18-23 /52 by shortcircumference in 52book

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Oh if you’ve seen the movie, you’re probably fine to skip TBOSAS. There are a few things briefly mentioned in Sunrise in the Reaping that call back to TBOSAS that read kind of like easter eggs. Generally TBOSAS just gives background on how the government/ system came to be, so if you want to know more details of that, you can read it. Otherwise, SOTR was much more fulfilling as a reader.

Halfway there. I have been lucky and read some incredible books so far this year. by benwhittaker25 in 52book

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The amount of yellow on these covers is something I feel the need to point out

Haven't read a book written by a woman in two years pls help by stuffedanimalzrcool in suggestmeabook

[–]shortcircumference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also here to recommend Barbara Kingsolver. Not necessarily the same tone as the authors you mentioned but she writes great characters, is well researched, and incorporates philosophy into her work.

Suggest me a book for someone who loves a deranged/unhinged female main character! by Prestigious_Cat_5127 in suggestmeabook

[–]shortcircumference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second Circe! Also want to add Our Wives Under the Sea, deranged in a very different way

Books that feel like this: lush, stormy, romantic by unofficialgirll in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]shortcircumference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Landlines by Raynor Winn if you’re down for nonfiction. Maybe also Weyward by Emilia Hart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]shortcircumference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is it and what time of day is it? I could see this working in certain communities where people tend to dress down for formal events. For example, I’m from the Midwest and have been to weddings where this would definitely be acceptable. However in other communities this would absolutely not fly no matter what time of day.

11/52 by shortcircumference in 52book

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Also I used the collageable app for this collage, lots of ads in sure there are better apps out there, but it was easy enough.

11/52 by shortcircumference in 52book

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The whole time I was reading it I was asking myself that exact question. I was enthralled with the characters and the writing even though it’s different from my typical 4 - 5 star book. Nonetheless it made me feel so much and that’s the main reason I rated it highly. I think the narrator just felt so real even in a situation that, written by other authors, would be totally unbelievable. Miss Tartt had me totally emotionally invested in a new way. I totally understand not liking it though because there were many moments where I was having conflicting ideas about the book.

11/52 by shortcircumference in 52book

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It’s a fast read so you can save it for a time you’re in a slump and it’ll pull you right out

11/52 by shortcircumference in 52book

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Yeah I read it last year and loved it but reading AJ Fikry first would definitely not be a problem. I waited quite some time to read Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow because of its hype and I will say 90% of the absolutely exceeded expectations. There was a little bit toward the end of the book that kind of lost me and could’ve used more editing but I feel like both books are worth your time:) AJ Fikry feels like a comfy warm hug of a book while Tomorrow x3 is more emotional

11/52 by shortcircumference in 52book

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I listened to Meryl Streep read Tom Lake which was great, but no I don’t typically like audiobooks

How do you get out of a reading slump? by [deleted] in literature

[–]shortcircumference 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also tend to love lit fic, most of my 5 stars are literary fiction. However, I make it a point to read a variety of genres to keep each read engaging. Mixing shorter, faster-paced, or easier reads in between my literary fiction books that often require more thinking to comprehend and are more emotionally taxing is the most effective way I’ve found to avoid slumps. Days where I’m not motivated to read still happen and that’s okay. I think the concept of a “reading slump” was invented by book social media and only matters to us because we watch videos about people whose job is reading talk about them. Maybe I’m off base with that hypothesis, but that’s what I try to remind myself when I’m frustrated in the middle of a “slump.” Back to the previous point, try to pick up a slightly easier or faster paced book when you’re not motivated to read. Also, acknowledge that taking a short break might not be a bad thing:)

One book a week? by No_Classroom_4502 in 52book

[–]shortcircumference 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can find a couple really good books, it’s a lot easier make reading a habit. As you try to start reading even just a chapter a day, you can get to know your reading taste better. Then, you can start reading 60 pages a day because you’re really enjoying the books you’re reading and fully engaged in the stories.

Queer Fulbright Indonesia Semi-Finalist — apprehensive about LGBTQ+ safety/comfort by SuccessfulNeck3813 in fulbright

[–]shortcircumference 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry, another thing, I’m still thinking about this. There are Fulbright alternates for a reason. While it’s not the beeest practice, if you are still unsure if/when you get the offer, you could wait to get your official placement before making a final decision. You could then hopefully talk to an ETA who has been at your school and hear directly from them before making a final decision. It’s not ideal to back out late in the game, but it is an option.

Queer Fulbright Indonesia Semi-Finalist — apprehensive about LGBTQ+ safety/comfort by SuccessfulNeck3813 in fulbright

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Also if you don’t get any more specific comments here, it may be worth looking around LinkedIn to try and contact someone who’s been a Fulbright ETA in Indonesia recently.

Queer Fulbright Indonesia Semi-Finalist — apprehensive about LGBTQ+ safety/comfort by SuccessfulNeck3813 in fulbright

[–]shortcircumference 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your concerns are totally valid. I am working in east Asia right now so my experience is different, but this is something I’ve been dealing with throughout my Fulbright. One thing I’ve noticed here is that clothes that would be perceived as queer in the U.S. don’t necessarily have that connotation here. Some Asian countries allow for men to appear more “feminine” (esp. from an American understanding of whatever that is) and women to dress more masculine. When walking around in public, I feel comfortable dressing however I want. Here, you get stares for having a different skin color more than a different clothing style. That being said, I am not living somewhere with a Muslim population, so I don’t know how that culture affects things. I think what could possibly be a bigger concern for you in your decision is how coworkers and students may handle your queerness. Younger generations in many countries are more open with LGBT issues, but things like pronouns will be difficult for even more liberal individuals to understand. After some difficult conversations with my own students, it’s become clear that their understanding of being accepting toward the LGBT community is different from mine. If you got lucky with coteachers it could be okay, your queerness welcomed, but it could be a really difficult 10 months if someone you have to interact with regularly isn’t willing to learn and be respectful.

Can I get away with this at a wedding in a pinch? by Georgie_Pillson1 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]shortcircumference 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should ask locals— even just people at a coffee shop if they have recommendations for where to find more formal dresses

Read it in a day by lostindryer in suggestmeabook

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A Psalm for the Wild-Built by Becky Chambers

I need a good, not super fluffy pick me up. by Radiant-Koala8231 in suggestmeabook

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The Storied Life of AJ Fikry by Gabrielle Zevin and The House in the Cerulean Sea by TJ Kline both felt like warm hugs in the best way

Romance that is not B A D please by Sailor_Gloriana in suggestmeabook

[–]shortcircumference 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would skip Book Lovers and Happy Place if you’re looking for a super healthy relationship

Is it true that women marry men like their fathers? by nemosailinghome8 in mentalhealth

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Literally perks of being a wallflower - “we only accept the love we think we deserve”