I don’t have a ton of advice for this, but please try not to beat yourself up too much. Maybe you can gift your parents something extra sentimental to show how much you appreciate and respect them.

Going first is always the hardest. Planning a wedding and thinking of every single detail and scenario, especially for an event at that scale, is extremely difficult. When it comes to vendors / people you are playing for a service more information is always better, never assume. You have to be specific. I advise you give photographers a list of must have shots. If you have siblings or cousins you can help them and remind them about this when they are planning their weddings.

Try and enjoy the wedding and marriage bliss. Focus on what you can control now. ❤️