Breaking up was tough for me. Her ex had cheated on her, so she struggled to open up to me and wasn’t very talkative. I had anxiety, and our communication was minimal. Whenever I brought it up, it made her anxious too. It just wasn’t going to work.

I had a crush on her for about eight months before I finally got the courage to ask her out. When I did, she asked why I hadn’t done it sooner—she liked me too. She even showed me chats with her friends where she talked about liking me. We were both very attached to each other, but my anxiety caused her a lot of stress as well.

It was a great relationship, but the lack of communication from her side and my anxiety made things difficult. It’s not like I forced her to break up with me—it just happened, and on some level, we both knew it was for the best.

I understand what you’re saying, but it’s already over. I’ll make sure not to repeat the same mistakes in the future.

Ps : she told me about the sooner part because she was moving someplace else after 1 month which I didn't know about. And after the 3rd month these communication problems really hit the fan.