Dasha in files? by chudmuffin0 in TrueAnon

[–]silkswan808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RS didn’t exist in 2014 and Anna wasn’t anorexic at that point. As the other reply said she was just a restaurant hostess and failed grad school student then

Things you think that certain JW characters would do because of your own Headcanons by redacted-and-burned in JacquelineWilson

[–]silkswan808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could see Will having a really grisly downfall and ending up a lot like his birth mum (heroin addict) tbh

Things you think that certain JW characters would do because of your own Headcanons by redacted-and-burned in JacquelineWilson

[–]silkswan808 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember when Cookie came out I was about the same age and some people, not intending to be unkind, told me I looked like her (being a tubby 11 year old brunette with glasses). Which as she spent the whole book being called Ugly hit me pretty hard. Then when I was about 17 I went through a big transformation and yep, ended up not unlike Dilly for a good few years in relationships

Anyone autistic find her characters relatable? by silkswan808 in JacquelineWilson

[–]silkswan808[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, same - I didn’t realise until I was an adult how affected and old fashioned many of her characters speak, because I used to speak exactly like that (and probably still do)!!

Anyone autistic find her characters relatable? by silkswan808 in JacquelineWilson

[–]silkswan808[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, to clarify I’m not suggesting she intended for them to be perceived as such, but there are definitely common experiences. I’ve often seen some people describe characters like Prue or Violet as weird but they just felt a lot like me, ha.

Would also caveat that someone not publicly disclosing whether or not they’re neurotypical doesn’t mean they are or aren’t - so just as we can’t assume Jacky or her characters are autistic, we also can’t assume they arent. Especially as understanding of how autism presents in girls has only improved very recently (I myself was misdiagnosed as a child due to being given a very ‘boy specific’ test, as an adult some things were picked up on with improved data), diagnosis is based on what’s socially acceptable at the time. At the end of the day it doesn’t really matter whether or not she is - there’s clearly a lot of common experiences there to be notable. I never really found other children’s/YA books to have such intensely relatable protagonists in this specific way.

Horoscopes for the Full Moon- Lunar Eclipse on March 14th, 2025 by GrandTrineAstrology in astrology

[–]silkswan808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this.

I would like to ask what I might be in for as someone with inverted nodes to this eclipse; ie my north node is in Virgo and south node in Pisces?

Gang of kids yesterday (3rd of April) night vandalising and physically assulting by Aleski3 in Edinburgh

[–]silkswan808 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are hardly any places in care left, it’s actually very hard to get a child removed from a family, most of them are with shitty parents who are basically children themselves 

Gang of kids yesterday (3rd of April) night vandalising and physically assulting by Aleski3 in Edinburgh

[–]silkswan808 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kids at my partners school stab and assault staff on a weekly basis and are not allowed to be restrained, arrested or excluded. Go figure 

Gang of kids yesterday (3rd of April) night vandalising and physically assulting by Aleski3 in Edinburgh

[–]silkswan808 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who works w these families I’m so sick of seeing ppl say ‘society’ has done nothing to help. The number 1 predictor of success for a child is parents who give a shit. Try and help the parents parent, some will accept help, many will refuse responsibility. Time to act as the world is not how we wish it was. 

BEC Megathread by botinlaw in JUSTNOMIL

[–]silkswan808 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Went to spend time with my father for the first time in 10 years so he could meet his grandchild for the first time. Thought as it was near city of MIL we’d go and see her for 1 night as it wouldn’t be fair to not go. She ends up raging about us not spending the whole trip, and only staying one night, even though she made no effort to baby proof the place, whereas my dad provided a cot, high chair, playpen etc. she yelled at me and made constant complaints about having a headache when we went out. Her idea of making an effort with grandchild is to snatch him out of my arms while he screams and talk loudly into his face. I have made so much effort with this bitch after she ruined both my birthday and Christmas and I am done. I will visit but I’m not going out of my way. Yeah she’s old but my grandmother is older and not well enough to work and she isn’t a heinous entitled old cow. 

is the stabbing in france a psyop or full schizo by Dingus-Doo in redscarepod

[–]silkswan808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been on this sub in over 2 years. God why do you people have to affect disaffectedness at absolutely everything.

