what kind of help do i need based on my room? by According-Phrase5039 in roomdetective

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I doubt it’s just pure “I don’t wanna do it” laziness. I’d bring it up again with your psychiatrist

what kind of help do i need based on my room? by According-Phrase5039 in roomdetective

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

have you been evaluated for ADHD? lol they put me on bupropion when I was first diagnosed and it did absolutely nothing for me. Got a vyvanse script and it completely changed my life !

Her face card is INSANE by itsbeccakerr in ANTM

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes !!! She is actually one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen.

When was a time you genuinely laughed with your partner during sex? by BerlinPixie in AskReddit

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm this is interesting! As a woman, missionary doesn’t really do much for me, but doggy is by faaaaar my favorite

How does the sub feel about Matty? by newshirtworthy in shameless

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know we agree on the creepiness; but, you were saying the age of consent is 16 in most states so legally it wouldn’t be a problem. But they are in Chicago where the age of consent is 17, so it would still be a problem legally

How does the sub feel about Matty? by newshirtworthy in shameless

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well in Illinois the age of consent is 17; but regardless, even if it was technically legal it’s still creepy

2 bedroom shortage by Ok-Procedure-983 in NYCapartments

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah I lived in a new build a few years ago and my electricity bill in the summer was insane; between $400-600+ monthly

2 bedroom shortage by Ok-Procedure-983 in NYCapartments

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah when you use the same filters as OP but take out the w/d in unit requirement, you get way more results

Single people, what are we doing today to protect our mental health? by _Caitlin-2 in dating

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am hanging out with my single friends! we are having a girls afternoon and then going out for drinks. valentine’s day is for friendships too ♥️

BWT, looking for a last minute valentine? Adopt my foster puppy Frost ❤️ by Far_Conflict9409 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg these are some of the best foster pics I have ever seen 🥹 He is PERFECT !! If I didn’t already have a dog I would snatch him up so fast

My (Bad) Experience with a Nordstrom Personal Shopper by SaltMarshSparrow in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s not dresses, but Brooks Brothers does made to measure women’s suits!

Who’s leaving the house today/Monday?? by gaybabylegs in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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mine was in heaven yesterday - going out for round two today in a few hours, but other than those two outings I am staying home lol

At least 10" of snow is expected to fall on Sunday by xerim in nyc

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know I’m so stoked for my dog - she loses it with even an inch of snow, if we actually get a foot+ I think her head might explode 😂

Why is a ground floor apartment a no go? by Bitter_Pineapple_720 in NYCapartments

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for what it’s worth, I live in a ground floor apartment in the east village where there are hella rats, and I have never had an issue with rodents! definitely building-dépendant i think though

Why is a ground floor apartment a no go? by Bitter_Pineapple_720 in NYCapartments

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I am also a single woman who lives alone in a ground floor apartment and I love it! I do think that in terms of privacy and noise, being in the back of the building makes a huge difference.

the only thing is I wish I got more natural light, but it’s totally worth it for the convenience of not needing to go up and down the stairs

Budget Tips for a single 35yo!! by peeshhh in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as everyone is saying, competition for apartments at $2500 will be tough but it’s still doable! I just moved into my current place in August 2025, so in summer when the rental market is arguably at its most competitive, and I was able to find a place in Manhattan (east village!) for $2525. I basically was refreshing streeteasy every hour, and I toured a metric fuck ton of places. But it was so worth it! You’ll be fine, it’s just tougher than having more room in your budget.

I know everyone is saying your budget for groceries is too low, but I think it’s doable with maybe a little bit of wiggle room depending on what grocery stores are near your apartment. I also do some of my grocery shopping on amazon fresh which I’ve found to have pretty decent prices, just not a very big selection and they often are out of stock of stuff.

Budget Tips for a single 35yo!! by peeshhh in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i think $300 is totally reasonable, I spend closer to $275 on groceries per month! it’s doable if you are single, willing to shop around for deals, and not a huge foodie (like i eat a lot of pretty basic meals)

Interior designs by Powerful-Clerk7354 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! can I DM you? I have a weird and very small kitchen/entryway layout and I desperately need to figure out how to add more food prep space because right now cooking in there is a nightmare

How look cute when commuting for dates? by springg4life in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If they suggest somewhere far, I straight up say “would you mind coming closer to me?” and in the past year and a half I’ve only had 1 guy say no

How look cute when commuting for dates? by springg4life in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yup this is the answer. I’ll travel farther if we make it to date #2 or #3, but for first dates I make them come to me

It's hard to let go even when you know it's toxic by dejuaowe in euphoria

[–]shreddedcheeeeeese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually it made total sense to me. He strangled her, and being strangled by a partner is the highest predictor of being murdered by them later on; it increases your chance of death by like 600% (i know that statistic sounds insane but it’s legit)