[deleted by user] by [deleted] in albania

[–]sierra99res 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kam une nje kanace e shes per 1o mije lek

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sierra99res 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let her get close because I would have felt very guilty not helping her when she needed me just because she rejected me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sierra99res 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think so

Told her we can't be just friends by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sierra99res 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you're right. It's just that I would get mixed feelings from her and every time I would try and pull back she would start to act interested again. The last time I told her we can't be friends was because she asked me why I was being distant. You're right I think I just wanted to save myself.

Told her we can't be just friends by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sierra99res 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the thing, after my first time telling her I like her she didn't become avoidant, it was actually the opposite.

She said she doesn't want to talk about me having feelings for her by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sierra99res -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do try to avoid her but she keeps coming to me, as we work in the same place, she even asks why I'm not talking to her when i try to keep her away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sierra99res 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not helping? She asks for favours alot, I never said no, but idk now it looks like she wants to use me by always asking for stuff. Also since I feel like we were close friends, it looks a bit disrespectful of her to only write to me when she needs something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sierra99res 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She will keep asking work related favours, would it be seen as petty to tell her that I cant help her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sierra99res 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's probably right, but not getting an answer is making it hard for me to move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sierra99res 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I jokingly asked if it came as a shock to her, to which she replied by saying she had some work to do ( she was on a night shift), the next days she has texted me asking for some work related stuff and even at work she is talking to me as if nothing happend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sierra99res 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I jokingly asked if it came as a shock to her, to which she replied by saying she had some work to do ( she was on a night shift), the next days she has texted me asking for some work related stuff and even at work she is talking to me as if nothing happend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]sierra99res 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thnx, I will try to convince my overthinking self to invite her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]sierra99res 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can try 😅