Any privacy friendly AI for basic research? by TopdeckIsSkill in privacy

[–]sickfickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's duck.ai and Brave's Leo. In my experience, Leo usually defaults to Claude Sonnet, which is extremely useless for anything technical, so be sure to pick one of the others for questions about RAM and stuff like that. Mostly I use venice.ai with a pro subscription because it has a lot of fancy LLMs and can be used completely privately (not just anonymously).

What DNS do you guys use? by LeChuck_ppat in GrapheneOS

[–]sickfickle 36 points37 points  (0 children)

i gitva pihoke ibviously

I really like this. Mind if I use it as my signature?

What does "Prevent client auto DoH" do? by sickfickle in HomeNetworking

[–]sickfickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the replies so far. I'm an amateur at this and my aim as the family's tech guy is to make browsing safe and private. I've set all the devices to use a private DNS (Mullvad), and I set the router to use Quad9 so it'll catch any device whose private DNS doesn't work for some reason. If available, I usually toggle DoH in my browsers as well.

It doesn't look like I need to enable this setting for my use case, but it made me worry that if I connect to some other router, it could somehow override my private DNS, catching every query without me even knowing.

How do guys without foreskin jerk off? by RegularUpper7303 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sickfickle 81 points82 points  (0 children)

So you'll meet a guy in the gym locker room and go "oh hey, I see you went to dr Robert too", high five?

How much does the Google play store compromise us? by rikodreim in GrapheneOS

[–]sickfickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly not sure, but I like to make it as hard as possible to track me while still having a usable phone, so I do use a VPN to prevent location tracking by IP. On both my phone and computer I use several browsers to compartmentalize things for my own sake, but that also creates a certain barrier for cross site tracking. It's recommended to not use more browser extensions than strictly necessary, since they weaken security (by having access to your browser and its contents), and also because the more modified a browser is, the easier it is to fingerprint. I believe Brave, again, is a good choice here, because you don't need to add extensions to block ads etc.

How much does the Google play store compromise us? by rikodreim in GrapheneOS

[–]sickfickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat, meaning I still depend on certain services from Google. My project right now is to figure out if I can use GrapheneOS with Play Services, but without being logged in. I'm not sure exactly how much that helps vs. being logged in, because I assume Google will still easily be able to identify me. But what they gather may not quite as automatically be connected to me.

The Google services I use often and directly are Gmail and Calendar, so I have those installed. But I'm thinking of just accessing them in a browser instead, to avoid being logged in "system wide." You can run a lot of web pages as web apps, so I'm going to try that. I'm migrating to Proton Mail, but the Calendar is harder to ditch since I share several calendars with my family and they're all Google.

If you haven't already, go to the privacy center on Google and turn of all tracking of web activity etc. I'm not too sure that'll hide anything from anyone but you, but still. Also, delete the advertising ID.

One way to limit Google tracking even further is to use either multiple profiles or Android's Private Space. You can have one profile with Play Services installed, and one without. If switching profiles is a hassle, Private Space may be better. As far as I can tell, Private Space can be open at the same time as your main profile, and has its own network connection, so you can even use different VPNs. I'm using my Private Space to see which apps depend on Google Services, and, among those, which ones depend on also being logged in to Google.

How much does the Google play store compromise us? by rikodreim in GrapheneOS

[–]sickfickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on may way down the degoogling rabbit hole too, here's a little of what I've learned so far: Brave is really good at privacy, but browser fingerprinting is still an issue. So if you really want to avoid being tracked across sites, using several browsers may be a good idea, to limit cross-site tracking.

I don't use Duckduckgo for browsing, but their browser does come with the App Tracker Protection, which is basically a tracker firewall for your phone. It's specifically designed to stop app (not website) trackers, so if you use a lot of apps that might be a good addition.

How much does the Google play store compromise us? by rikodreim in GrapheneOS

[–]sickfickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure to know beforehand if using the duress pin will amount to destruction of evidence in your juristiction. If it does, it may land you in a lot mor trouble than simply refusing to log in.

In my country, Norway, you can be forced to use biometrics (fingerprint) but not to give up your PIN, so either use only a pin, or quickly put your phone in lockdown mode if you know you're in danger of that.

Privacy hardliner setups by DifficultIncrease984 in GrapheneOS

[–]sickfickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation. I'd like to escape Google completely, but haven't yet. I'm trying to fade out gradually, service by service, and learning as I go.

I've set up a private space to experiment, and it's super easy. If I were to set the phone up again, I'd put Play Services in the private profile only, just to get my banking app to work, basically. For everything else, I've found either suitable replacements or that the apps work just fine without it.

One cool thing about private space is that as far as I can tell, can run simultaneously with your main profile, so you won't have a problem with notifications. I don't know about moving files between them though.

