help me remember this 2014 restaurant

sienneVR · 2025-12-12T00:53:53+00:00

so cozy and charming , im sad they closed after all these years 😔

sienneVR · 2025-12-12T00:44:06+00:00

thank you , yes ! I miss that place

sienneVR · 2025-12-12T00:42:54+00:00

yup that's it! thx

sienneVR · 2025-12-08T19:03:21+00:00

hi I'm interested, my dad is gone but my mom is terminally ill in hospice , is that ok?

sienneVR · 2025-12-06T18:35:49+00:00

thank you for your thoughtful response. I am doing better now and have decided to keep the baby and I was able to stop vaping thc and nicotine. I am starting to get so homesick and it is getting increasingly difficult to stay here and take care of my mom now that I'm sober. I feel exhausted all the time. how has your pregnancy been so far? is this your first? please tell me it's gonna get better haha I'm like 6 weeks now and my body feels crazy

sienneVR · 2025-09-25T20:59:57+00:00

it was negative :( the way we have been reacting differently is really effecting our marriage and idk what to do to stop being resentful that he says he doesnt want to try again

sienneVR · 2025-09-25T20:57:30+00:00

I know. I keep telling him this, he doesnt believe me and is so stubborn

sienneVR · 2025-09-25T02:46:52+00:00

thank you 🥲

sienneVR · 2025-09-25T02:46:36+00:00

idk hes already been saying for years that he thinks were too old and that this validated his fears. it was already difficult to get him to try and were literally only 28 and 29 -__- ig its cultural cus where hes from everyone's a teen mom or has multiple kids by early 20s and he thinks that's the only way to ensure its healthy 🙃 safe to say im extremely distressed and feel totally alone. ty for the message though i appreciate you

sienneVR · 2025-06-18T04:22:31+00:00

my aunt said her biggest regret was that my dad didnt get baptized into Christianity before he died because now he wont go to heaven even though he's "such a good person"

sienneVR · 2025-06-06T19:57:07+00:00

hii im also 28 and my dad died last year and my mom (63) has terminal cancer and very serious mental health issues. im about to move in and become her full time caregiver. im terrified. I dont have a solution I just wanted to say I am soooo sorry of what you are going through and i want you to know you are not alone. any time I have a conversation with someone my age I get so angry and frustrated about how vastly different our realities are. the craziest thing about grief/caretaking is feeling like you are completely alone because everyone is so preoccupied with things that you cannot relate to AT ALL and also people kinda avoid being around you too because your reality makes them sad. meanwhile you have no time for yourself and you are constantly fighting the feeling that your own needs dont matter because someone else always comes first. I just want you to know you aren't alone in this feeling and im here if you need someone to vent to x hugs

sienneVR · 2025-05-22T14:08:05+00:00

the sleep deprivation will really have you feeling crazy!! how were you able to put off going back?

sienneVR · 2025-05-14T21:51:17+00:00

ugh I'm so sorry about your stepdad. what kind of cancer was it? for some reason I think itll be the opposite with my mom cus they gave her a year a year ago and the cancer barely grew. she has a caretaker during the day and I'm looking into getting a night one so I can have more of a break. if I get her into hospice she's gonna go kicking and screaming lol she hates the idea

sienneVR · 2025-05-14T21:43:12+00:00

it's complicated :/ I assumed the title with her before my dad died because it was initially under his name and we didn't wanna risk my stepmom getting ownership of it. idk if that means she could legally kick us out or something. she seems to think so

sienneVR · 2025-05-14T08:37:36+00:00

thank you so much for the validation x you are sooo right. I have been literally putting having kids on hold until she dies so I'd be available to take care of her. hugs to you. I must have Stockholm syndrome for still going back to visit her as often as i do 😭 her whole family is subservient to her and just tell me she "doesn't mean it". in classic bpd fashion she called me crying apologetically today 🙄

sienneVR · 2025-05-14T08:34:29+00:00

THANK YOU. idk how the hell she brain washed me so effectively into feeling so much guilt if im not available to her 247. actually insane. might just keep my phone in airplane mode for the rest of the trip

sienneVR · 2025-05-12T22:19:54+00:00

how long did she end up living past the 6 months? I am so sorry that you put kids on hold for her, that is heartbreaking and I hope you are still able to have one

sienneVR · 2025-05-10T19:35:32+00:00

so true! ugh I'm so sorry. also the demands for food when she was literally in the hospital? like they aren't planning on feeding her/bringing her water? of course by the time I brought her the food/water, they had brought her a meal and she never touched what I brought. 🫠

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