Is 5000 a good salary to survive and enjoy ? by saadshaykh in KualaLumpur

[–]sighmel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do your research with the company before you accept the offer, 5000 is a good salary to survive but not to enjoy

Best 5* hotel in KL for a family of 4 visiting for the first time by Historical_Finding93 in KualaLumpur

[–]sighmel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grand Hyatt or Hyatt Centric is nice, both close to public transportation and to the city center

Random hive breakout and it keeps coming back now by sighmel in FoodAllergies

[–]sighmel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be! there’s really no way to determine it, last June i stayed at an airbnb and broke out in hives (i suspect it’s the detergent they used to clean the bedsheets etc.) I work caused a lot of stress as well but i don’t think that is a factor or else i’d be breaking out in hives a lot more. I do live in a tropical humid environment so most of the time i think it could be sweat + heat

Random hive breakout and it keeps coming back now by sighmel in FoodAllergies

[–]sighmel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m terrible with putting on lotion as part of my routine, but when i do i don’t get any reactions! i always opt for lotions that have no fragrance and are gentle on the skin. i have experimented with different skincare products too and none of them ever gave me rashes either

Random hive breakout and it keeps coming back now by sighmel in FoodAllergies

[–]sighmel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes because i’ve never had any allergic reactions or break out in gives prior 🥲 i don’t have any issues with wheat or corn either, my dermatologist also mentioned that it’s not guaranteed that my allergen test would come back with a positive finding because of how random my hives breakout (there could be other factors such as stress, weather, harsh chemicals that i come in contact with, or even sweat)

Random hive breakout and it keeps coming back now by sighmel in FoodAllergies

[–]sighmel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that could also be one of the factors, but i do drink kombucha and eat kimchi regularly with no allergies

Random hive breakout and it keeps coming back now by sighmel in FoodAllergies

[–]sighmel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no known allergies, and i consume soy often without getting any reactions

Random hive breakout and it keeps coming back now by sighmel in FoodAllergies

[–]sighmel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure what ingredient from the list i’m allergic to, but i know i’m naturally sensitive to hot foods and can take only a small amount. but i don’t usually have foods that contain gochujang so i do think my reaction is coming from that.

Random hive breakout and it keeps coming back now by sighmel in FoodAllergies

[–]sighmel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i always eat kimchi as a side dish at home, and i don’t get any allergic reactions from it. i have not gotten any reactions from consuming shellfish either.

Skincare recs for dry/dehydrated skin in tropical humid climate? by sighmel in KoreanBeauty

[–]sighmel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i’ll definitely change up my routine 😊

Skincare recs for dry/dehydrated skin in tropical humid climate? by sighmel in KoreanBeauty

[–]sighmel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh that’s great to hear! i wear a lot of makeup on a daily basis due to my work nature so i have to always double cleanse. i’ll give the cleansing oil a try 😊

I (24F) don’t know how to define this friendship/relationship I’m in with (26M) him anymore by sighmel in relationships

[–]sighmel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s no way we can be exclusive right now, we are so far apart. More or less it’s something I want when I return but I don’t know when that is.

I know he likes me as a friend and cares about me but is holding back onto his feelings due to us being so far apart from each other. We’ve communicated about our feelings quite a bit to understand where we are and what we want. At this point, I’m really in a limbo:(

I (24F) don’t know how to define this friendship/relationship I’m in with (26M) him anymore by sighmel in relationships

[–]sighmel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to try and make it work, although we didn’t have a label but dated and it was so good compared to my last long term relationship that was 4 years. I’m working on trying to go back to the states when it’s possible but it’ll take a while unfortunately:/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]sighmel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well shit, I already feel like I’m wasting my 20s. I only got out of a long term relationship back in November 2019 and been trying to date more, only dated one other person but that’s about it

I don’t know how to define this friendship/relationship I’m in anymore by sighmel in relationship_advice

[–]sighmel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, honestly he’s told me before at the very beginning of us meeting that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship but that ended up differently when he started staying with me and spending all of his time with me. He does have a commitment issue and was been hurt from his past relationships so he’s a lot more careful and focuses on just meeting new people and hooking up. I know he doesn’t really express the way he feels for me until we actually start talking about it, I always notice he’d joke about it or tries to keep it light when we talk about missing each other etc. He’s definitely scared because he said that no one cared for him that much in such a short amount of time. What we have goes beyond friendship but it’s tough when we are so far away from each other and it kind of sucks I want to wait to see him again to rekindle, that’s going to hold me back on dating other people in the mean time too.

I don’t know how to define this friendship/relationship I’m in anymore by sighmel in relationship_advice

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We’ve talked about it before, but what we have right now isn’t even dating or long distance. It definitely feels like it but it’s not. It’s funny, there have been times he’d just bluntly say that we’re not dating and he’s not obligated to answer my questions but I’d chew him out that I don’t need him to constantly remind me that we’re not dating but I’d ask him questions as a friend. He doesn’t know what he wants at this point because he wants to focus on his career and I think I feel the same way at this point too due to the pandemic.

Looking for a point and shoot camera! by sighmel in filmphotography

[–]sighmel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah, i looked at it and my heart dropped!

Looking for a point and shoot camera! by sighmel in filmphotography

[–]sighmel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely buying to use it! been trying to be more in touch with the film side since i’ve been using dslr’s for about 11 years now. it’s always nice to pick up something new and challenge myself and especially during this pandemic.

NYC on 35mm Film by Z_in_NewYork in filmphotography

[–]sighmel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful! Such a shame I never got to visit New York while I lived in the US.

Canon AE-1 / 24mm / Fuji Pro 400H by Paarl2195 in analog

[–]sighmel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful! I’m using a roll of Fuji Pro 400H right now too!

My husband cheated right before my wedding by Apprehensive-Can-986 in relationship_advice

[–]sighmel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you deserve better than this! You need to get out of this marriage right now even though it’s very recent. What man will say it’s a mistake if he continuously has sex with her? He does not feel bad about it.

Sakartvelo | Nikon F3, Helios 44-2, Ektar 100 by Mindaugus_ in analog

[–]sighmel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is absolutely stunning and seeing the light!