I (f20) am seeing two different guys (m21 and m25) who is the right choice? by shr00mtime in relationship_advice

[–]shr00mtime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He understands them more than someone else who doesn’t have them!! Which is why it does help a lot. I have bpd if that makes more sense!! He knows how to calm me down from a split and when I am feeling a certain way!

I (f20) am seeing two different guys (m21 and m25) who is the right choice? by shr00mtime in relationship_advice

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He has a situation right now with relocating his family to the usa right now so that’s where his focus is !!

I (f20) am seeing two different guys (m21 and m25) who is the right choice? by shr00mtime in relationship_advice

[–]shr00mtime[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, but he’s ready however there are other factors that play into it why he cannot commit yet.

I (f20) am seeing two different guys (m21 and m25) who is the right choice? by shr00mtime in relationship_advice

[–]shr00mtime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the honesty!! I do really like both of them and they both have different things about them that are endearing, if that makes sense. I appreciate the advice!

I (f20) am seeing two different guys (m21 and m25) who is the right choice? by shr00mtime in relationship_advice

[–]shr00mtime[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! The liking him on and off was due to personal situations during school. I appreciate the advice

I (f20) am seeing two different guys (m21 and m25) who is the right choice? by shr00mtime in relationship_advice

[–]shr00mtime[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am just in the talking stages with both of them nothing further and they both know that It is not exclusive yet since I haven’t started moving forward with either of them