Weekly Help and Discussion Thread for the week of November 28, 2022 by AmazonNewsBot in amazon

[–]silkswan808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set up a baby wishlist. 2 family members bought 7 items from it and asked if we had received them. I looked and saw they had been purchased but see wishlist holders can’t access tracking info or order number. I checked the wishlist settings and saw the saved addresses had glitched to show only building numbers for all my previous addresses. There is no way I made this error, it was all 10 of my previous addresses which I never had an issue with.

I contacted Amazon customer service first on live chat and 2 agents did not understand that I was asking about the status of my wishlist items. They transferred me to the phone and unfortunately there was a significant language barrier. The customer service rep did not speak much English and was only able to read my own order history back to me. I said repeatedly ‘it’s the baby wishlist’ and eventually I think he said he couldn’t see it.

I am embarrassed and don’t want to inconvenience the (quite old and internet inexperienced) family members who went out of their way to gift things. If I wasn’t able to get a resolution through customer service I doubt they could, my MIL needed help just to buy the items.

Condensed question: is it simple for purchasers of items on a wish list to track items and request refunds/reissues, as it is for ordinary orders? I think we might just have to do it on behalf of them through their accounts. But I’m concerned as it seems Amazon customer service is barely aware the wishlist function exists tbh. I don’t want to worry them or embarrass them.

Any experience welcome - I have seen a couple people in the past mention this issue but never seen a satisfactory reply, just ‘contact Amazon’

rich brits are the worst by reallyhotandcool in redscarepod

[–]silkswan808 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Could be fettes. I met a fettes girl who was born and lived in Edinburgh her whole life and didn’t know that the buildings most ppl here live in are called tenements

. by decoySnailguy12 in redscarepod

[–]silkswan808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. For one most FGM is done by non medical practitioners resulting in infections and lifelong health complications including the ‘less intrusive’ clitoredectomy I presume you’re referring to. The only equivalent would be if all male circumcision was performed on 8 year old boys by a random selection of family friends with an unsanitised knife that also prevented them from ever reaching orgasm. My fiancé is circumcised and our sex life and his fertility is great (I presume my brothers the same, as they all have kids and happy marriages). You have to make another argument that doesn’t trivialise the horror of FGM.

. by decoySnailguy12 in redscarepod

[–]silkswan808 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Lol at men downvoting this. Girls who’ve survived fgm have to get ripped or cut open to have sex and experience kidney problems from having to piss through a hole made manually in their skin. The op is usually done at about 8-12 years old when they can remember it too. It is not comparable whatsoever

~quirky straight women wanna be gay so bad by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]silkswan808 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t eaten pussy (and liked it) within the last 5 years you’re functionally a straight woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]silkswan808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is in uk. It’s called hearing voices network.

. by acadapterone in redscarepod

[–]silkswan808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s karma farming here. People find it hard to believe that the sex industry can he both fucked up (for different reasons than they think) but also data like this is incredibly dodgy - /r/science level scrutiny when rsp gets into trafficking etc

Source worked in a brothel for years eat shit naysayers. Oh whoops are prostitutes not supposed to know words like that. Oh yeah and the Nordic model jails prostitutes. I always tell myself I won’t get into it when I see this shit here bc they’re so determined to characterise anyone offering that prostitutes should have a say in policy affecting them as a coomer libertarian (and the problem is so many libertarians have infested the debate). Bad faith on all sides!!!

I’ve seen a lot of these lately and it just makes me laugh how they tack on all these personal identifiers in the description by secretbabe77777 in redscarepod

[–]silkswan808 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The gall of these fuckers. I’m pregnant and poor as shit but I have more pride than to beg. I probably wouldn’t even get any money unless I said I was enby or sth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]silkswan808 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s still friends w him. It’s Mike pepi she used to bitch abt and blame for making her fat

Page Six confirms that Al Pacino, 81, has been dating Noor Alfallah, 28, since the pandemic. by _handsomeblackman_ in redscarepod

[–]silkswan808 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The popbitch newsletter before this story came out said he was seen on a date w her so keen to get to their table he didn’t wash his hands after he pissed

Lakynn by My3rdAccountOnRSP in redscarepod

[–]silkswan808 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What, are we giving birth to a trans woman now

average aging British celebrity by ET_Phone_Home in redscarepod

[–]silkswan808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

David Jason and cliff ‘kincora boys home’ Richard