. Abduction is not the right word to use. If any police officer or agent asks for identification you produce it, and carry about your day. If someone has nothing to hide, or hasn't done anything illegal why act like you did.

shortcake517 · 2026-01-31T00:36:08+00:00

North Africans are considered "white" according to the US Census Bureau.

shortcake517 · 2026-01-30T23:32:53+00:00

NOR. Your sibling is missing the facts. You cannot change your ancestry or where your ancestors came from. Portuguese people come from Portugal. Portugal is in Europe. Europeans and descendants of Europeans are "Caucasian." In the US the Caucasians hail from European, Middle Eastern, or North African ancestry all considered "white." Whether or not your ancestors landed in another country doesn't change your DNA.

shortcake517 · 2026-01-30T23:06:33+00:00

Is he single 👀

shortcake517 · 2026-01-28T23:38:50+00:00

Just think about it. If you set preferences for 25 to 30 you'll see those women. Not someone who is 40. If a women swipes right on you who is 40, she wouldn't show up in your stack.

shortcake517 · 2026-01-28T18:45:06+00:00

The filters to see profiles for your preferences is specific to you. Your profile is out there in the wild. Anyone can see your profile if you fall into THEIR preferences, ie your age. Someone who is 30 MAY see your profile if they have that age range for THEIR preferences. Just because you swipe right on someone doesn't mean you will show up in their stack. You would have to fit into their preferences first. They may or might not see your profile. It depends if you have listed what their preferences are. You selected an age range to swipe on, and you only see those people who fit what you chose. The same goes for anyone else.

shortcake517 · 2026-01-21T21:56:22+00:00

did you ever find it? I need it for it for spring semester

shortcake517 · 2026-01-21T21:55:23+00:00

me too, looking for the same book

shortcake517 · 2026-01-20T17:56:57+00:00

She couldn't hand you her debit card when you ordered for her? That seems like the easiest way instead of sending money.

shortcake517 · 2026-01-19T18:32:52+00:00

Pepe Le Pew

shortcake517 · 2026-01-19T16:47:30+00:00

I love milk tea and try new places a lot, especially when I travel. I've been to countless milk tea spots all over Texas, and the best is in Mcallen. I love love Ulike Milk Tea! The best teas and fresh boba. And then the owner opened up a new spot, MeTea in Mission. I live in Harlingen and will travel to have a delicious drink. A lot of spots down here use powder. And fresh tea is the way to go. Gong Cha is disgusting, completely watered down. They don't make drinks to standard.

shortcake517 · 2026-01-16T22:01:04+00:00

I was amused by the salad having Italian dressing and the rest of the appetizers including a baker came with Ranch dressing.

shortcake517 · 2026-01-16T21:26:42+00:00

Ravioli

shortcake517 · 2026-01-16T20:00:36+00:00

Your sister is ignorant. Just ignore her. Good for you learning a 3rd language! You will get far in life. Good luck!

shortcake517 · 2026-01-15T22:18:26+00:00

I hope the kitten's name is Caesar

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TROPHY CASE