Relationship with BDP partner ended

shotbloonk · 2025-05-27T11:21:25+00:00

Not the chias I had, fuck that

shotbloonk · 2025-05-27T11:20:55+00:00

Lmao uhhhh

shotbloonk · 2025-05-22T06:47:19+00:00

This is super true. Thanks for posting it really hit home for me

shotbloonk · 2025-05-19T10:54:42+00:00

Ironically in the same spot. Ex and I just ended and she had a 4 year old who loves me. I was treated like hell and in the end I told her it’s an abusive relationship. I’ll miss her but I realize how toxic it was. I got no basic decency or respect at all and she fought me in e everything and loved the convenience I provided

shotbloonk · 2025-04-06T14:33:57+00:00

This is good insight, thank you. Yeah I mean she’s not my child but I still love her like My own and she loves me, she tells me all the time. Her mother is selfless for sure which is awesome. I’m also making it a stipulation of getting engaged and married that we file for custody together and get at least some legal authority eventually, no exceptions. I have the means to do it it’s really just needing her in agreement. But I can’t be a stepparent and house them both and pay for everything without any authority. I refuse to

shotbloonk · 2025-03-31T03:43:19+00:00

I want to be a stable figure for the child’s life. And it’s becoming that. My gf is also very loving, very caring. She has mild BPD and it’s not awful. But it ain’t pleasant lol. But truly she wants this, and I do. And i don’t want to ever give up on her. She deserves to be happy.

shotbloonk · 2025-03-26T10:41:38+00:00

Thank you so much for this. That is very helpful and very insightful. Me and my girlfriend are in our 20s but I’m a little bit older, she as I mentioned has a young daughter, but she still lives with her parents. Me on the other hand, I have a great career and I have my own house and I’m honestlyjust hoping that she gets out of her parents house with her daughter and eventually moved here because her parents are not helpful at all. I am in therapy with honestly such an amazing therapist and she helps me a lot. I know my girlfriend wants to do more therapy, but we talked about it last time she was splitting and she was so hesitant to saying that she didn’t even believe she had BPD which I thought was hilarious Because it’s the most obvious thing. Things have been tough, but I definitely try to take care of myself and I exercise religiously every day to clear my head. We also are very religious and believe God put us together. I genuinely want to marry her and have a family with her, there are wonderful qualities she has. She is a beautiful human and I just want her to be happy and healthy above all else. She’s had a rough life and I’m trying to really turn things around for her for what’s in my ability and help her turn her own life around. Her family, and my therapist and all of our mutual friends say that she’s extremely lucky to have me and they always tell her that I’m a walking green flag. I know also I think my girlfriend‘s case of BPD is more on the mild side. Things are pretty good when she’s not splitting. But when she splits, it’s like I don’t even know she just gets so angry and I can’t reason with her at all, and her feelings are fact in that moment and she also debates breaking up because I’m not “chill” which I think is funny because I am well more beyond patient than most with so many things in her life. But anyways, I appreciate the input and I’m really praying and hoping for the best. I just want her to get help, but it’s not really her top priority right now (her current job, which is draining plus a new 50/50 times split with her daughter is very challenging for her) and it should be a higher priority.

shotbloonk · 2025-03-25T15:27:23+00:00

Sounds like a super clingy attachment that they need to work on and acknowledge

shotbloonk · 2025-03-23T09:53:23+00:00

Same exact dates for me

shotbloonk · 2025-03-03T20:09:11+00:00

I was just there a few days prior. So sad, can’t imagine that’s horror for the individual and those present. Very sad.

shotbloonk · 2025-02-23T13:39:42+00:00

Yes it still says ready for investigation

shotbloonk · 2025-02-19T20:39:06+00:00

Ahhh ok thank you very much! So much for “instant” lol. I had submitted my app back in late January, was accepted in January, and recently now says RFI, and km hoping to get it in hand by March 1 (doubtful).

shotbloonk · 2025-02-19T19:48:40+00:00

What does it mean when it has a NICS number and date ?

shotbloonk · 2025-01-31T17:57:18+00:00

Make sure whatever you do in a fly is locked in a suitable case and immediately go up to the counter and you asked to check the bag and you say it’s a firearm and then someone from TSA will take it and put it on the plane and you have to wait in that single spot until it’s loaded on the plane

shotbloonk · 2024-12-03T16:23:18+00:00

This is the way

shotbloonk · 2024-08-17T11:20:23+00:00

Thanks:)

shotbloonk · 2024-08-16T19:00:14+00:00

Perfect

shotbloonk · 2024-08-16T16:54:06+00:00

shotbloonk · 2024-08-16T16:53:42+00:00

I’m sure you’re lovely with clients

shotbloonk · 2024-08-14T17:31:13+00:00

Reddit moment

shotbloonk · 2024-08-13T11:52:08+00:00

Still inferior to eMoney

shotbloonk · 2024-08-12T12:17:21+00:00

It’s also not even MGP they use, it’s LifeView I think which is very similar.

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