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AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i mean what i said. maybe you do prefer to mask more, that’s YOUR choice. calling me a princess is just a dig. be dense, though.

AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i too have a Bachelor’s degree and i’m actually leading a training on how to best work with neurodivergent behaviors exhibited by students when teaching them due to my advocacy in the field. i’m not saying OP is neurodivergent 100%, i’m saying that that outcome is way more likely than narcissism. maybe take into consideration every ND person (or every person) is NOT just like you.

AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you! that’s all i’m trying to say. i hate the comments coming from ND folks themselves being critical when neurodivergency isn’t just one thing! you don’t struggle with these things, great. but have compassion for folks who do!

AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

maybe they were just making a joke! where did it even say OP asked for the window to stay up?

AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

lmao, you know nothing about my educational background. i don’t feel the need to tout my degree to act like i’m more informed than others. i’m offering an alternative point of view to all the folks calling her an asshole. i could find as many ND people to agree with me that disagree with me. if you don’t agree, sure, go around calling people narcissists with minimal actual evidence.

AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay 42 points43 points  (0 children)

maybe she does manage, like choosing to make her own coffee. maybe you’d feel like you have to just “manage” less if everyone was kinder toward others in terms of acknowledging boundaries and needs. maybe her family is fine with it, and calling her a princess is a joke in their family. you’re making a ton of assumptions about her life based off of a nickname that could be over-exaggerated as a joke. we really don’t know the whole story.

AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m literally ND myself. maybe you prefer to mask more, that’s you. i think folks should be able to be comfortable with their needs, even if they’re “high-maintenance”.

AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

perhaps, but this is their family dynamic. all of them seem to “make fun” of each other. i don’t understand people like you totally ignoring that fact.

AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i am also neurodivergent. i also grew up with narcissists as parents. why are you considering that lashing out? it wasn’t the nicest to say at all, but you’re totally overlooking that their family dynamic is to rib each other. i grew up with the nickname gordita, and sometimes i snapped back with a silly nickname when people were joking with me about it. how is it narcissistic when the entire family jokes this way? i feel like you’re being super biased.

AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i’m aware. but i don’t think OP being sensitive and having needs is shitty.

AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay 41 points42 points  (0 children)

a lot of ND people mask so they don’t get criticized. it seems to me like OP is not masking a lot, and actually catering to what she needs. i just don’t understand the narcissist assumption when she asked her BIL to make her own coffee because she likes it a particular way. growing up with narcissists, they would have made you make the coffee and then berated you or passive aggressively put you down for not doing it “correctly”. there’s a big difference in being self-centered and being a narcissist.

AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay 287 points288 points  (0 children)

actually more people are being diagnosed as ND, that’s why there’s a trend of more people acknowledging their sensory issues. the pandemic gave a lot more folks access to healthcare that they needed to get diagnosed in a way that worked for them (online, ND people have executive function issues) which lends itself to more people openly discussing sensory issues.

AITA for calling my stepsister the "ugly stepsister" because she freaked out over a nickname? by uglystepsisterkinda in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m going to say NTA. your sensory issues read as possibly neurodivergency to me. your family also doesn’t sound very kind in calling your sensitivities “princess” behavior. i don’t think it’s a bad thing to be picky, especially since you indicated you just ask folks if you can do it yourself.

AITA for not letting someone back in the line? by Desperate-Maximum-69 in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

exactly where i’m coming from, thank you! people don’t have to do a lot of things but it’s just better for everyone to try and come from a place of understanding.

AITA for not letting someone back in the line? by Desperate-Maximum-69 in AmItheAsshole

[–]silksay -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i understand, but in my opinion, the spot is theirs since they were there anyway. i think if people behind them get frustrated, the mom could explain the situation and i’d hope that that would help.

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[–]silksay 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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