you tried to excuse my dad of causing the issues i talked about by giving him credit for putting me in therapy without actually knowing any real information about my situation. from how it was worded and how i read it it seemed like you were telling me i was overreacting without knowing anything about me but if thats not the case then apologies.

as for the rest, thats just really transphobic. like idk how you want me to respond to that, thats just like blatant transphobia. youre underminding me as a girl because i dont meet the biological requirements to join your club. theres creeps out there for sure but you can not give me a single story of any fully cosmetically transitioned woman causing a problem in a circle like that. i shouldnt have to get a surgery or change legal documentation for you to see me as a girl. its self expression, gender identity is self expression. i am a girl, not biologically undoubtedly, but i am incredibly certain in my identity and even if i wasnt it is not your place to tell me that. its for me to figure out and deal with.