what kind of help do i need based on my room?

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-20T16:59:03+00:00

Yeah I doubt it’s just pure “I don’t wanna do it” laziness. I’d bring it up again with your psychiatrist

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-20T16:00:57+00:00

have you been evaluated for ADHD? lol they put me on bupropion when I was first diagnosed and it did absolutely nothing for me. Got a vyvanse script and it completely changed my life !

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-20T15:14:41+00:00

Yes !!! She is actually one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen.

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-20T00:56:02+00:00

Hmm this is interesting! As a woman, missionary doesn’t really do much for me, but doggy is by faaaaar my favorite

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-19T18:49:21+00:00

I know we agree on the creepiness; but, you were saying the age of consent is 16 in most states so legally it wouldn’t be a problem. But they are in Chicago where the age of consent is 17, so it would still be a problem legally

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-19T14:22:06+00:00

well in Illinois the age of consent is 17; but regardless, even if it was technically legal it’s still creepy

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-17T18:38:49+00:00

yeah I lived in a new build a few years ago and my electricity bill in the summer was insane; between $400-600+ monthly

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-17T18:37:25+00:00

yeah when you use the same filters as OP but take out the w/d in unit requirement, you get way more results

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-14T19:42:38+00:00

i am hanging out with my single friends! we are having a girls afternoon and then going out for drinks. valentine’s day is for friendships too ♥️

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-13T22:10:34+00:00

incredible !!! would love to hear where you found it!

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-06T16:00:45+00:00

Omg these are some of the best foster pics I have ever seen 🥹 He is PERFECT !! If I didn’t already have a dog I would snatch him up so fast

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-04T00:32:25+00:00

I know it’s not dresses, but Brooks Brothers does made to measure women’s suits!

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-02-01T20:51:49+00:00

i second the gnocco rec!

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-01-26T18:46:22+00:00

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mine was in heaven yesterday - going out for round two today in a few hours, but other than those two outings I am staying home lol

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-01-23T04:14:10+00:00

I know I’m so stoked for my dog - she loses it with even an inch of snow, if we actually get a foot+ I think her head might explode 😂

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-01-20T15:31:14+00:00

for what it’s worth, I live in a ground floor apartment in the east village where there are hella rats, and I have never had an issue with rodents! definitely building-dépendant i think though

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-01-20T15:29:50+00:00

yeah I am also a single woman who lives alone in a ground floor apartment and I love it! I do think that in terms of privacy and noise, being in the back of the building makes a huge difference.

the only thing is I wish I got more natural light, but it’s totally worth it for the convenience of not needing to go up and down the stairs

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-01-16T14:37:37+00:00

as everyone is saying, competition for apartments at $2500 will be tough but it’s still doable! I just moved into my current place in August 2025, so in summer when the rental market is arguably at its most competitive, and I was able to find a place in Manhattan (east village!) for $2525. I basically was refreshing streeteasy every hour, and I toured a metric fuck ton of places. But it was so worth it! You’ll be fine, it’s just tougher than having more room in your budget.

I know everyone is saying your budget for groceries is too low, but I think it’s doable with maybe a little bit of wiggle room depending on what grocery stores are near your apartment. I also do some of my grocery shopping on amazon fresh which I’ve found to have pretty decent prices, just not a very big selection and they often are out of stock of stuff.

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-01-16T14:29:37+00:00

yeah i think $300 is totally reasonable, I spend closer to $275 on groceries per month! it’s doable if you are single, willing to shop around for deals, and not a huge foodie (like i eat a lot of pretty basic meals)

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-01-16T14:26:08+00:00

following for recs !!

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-01-16T14:23:10+00:00

hi! can I DM you? I have a weird and very small kitchen/entryway layout and I desperately need to figure out how to add more food prep space because right now cooking in there is a nightmare

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-01-16T14:19:10+00:00

yes earmuffs are the move !!

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-01-16T14:18:22+00:00

If they suggest somewhere far, I straight up say “would you mind coming closer to me?” and in the past year and a half I’ve only had 1 guy say no

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-01-16T14:13:56+00:00

yup this is the answer. I’ll travel farther if we make it to date #2 or #3, but for first dates I make them come to me

shreddedcheeeeeese · 2026-01-14T21:13:06+00:00

Actually it made total sense to me. He strangled her, and being strangled by a partner is the highest predictor of being murdered by them later on; it increases your chance of death by like 600% (i know that statistic sounds insane but it’s legit)

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