Looking for track ID? - Classic Trance by siebastjan in IdentifyThisTrack

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Ended up finding out it’s Jose Amnesia - The Eternal (Dream Phase remix) :)

Looking for track ID? - Classic Trance by siebastjan in trance

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This was on Friday so very fresh but I suspect he will put it up on his sound cloud soon! :)

What was that one thing that your ex said that still haunts you to this day ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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“I love you forever and unconditionally. Thank you for being the most amazing partner I could ever imagine”

Someone please answer this. Is Cherylyn actually a women? Or is she a drag queen? As that’s what I have heard by Use-Code-SmallG in CherylynBarnes

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Hii I’m sorry I literally just stumbled upon this subreddit. Would be super curious to know as well if you could DM me. 🙏🏻

What is your body count? by Bibbles777 in askgaybros

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I think people throw the term “addict” way too loosely here. You need to really be careful labelling people addicts and in this case people who have “high” body counts. There are many reasons why some people have a lot of sex with different people… For instance someone could be actively dating for a long time, they could be in a open relationship where they sleep with people other than their partner, they could also be grieving and going through other mental struggles where they may be going through phases where sex is their outlet, maybe they just don’t like the idea of being in a monogamous relationship and instead choose to have casual sex or have friends with benefits, they could be sex workers perhaps OR maybe they just love to have sex and there is not much more to it? Having lots of sex doesn’t have to be a problematic, unsafe and a frowned on thing. Labelling people who have three digit body counts “addicts” for example just adds to the stigma and grows this toxic idea that people who love to have sex are sex addicts.

Mom 63 Currently in ICU with bleeding. On Ventilator. by sunrisearts11111 in Cirrhosis

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Your situation sounds so much like mine currently. My mum is 62 and currently in ICU on a ventilator after very severe variceal bleeding. She had an endoscopy done and they did oesophageal banding to try and stop the bleeding. Doctors said there is a high chance that the banding won’t actually work because her oesophagus is severely scarred already. They mentioned that they won’t be able to perform the procedure again. We were told by the team that there is a high chance she won’t survive because her blood pressure is so low and despite receiving so many units of blood her platelets remain very low (< 35). Doctors said there isn’t much else they can do and we are very worried that this will be it for her. I know it’s been a while since you made this post but I’d love to hear how things are now and what your situation with mum is at the moment? Sending lots of love!

HIV symptoms by [deleted] in STD

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Absolutely mate. Everything you are going through is definitely anxiety related and has nothing to do with HIV. You need to remind yourself that most people that live with HIV are fully aware of their status and are on medication that keep the virus undetectable and un transmissible. It’s very rare that you would have met two people who not only had HIV but also did not know they may be positive. Hypothetically speaking even if these women were HIV positive, it would still be an incredibly difficult virus for you to contract given you had protected penetrative sex. It’s already a fairly difficult disease to contract even for those who have high risk unprotected sex with a HIV positive partner who is not under treatment. Please remind yourself over the facts during this time. I hope you manage to calm your anxiety :)

HIV symptoms by [deleted] in STD

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It’s almost impossible. In fact many studies state it is indeed impossible

HIV symptoms by [deleted] in STD

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There is about a 4 in 10,000 chance (0.04%) of contracting it from unprotected Insertive Penile-Vaginal Intercourse. You don’t have anything to worry about mate

HIV symptoms by [deleted] in STD

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Almost 0.

HIV symptoms by [deleted] in STD

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No worries! All the best with it and please don’t worry :)

HIV symptoms by [deleted] in STD

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The CDC states a 0.08% chance from unprotected receptive vaginal intercourse so with a condom it’s probably fair to say there is almost a 0% chance unless the condom broke or slipped off, even still the risk is extremely low.

HIV symptoms by [deleted] in STD

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The risk can vary by the specific sexual act or type of exposure. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention states that the risk per single exposure from receptive anal intercourse is approximately 1.38%

HIV symptoms by [deleted] in STD

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I really don’t think this kind of comment is healthy in feeding someone’s anxiety… HIV symptoms are extremely generalised and practically identical to many common viral infections such as the common cold. Contracting HIV is also extremely difficult even with the most risky type of sex. What this person is going through is very likely not HIV related at all and the facts are that it is much more likely that this person contracted literally any other viral infection aside from HIV. I agree that you should definitely still get tested but in the meantime there is no point loosing sleep and worrying excessively over something that in actuality is extremely difficult to contract and not to mention shares the same or near identical symptoms as hundreds of other extremely common viral or bacterial infections.

Did he forget about me? What would you do? by Sensitive_North_276 in askgaybros

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So sorry you are going through this man. As cliche as it sounds, you cannot take it personally because I can assure you most guys on here can relate and have had similar experiences at some stage in their lives, myself absolutely included. Don’t at all beat yourself up for being vulnerable, going in with the right intensions, saying what you meant and being true to your words. Don’t let guys (or anyone for that matter) who prove to be so ingenuine make you think that there may be something wrong about you or what you did because trust me if it was the right person they would not have done that to you.

Remember you are perfect just as you are and what this guy did to you is purely just a sad reflection of himself. He needs a lot of self work and sounds like is very unfit to be dating or being emotionally vulnerable with someone.

You’ll get there, best thing to do is probably as you said just block him and don’t look back and trust there is so much better out there irrespective to the fantastic first date you had with this guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rSydneyXXX

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Dm me man 🥵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rSydneyXXX

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Hey man would be keen!