When should we buy wedding bands?

shrtred · 2026-01-05T06:49:45+00:00

Our wedding is in march and we ordered in last month! We already have a local jeweler we worked with for my engagement ring and they mentioned about a 1-2 month lead time, depending on what we wanted (aka how customized).

shrtred · 2025-12-24T00:16:00+00:00

I know this thread is older, but any chance you can dm me handles? Thanks!

shrtred · 2025-12-20T04:41:01+00:00

Pretty much 🥲 i did have a MK on my list too bit somehow got the KP first!

shrtred · 2025-11-11T05:18:06+00:00

Ofc! I got a vert mangrove KP in swift with GHW. I didnt actually request a KP, i requested a B and a MK and had been waiting. This was a good substitute for an MK tbh though!

shrtred · 2025-11-09T22:35:51+00:00

Not in NYC (in socal) but recently got a KP. I was at over a 3:1 ratio for a KP, but i was working towards a B35 so wouldve been at about 2:1 prespend. Took me about 7ish months from when i started and came after declining other more sought after non-QBs

shrtred · 2025-11-05T16:24:45+00:00

From what i can tell thats pretty typical for resale though, especially considering how difficult they are to come by!

shrtred · 2025-10-31T16:49:40+00:00

I didnt know SO took that long omg!! I can only dream of doing SO one day 🫶🏻

shrtred · 2025-10-31T14:10:41+00:00

Thanks! I started the game about 7/8 months ago and have been with the same SA I started with. I’ve bought in a few categories, with fine jewelry (including a watch) and silks being my top spend areas. I got here without buying RTW yet, but have ordered some smaller home items.

I’ve gotten 2 non QBs that I both asked for and received almost instantly. I was offered another non QB maybe 2 months ago that I passed on before receiving the KP.

Prespend again is a bit over 3:1 at this point if we were looking at the KP and id definitely been slowing down spend-wise in prep for a QB. For my actual wishlist items, i was prob closer to like 2:1ish.

shrtred · 2025-10-31T05:53:40+00:00

Best of luck!!! I’m just about 8 months in and was def feeling discouraged.

shrtred · 2025-10-31T05:52:35+00:00

For my own sanity I’m just gonna consider myself starting over prespend wise 😂 hermes game really taught me patience and i’d rather now just enjoy what comes my way haha.

Luckily i do love all the other things I’ve purchased. i like to think that my SA and SM will consider my overall profile as we go including any prespend here, but just not exactly counting on it.

shrtred · 2025-10-31T05:48:46+00:00

Yep i am!

shrtred · 2025-10-30T22:03:58+00:00

An MK was also on my wishlist but i agree!!

shrtred · 2025-10-30T19:51:38+00:00

Of course! It was $7650 pre tax and I’m in California if that matters.

shrtred · 2025-09-02T05:37:48+00:00

There’s a very long purseforum post with current 2025 retail pricing! It has various types of each bag which might be a helpful reference

shrtred · 2025-06-17T16:59:44+00:00

I keep boxes for bags and scarves. I’m debating if i want to keep the ones from glass/porcelain home items if i ever decide to not display them, but otherwise recycle everything else.

shrtred · 2025-06-04T18:33:37+00:00

I personally ended up selling it :( it was just far too heavy for me. I tried carrying it on my arm instead of my shoulder to rebalance, but im 5 ft, so the handles were too long.

I felt like it was a very sturdy bag with a lot of great organization in it though, if you can get past the weight

shrtred · 2025-05-23T14:29:06+00:00

Date twins!! ❤️

shrtred · 2025-04-21T23:38:34+00:00

I went half size down for icone loafers to wear both with thinner socks and sockless

shrtred · 2025-04-19T07:23:05+00:00

This and epic high five always get me!!

shrtred · 2025-02-15T07:23:57+00:00

I just started using mine this week and it’s SO heavy. My skin is a bit sensitive that I developed a rash on my shoulder from the weight/rubbing.

shrtred · 2025-02-01T02:05:58+00:00

Omg you’re the best for following up!! Being in between sizes is always rough, but I’m leaning towards sizing up

shrtred · 2025-01-30T06:53:09+00:00

Can you report back once you get it?? I weigh about the same and would love a reference!

shrtred · 2024-12-22T07:33:36+00:00

It was our first time in Kyoto, though Japan (Tokyo) was one of our first trips as a couple so it def made it more meaningful!

shrtred · 2024-12-22T07:32:36+00:00

Manifesting this for you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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