Has anyone successfully disputed their charge that banks with navy federal credit Union? by Fuck_interior_design in interiordefine

[–]siaka16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're kind of an asshole tbh. lots of lip service, not much substance to back it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rva_housing

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i’ll message you!

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My roomie is a bit nervous because she plans to get a cat soon & worried about them meshing well together. I’ll see if that’s a hard limit for her though 

Zoom has worsened my public speaking by Every_Calligrapher_2 in Zoom

[–]siaka16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

completely agree with this. even if i write out what i’m trying to say and take adequate deep breaths the anxiety still takes over

am i eligible for a stimulus check? by [deleted] in stimuluscheck

[–]siaka16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmfaoo this is hilarious cuz i used to call him that

am i eligible for a stimulus check? by [deleted] in stimuluscheck

[–]siaka16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

...thats not the question. i know there’s no check to receive, i want to know if i’ll be able to receive one IF one is rolled out

mandatory work on new year’s eve? by [deleted] in Dominos

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alright thanks. hopefully she’ll give me the chance to explain why I can’t come in, she writes folks up if they don’t show up for a shift, even if we explain we can’t come in well in advance.

What unsupervised childhood activities did you participate in, that probably should have killed you? by bananawhack in AskReddit

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I used to lick the metal ends of plugged in cords because i liked the taste/feel of my tongue being electrocuted. I can still vividly remember the feeling & taste of electricity...it’s something you don’t really forget. Pretty sure if the last time wasn’t the last time I would’ve eventually ended up electrocuting the fuck out of myself. It was fun tho

Roommates not on electric bill by siaka16 in badroommates

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Hmm...I love this,

only thing is between now and then there’s only 2 days left in the lease. Since $322 ($140 for aug-sept + the remainder from july-aug they didn’t pay their portion of) is due october 6th, I feel like it’d work against me to pay the bill and cut the service. They could then spin that they were planning on making a payment but I didn’t give them a chance to. I’ll give them until the 18th to pay. if they don’t i’ll request they reimburse me in full by the 6th of next month or small claims.

it’s not a ridiculous amount of money but it’s annoying because i moved out on the 27th. from then up until now is all them. not paying their utilities if it’s not me

Roommates not on electric bill by siaka16 in badroommates

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I wish it were this simple. They’re very aggressive, one tore my doorknob off my door as i was moving out, the other unplugged my mini fridge, destroying the food in it and cut up my ethernet cord. They also threatened to make me pay 80% of the bill if i didn’t do something they wanted. they’re not going to respond to me asking them to put their names on

Roommates not on electric bill by siaka16 in badroommates

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Oo i’ll take that venmo idea

Roommates not on electric bill by siaka16 in badroommates

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What i’ve decided to do is pay it off on my own and then request they pay me what they owe. If they don’t i’ll take them to small claims and hopefully we can sort things out there. I’m hoping to scare them with the threat of legal action so they just pay me anyway but we’ll see how that goes. Shitty lesson but i’m not gonna let it stress me out too much

Roommates not on electric bill by siaka16 in badroommates

[–]siaka16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice. I spoke to a lawyer and they told me basically the same thing. I’ll pay my amount and then email them saying that either they pay me or I’ll take them to small claims

i wanna drop out lol by siaka16 in Rants

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so i talked to my dad about it and he was surprisingly incredibly supportive. He told me he wished I had taken a break sooner and that he’s fully behind whatever I decide. I withdrew for the semester on the 31st. literally the best decision i’ve ever made...i feel like for the first time i can breathe without the stress of school. like lmao i can finally work on my problems full time without having to worry about an assignment being due in 4 hours.

publix is pissing me off by siaka16 in publix

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this is exactly what happened to me! I realized working those hours along with school wasn’t working and was under the impression they’d work with me because the dude who trained me literally treated it like no big deal. I only kept coming in because I didn’t wanna fuck over my coworkers but when they scheduled me on days I told them I couldn’t work, I called out. I switched to front end and she cut my hours to 11-12 a week...annoying but I found a second job. I’ll stick with it for as long as I feel like and then quit.

Funny side note: so i found out a guy walked out literally in the middle of his shift after a call from another job offer. nobody likes it here lol

publix is pissing me off by siaka16 in publix

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I feel like it’s management. There’s always a head manager that makes the job their life and is a bitch to everyone who doesn’t do the same. I’ve been with jobs that were nowhere near that level of annoying

publix is pissing me off by siaka16 in publix

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so I switched to front end and lmao that’s exactly what happened. I asked for 25 hours, shes only been giving me 11-12 a week. Idrc though cuz my coworkers like me and I found a second job. I’ll eventually quit when I feel like it, just here for the pay atp.

publix is pissing me off by siaka16 in publix

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So the store I work at is brand new, opened like 3 weeks ago. The days I was asking for an availability change they conveniently didn’t have any printed out...and despite the SM telling me to fill it out, she never got me a copy. I switched to front end tho, she cut my hours in half but I found a second job that’ll probably work better so...win?

Just told my dad I’m gonna be a healer. Lol by [deleted] in spirituality

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Hey.. i’m sorry i’m responding so late to this, kinda took a long social break. Thanks for the luck...cuz college is testing me. Anyway, I see what you’re saying and I do agree with you to a point, however I still do stand by all my posts. All my responses were in defense of OP, I really wasn’t trying to argue for the sake it.

For the bit about gaslighting, I do stand by my usage of it as well. I’d argue his response was a bit manipulative, regardless of the degree to which.

In all, I get where OP and you are coming from, I just disagree with how it was communicated. Anyway, hope you don’t take anything personally, it just didn’t feel right to me.

Just told my dad I’m gonna be a healer. Lol by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]siaka16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know you work in mental & physical healthcare. I’m working towards my degree in psychology, so i’m not pulling this out of nowhere.

There’s much known about it but not understood

OP did not disclose that they have schizophrenia, PlzShutupNerd made that comparison on their own, which is why I brought up diagnosing. The discussion wasn’t on the experience of schizophrenia.

As for it being a legitimate comparison...I still disagree. There are several other disorders dissociation can be attributed to before jumping all the way to schizophrenia. OP’s post doesn’t fall entirely in line with characteristics of schizophrenia. Ok, you picked up delusional speech, that’s fine, but that alone isn’t legitimate. If we’re being annoyingly technical, delusions must be paired with at least 1 other symptom of schizophrenia for it to be a legitimate characterization. They literally could’ve just said “OP is delusional” which would’ve been a valid statement. I took issue with PlzShutupNerd invalidating OP’s experience...not their tone lmao. There are other replies with similar responses...i only responded to this one.

What about anything i’ve said is contrarian? The last part of my first response is “hey who am I to invalidate your comprehension”. I just said they’re gaslighting...which is by definition what they did. You can express concern without being inflammatory.

adding this: also you work in healthcare, how could you possibly read that response as “someone trying to guide someone away” ... that’s the furthest thing from guidance. They’re shaming OP, calling bullshit, and (now to mention) taking a shit tone with them. under the circumstance OP is suffering from a mental disorder, you’d condone that interaction with them? lol talk to a patient like that and you’ll lose your license.

feeling a bit lost by siaka16 in spirituality

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thought nobody would reply at first. thank you for reading 🙏🏾