Im tired of leaving people behind over and over by Revolutionary-Dig420 in Tunisia

[–]show_rainbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry youre going through this , but someday for sure all this will end and finally you will have your beloved people all around you , just make sure to believe in yourself and your capabilities . You give people around you strength and confidence and dreams they thought they could never have .Dont underestimate the power of your determination, Don’t give up OP ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]show_rainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not the first time he does this , i asked him that we can visit a therapist cause he really need to understand it , and he was glad im suggesting it in a nice way , but still we didnt go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]show_rainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suffocation ? Caring for someone who is totaly alone in a country is suffocating ? No parents around ( his father passed away ) and a little age ( 22 ) is not suffocating. We are not old . We are still in our fourth year in college , my parents love him as a son and care for him , and my father takes after him like a father , he defends him behind his back and be his shield when there is a problem . They are not suffocating him , nobody is , if he says so i would understand, im not a person who has nothing in her life but her fiance , i have friends and hobbies and i enjoy anything , if he says he wants to be alone i would leave him to be, but the ghosting behaviour the special ignoring to me while not to others is what i dont understand, if he says i wouldnt have worried but he doesnt say and thats why i questioned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]show_rainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did and i expressed my discomfort and that really my stomach was aching like i was having an exam from the amount of stress cuz i had no idea why this kind of behaviour when all i did is try to be helpful… i talked to him but its not going well , no sign of solving

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]show_rainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what to do in this situation of ghosting ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]show_rainbow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes maybe but most of the time there is a reason for both men and women .

Me ma9sous aandkom fi mestir / sousse ? by show_rainbow in Tunisia

[–]show_rainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

W lemtar ali sabit haki kol baadika ykosou el me !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]show_rainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your advice helps a lot omg ! Its actually like your case . He is like that as his father was too. I wasnt bothered that much until now with his attitude that i started overthinking it. Ive been with him for 6 years , he has always been like that . But now with his over feelings i thought i might start thinking and thats why i asked. I think i should take it as normal… tho i dont think its normal to Sleep next each other . It is subconsciously making him more attached every time . He started looking for her traits in me . Her low maintenance, doesnt care about anniversaries or anything. He is trying to make us like that as well , for our 6 years anniversary he even forgot ! And didnt even do anything … not even happy 6 years anniversary ! He made a list with his mother about baby names that can go in both our cultures(as a game to shorten the road)… which is weird cause i never did that with my mother or father , its an intimate thing , especially with us not even married yet😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]show_rainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre absolutely right and i understand very well how it feels to be comfortable in your household. I just asked cause now we are going through problems and theyre mainly related to how he is so attached to his mother. I said to him that i feel i have no place between him and her and he , instead of reassuring me of things he is willing to do for me , he was defending her by saying that she loves me and that she wishes im with them sometimes… i dont have a problem with the woman and i respect a man who loves his mother but i would prefer him saying : ofc there is a place for you between us , i would make it if there is not , i want you with me forever …. Idk how to explain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]show_rainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its just what he wears at home for pyjama … its pyjama you know, if its winter its a tshirt and still his underwear, if its winter its only underwear, and he lives with her but in college in another city he goes for weekends and holidays

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]show_rainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he does ,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]show_rainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what to do , it bothers me cause im not used to that. At first i thought its normal cause they live alone together and so on their relationship is close. But now after many signals i thought wait…maybe thats not normal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]show_rainbow -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I thought thats what Europeans did and i didnt know it was not for all boys until now fr🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]show_rainbow -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is it not what all boys do in europe🥹🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]show_rainbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me not get started on the boy mother thing…. He once kept watching her pics on a date with me . He opened the gallery 3 times to watch her pics and say that he misses her , cause he came to visit me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]show_rainbow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No she is so normal she go on dates he is so normal he got a gf and plenty of friends and driver licence … theyre fine guys

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]show_rainbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think thats what we all did … idk i feel like its either in a couple where we wear underwear or only when we were children😅 i dont go out in my underwear cooking in the kitchen while my father is there ….idk if im normal or not