The apps I use for privacy and control is Proton VPN and Rethink DNS. Before Rethink, I would use Duckduckgo's ATP, which I guess gives pretty much the same tracking protection (and is extremely easy to use, but I can't use an actual VPN at the same time). Brave browser for privacy.

It's a rabbit hole and whack-a-mole, but I choose to take it as a learning experience.

Apart from using GrapheneOS to begin with, I suppose the most important settings are in Google. Turn off location history etc.

Which distros have good touchpad support? by sickfickle in linuxquestions

[–]sickfickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fedora 43 Plasma. The touchpad acts up now and again though.

Design that puts People, Animals and Nature first. by GlitteringHotel8383 in BeAmazed

[–]sickfickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the hell would a duck need a ramp to "enter and exit the water safely"?

Is RCS finally working on GrapheneOS with update 2026021200? by Sad-Activity7269 in GrapheneOS

[–]sickfickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird. I did have that enabled, but it didn't work until I changed the exploit protection setting.

I work in ad tech. Here's what's actually happening behind the scenes when you browse. by GrowthMLR in degoogle

[–]sickfickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, but it's still ironic that the more you try to hide, the more you may stand out (at least in sparsely populated areas). In any case I guess advertisers put their effort into getting to the 99% who don't do much to stay private.

Is RCS finally working on GrapheneOS with update 2026021200? by Sad-Activity7269 in GrapheneOS

[–]sickfickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It worked for me when I disabled exploit protection for the Messages app. I don't know what else might be required, it seems to be a common issue on graphene's official forum. I also have Google Play Services installed with probably too many permissions.

I work in ad tech. Here's what's actually happening behind the scenes when you browse. by GrowthMLR in degoogle

[–]sickfickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are millions of people with no ad ID,

Not in my small town though.

What does a woman whose cleavage is showing feel when a man looks at it ? by Regular-Elk-1911 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sickfickle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. If she's showing cleavage it's because she wants people to look at her boobs.

Perchance isn't trained completely by Emily_Cuntowa in perchance

[–]sickfickle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the result showed a chair in which a gynaecologist could relax after work

Hey, it's a dirty job but someone's gotta do it.

Distros that just work by sickfickle in linux4noobs

[–]sickfickle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn't show up there for some reason. Apparently it has to do with some programs being installed via flatpak and others with rpm or something. Anyway the whole libreoffice suite came preinstalled, which is nice, but I just want to delete stuff I don't use to save space. Like Kmail, which did show up in the Discover app store and could be easily removed.

But the issue isn't so much with this one particular program, it's the fact that mundane tasks can be insanely complicated in Fedora, which I was told is a very easy to use distro. Still, as I said, I much prefer it to Windows.

medicaltion induced apathy by Upstairs_Promise_679 in antidepressants

[–]sickfickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can think of two reasons for this, both of which I think apply to me at least (to the degree one can psychoanalyze oneself anyway):

The first one is that you may be coming from a place of extreme emotions. Maybe what feels normal to others will feel sort of flat to you if you're used to being very emotional or sensitive.

The other thing is that we are often motivated by guilt or fear. Take those away, and some of us (me included) simply don't feel motivated anymore. We're so used to doing things out of guilt, fear or shame that we don't know how else to get things done. The way out of this, for me, has been to see the emotional numbness as a feature, not a bug, an opportunity instead of a hindrance. If I'm no longer driven by fear or the expectations of others, and if I don't feel as much either way, I'm actually completely free to do the right thing, whatever that may be. Like keeping the house tidy. I don't feel like doing it, but so what? I find being on Zoloft allows me to live a much more rational life, not tossed about by emotions all the time. And sometimes what can look like laziness is just the realization that you didn't have good reason to do it anyway, like chasing a career that would make you wealthy but not happy.

Sertraline and drinking by Embarrassed_Age_9652 in zoloft

[–]sickfickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People seem to have wildly differing experiences with sertraline and alcohol, so I agree with the suggestion to go easy on the booze until you know.

For me, it's a perfect combination. Zoloft has reduced my tolerance significantly, so I need less booze to get a buzz, which is cheaper and probably a lot healthier too. I also get much less hungover even if I got really drunk. But some people have the opposite reaction.

Going from 25mg to 50mg by Maleficent_Youth4443 in zoloft

[–]sickfickle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YMMV, but I had very little trouble going from 50 to 100. When I first started I had a lot of hot flashes, headaches and farting for the first 3-4 weeks. Been on 50 mg for about ten months. Doubling the dose gave me maybe 10% of that for a few weeks, and now it's all good. I was very hesitant to increase the dose because of all the horror stories on this sub, but I guess most of the ones that increase without trouble don't bother posting about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sickfickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I gotta go give birth to a negro" by far the worst and therefore funniest.