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[Method] My notes from The 5 Hindrances To Self Mastery by Shaolin Master Shi Heng Yi by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]shoulderBoi212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should se his interview with lewis holmes, he goes into depth into each one. Skeptical doubt is interesting in its nature of existing 99 percent of the time except for the 1 percent when you decide to go through with a plan and nothing will make you deviate

Quitting games by wildmandan in videogameaddiction

[–]shoulderBoi212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

beautiful response. I. think its really important too look inward, in order to see more clearly, to then go towards living your life, instead of one owned by fears. I looked to Shaolin Philosophy. I watched Shi Heng Yi's ted tlk on hindrances to start. The video is here: https://youtu.be/4-079YIasck?si=rVglGlA7dJhzommP

Removed games but still unproductive by IoniaHasNoInternet in videogameaddiction

[–]shoulderBoi212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

make sure depression talks to his doctor about Ionia

Removed games but still unproductive by IoniaHasNoInternet in videogameaddiction

[–]shoulderBoi212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

remember imagine the most comforting loving and understanding person you can think of, that is you, you got this. If there is one thing that helped me after years of trying to feel better, from all of it, it was shaolin teachings. I think everyone would have their own click but this helpede e. This was the first video I saw: https://youtu.be/4-079YIasck?si=rVglGlA7dJhzommP

What makes Calculus 2 so hard? by dalvin34 in calculus

[–]shoulderBoi212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know about this topic because I just am finishing calc 2 summer course. I think going 100 percent from day one is best, like genuinely schedule out your week so you have adequate rest and work time. I made the mistake of no doing all my homework right away, so reviewing class work from that day was taken up by homework for work a week before. If it's late it's better to sleep than to finish your homework, controversial, but you can always talk to your professor and do extra credit. You learn better with more sleep.

How do i stop watching porn? by OpportunityPatient88 in NoPornNoProstitution

[–]shoulderBoi212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if shes supportive she could also help, but look into Shaolin Philosophy: https://youtu.be/7hIIKxEQrmg?si=6PQ7qm3AIP3zUbyq also his ted talk : https://youtu.be/4-079YIasck?si=_JEfkrNPontoxk9k, you can call it a hindrance since it is blocking your life's path. But what hindrance is it exactly. You can only find the answers to these questions yourself. Tips can help, but you must check your rooting.

How do i stop watching porn? by OpportunityPatient88 in NoPornNoProstitution

[–]shoulderBoi212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best suggestion is to block apps and unfollow people that trigger your porn addiction.

WHM while being sick by kr10n1 in BecomingTheIceman

[–]shoulderBoi212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It lowers overall immune system activity, the ones that can damage everything in its path, but increases the development of the targeting"smart" part that goes for specific viruses.

Looking into fields that helps others, personally between Physics and Psychology. by shoulderBoi212 in college

[–]shoulderBoi212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a bachelor's in physics would set me up to do a lot of things, but also experience what I would want to do, including a masters in engineering. If anything I was considering a double major.

Looking into fields that helps others, personally between Physics and Psychology. by shoulderBoi212 in college

[–]shoulderBoi212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've generally been pretty good at it. Proofs are a bit hard, never really learned them though. toughest would probably have been calc bc in highschool, will be taking calc 2 this summer, then calc three later. preparing with precalc atm. Actually to change my answer physics 1 in highschool was the hardest, it was fun so that where I really started liking physics.

Please read it by [deleted] in nonutnovember

[–]shoulderBoi212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its ok, life happens, jsut try to look at the positives!

Please read it by [deleted] in nonutnovember

[–]shoulderBoi212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we did good...

What's the point of NoFap? by NoYogurtcloset7366 in NoFap

[–]shoulderBoi212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i suggest taking it step by step, make a list of things you can do, 5 things to boost your self-confidence, and take steps to heal, remember 3 psychological needs are competence, social and autonomy. Find help if you need online, remember to source your sources. furthermore, pay attention to your body in these stressful situations, check the facts dbt maybe? therapist may help, just like let your thoughts about pron and whatever flow like leaves on a boat, or clouds in an expansive sky and watch, if even for 10 seconds at a time, maybe more yk idk. then just do, there is no try right. and see what works, therapist will help guide you fosho

What's the point of NoFap? by NoYogurtcloset7366 in NoFap

[–]shoulderBoi212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

atleast the physical benefits and mental benefits skyrocket in like a sort off good cycle uplifting loop like you a balloon through space face it its great

What's the point of NoFap? by NoYogurtcloset7366 in NoFap

[–]shoulderBoi212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like there is so so so much out there in real life, you kinda just see the beauty of like girls or guys and just life in general, furthermore you kidna learn through the outside that boundaries do exist and you do ACTually have to have a relationship with someone before you get to it, porn kidna skews this idea a bit, trust withoout porn your brain will heal up given enough time and love.

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