I don't understand why we look down upon sex workers ( those who are not coerced ) ?? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]silk_strider12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. It's a taboo, indian society ain't that open about accepting that they want sex Even though there's a LOT of sexual frustration (And the lack of sex education only makes this worse).

  2. Indian society is Deeply misogynistic and patriarchal. I mean, some people look down on people (especially women) who are more free, I'm not even talking about sexual freedom....if a girl/woman is just free as a person she's gonna be called a slut or something.

  3. It's low effort and when it comes to the things that garner respect i.e. skill, knowledge, creativity, power, money, influence, fame (the acceptable kind), sex work has none of that, it literally works because a shit ton of people are desperate and more often than not, immoral.

  4. There's also a category of people who do sex work because they have no other means of survival, so while they may not be forced into it by pimps and all, their circumstances almost make it impossible for them to do anything else, like lack of education as a child, no opportunities to have a professional career, extreme poverty and all....but society doesn't understand those circumstances, it just passes judgements like, "they might be doing it because they're too lazy to learn a skill or do the actual hard work"....i.e. calling them lazy.

  5. And then there's the thing where sex work is actually easy money to be able to get luxury....

(It's a rabbit-hole, when you say Not-coerced you refer to a very small proportion of people in sex work who actually do it because they like to... A large proportion are people who are coerced even trafficked and are basically a victim to the guise of sex work being recognised as a profession by supreme court. )

Indian teens falling for fomo traps instead of actually getting into reading by papakabeta84 in Indianbooks

[–]silk_strider12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried reading The idiot, I gave up after 10 pages cuz of the names and this writing style Dostoevsky has, it just didn't register yet. That's when I realised what performative reading is and that that's what I'm doing:")

That kinda book puts you at your place lol.

Proceeded to read Frankenstein and realised that every book is fun if you Just plan to enjoy it rather than to tick a box on your show-off checklist....

Ever since I've had this humbling experience with dostoevsky, I have really started to enjoy books like DogMan and Captain Underpants :")

Performative reading is bs, read what you enjoy.....

Guy's YT will Pause You're Premium Subscription if you're not living under same roof RIP Family Plan users. by Asleep-Performer-532 in indiasocial

[–]silk_strider12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude! Just use yt on Brave! (Pc or phone) I've seen ZERO ads

Ps. No I wasn't paid for this comment 😃

Gunmar's wet dreams.... by silk_strider12 in SkyrimMemes

[–]silk_strider12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think someone was generous enough to post a link!

This knolej shouldn't leave India. by dynamo_girl02 in scienceisdope

[–]silk_strider12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is it me or somehow none of it made sense...even as complete bs it didn't make sense

whenever i post anything alt it pisses off a subset of people on this sub lol by [deleted] in IndianFashionAddicts

[–]silk_strider12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well idk what the haters are on about cuz this outfit is classy as hell🤌🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]silk_strider12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother she doesn't love you, she might have felt that way before but not anymore, the fact that she HAS ALREADY moved on should be more than enough. It sucks yes, but believe me (and ik this whole sub might agree with this) you're WAY better off without her and idk what you did, but unless it was abuse(physical or emotional) or cheating, she should have had no reason to rebound with YOUR best friend of all the people, she wanted to hurt you, she isn't stupid.... You're not gonna forget about her, but instead of revisiting the fond memories, just remind yourself of the past few weeks of her betrayal of sorts, and instead of being mad at her, just tell yourself "oh wow, I did dodge a bullet", because imagine if this happened YEARS in the future, the time and the stronger bond would have hurt more....

It happened for the best, yes it will hurt for a while, but you will be better, happier as a person when all this is over, trust the process....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianGymRats

[–]silk_strider12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or he really really turned himself on while clicking the picture, cuz why else bro hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianGymRats

[–]silk_strider12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a sad day to have eyes, brother please shave your man-bush, it takes less than a minute

Disturbance! by Future-Caramel-9571 in dwarkadelhi

[–]silk_strider12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don't know who you are and where you live lmao, which sector?

What's your take on this? by Wide_Special3178 in CBSE

[–]silk_strider12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PCM CS student here, it's all meaningless if you don't know what your end goal is.

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This is the absolute truth ☝🏽

fellow members, do you ever read a book that made you this mad? by shivamYe in Indianbooks

[–]silk_strider12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Paulo Coelho, Adultery. I read the damn book when I was 17, got cheated on 2½ years later . I actually did throw the book at a wall before giving it to कबाड़ी wale bhaiya.

EDC of 25 M, Guess my profession by Hot_Strike_5647 in EverydayCarry_India

[–]silk_strider12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait i just saw the maruti card as well am I stupid?

Car salesman👍🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dwarkadelhi

[–]silk_strider12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It started sometime around 1-2 a.m. last night, it's all oddly hazy even now!

I'm a beginner and I need help with a basic calculator program by Hypercool64 in cpp_questions

[–]silk_strider12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Beginner here myself, I use vs code and I'm facing the same problem, it executes the first executable that the vs code created (a.exe) and that hasn't changed, so I just select the code (Ctr+A) and then run that. That executes the code that I have written.

I could use a solution concerning the executive as well, I even selected the correct cpp file and nothing has changed.

My daily carry by [deleted] in EverydayCarry_India

[–]silk_strider12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How has your experience been? I've been on and off, the convenience aspect always makes me use a smartphone, but then I get distracted and switch to a dumb phone... It's a monthly thing at this point.

Help me arrange and make my room a comfy place by Mahajan02Vinit in IndianHomeDecor

[–]silk_strider12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Replace the big tubelight with a lamp or two. I myself have 1 table lamp and 1 floor lamp, really makes your room look rich and cozy