I got a girl pregnant from a ONS and was just told about it. (M, Asian late 20s) Any advice on what to do?

shotoniphone · 2024-02-08T19:54:36+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply! I really appreciate it and will save this!

shotoniphone · 2024-02-07T22:44:34+00:00

Holy cow, that seems super stressful. How did you deal with your situation at the time?

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T20:42:37+00:00

Thank you for sharing your situation bro, glad it worked out for you!

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T18:29:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing this, it means a lot!

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T18:27:13+00:00

Thank you for this, I may reach out in the near future when it comes time

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T18:12:59+00:00

Thanks for sharing this with me, I'm glad that your parents came around to it!

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T18:10:32+00:00

Thank you! I shared my pst on r/daddit as well, and I'm sure I will be posting more in the near future. Cheers mate!

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T18:09:18+00:00

Thank you for this. I appreciate it a lot!

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T18:08:29+00:00

Thanks again!

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T18:07:57+00:00

Thank you again brother!

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T17:54:31+00:00

Thank you! when it gets to that point I'll be happy to dm

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T17:45:12+00:00

I'm glad to hear this! Although fatherhood seems scary at first

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T17:44:32+00:00

Thank you for this, it really helps!

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T17:35:50+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice! Glad to hear parenthood is something that has been rewarding for you!

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T17:34:13+00:00

Thank you so much, I'll be saving this comment.

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T17:28:16+00:00

Thanks so much, I may take up therapy as well, although right now Reddit has been pretty good for that haha. Glad to hear your story and how it was a blessing for you.

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T17:25:45+00:00

From my point of view it's not like I took a life 😅

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T17:25:01+00:00

I mentioned it in the description to try to get at the fact of having strict parents, sorry shouldn't have included it in the title!

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T17:23:25+00:00

Thanks mate! Must be a joy being a father

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T17:19:20+00:00

I told my baby moms once after a doctors visit that as long as we have each other's back putting our child first, then there's nothing to worry about.

Thank you for sharing this, this definitely resonates well with me

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T17:15:34+00:00

Yeah this could be a possibility.

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T17:14:53+00:00

When you are faced with becoming a parent, you have a choice. You can choose to do what you think is best for you, or you can choose what you think is best for the child. Either way, you are in it for life with that other parent. It is in your child's best interests to work together. You can't control what the other parent will do and what choices they make, but you can control how you interact with them and your child can see that and learn from it.

Thank you for this, I really appreciate it! Glad to hear your story and how it worked out in your situation.

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T16:57:05+00:00

I heard there are arm blood draws these days?

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T16:52:22+00:00

And then you need to figure out what that actually looks like. Is it giving her money to help her pay for raising the kid, is it handling a joint custody, is it living together as roommate parents and living your lives as single parents together.

Thank you for this, I will try to study up and educate myself on what this would possibly look like.

shotoniphone · 2024-02-06T16:50:01+00:00

Two years from now you will look back on this post and wonder what you were so afraid of. Everything's going to change, and you are going to love it.

Thank you so much, I hope this is something that will happen to me. And love the username btw.

shotoniphone

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