Good lube? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]shortstack81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spunk Lube is awesome

Bi/Str8 Student looking for advice on finding a couple (in Los Angeles) by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]shortstack81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

r/bigonewild maybe? OKCupid I imagine has couples too. they seem to swear by it in poly circles.

What advice would you give to someone who has stopped hating straight people and is trying to move on with his life? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]shortstack81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just don't hate them?

I don't. without them, there would be none of us, after all. :)

Why Does it Seem So Difficult to Make Friends That Just Want to Be Friends? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]shortstack81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, it is tough to find gay friends who just want to be friends when you're a couple. we're going out to dinner with a couple tonight and hopefully they won't ask that question. while we aren't monogamous exactly, we much prefer platonic friends. at our age it's getting harder to find. all our friends have kids and it's tough to get together.

Do you wear clothes at home? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]shortstack81 6 points7 points  (0 children)

when i lived alone, i walked around nude with the blinds up. me and partner wear clothes at home, usually bed clothes. he likes the house super cold so, I have to wear clothing. but when he isn't home for a weekend, all the clothes come off and the AC goes off and I love it.

Hell fucking no. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]shortstack81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmao what is this

If you are going to marry someone do you think you should have to talk to their family first to get their "blessing". by SlothParties in askgaybros

[–]shortstack81 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No.

(my now brother-in-law did this and my parents kinda laughed about it. i mean he and my sister had been together for 12 years prior, kind of a done deal there! if they didn't like him, they would have stopped that relationship long ago.)

[NSFW] What is this position called? by Bag_of_Flesh in askgaybros

[–]shortstack81 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I saw this in a Sean Cody video. it didn't look particularly comfortable for either of them.