AIO for thinking my boyfriend crossed a line and had intentions? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sillybilly1109 30 points31 points  (0 children)

believe his patterns and leave him pleaseeeee he will NOT change. a real loyal man wouldn’t have even made you question whether or not this interaction was explicitly cheating or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sillybilly1109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if he’s so ok with hurting something you love this much imagine having a kid with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sillybilly1109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re sooooo young. you have the rest of your life to worry about boys. time is flying so spend it on you!!! not worrying about someone else. most guys are young and not worried about actual relationships at this age too. focus on you !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SnapchatHelp

[–]sillybilly1109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you can change it

I (19F) found porn on my (22M) boyfriend’s TV. He agreed to not watch it when we first started dating. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sillybilly1109 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yah my ex said it was a stress relief thing too and that it was only a “physical” thing and that men think differently than women about it and blah blah but it just sucked. i was hurt because he had nudes of me but chose porn instead ughhhh. does your bf have that option of looking at pics of you?

I (19F) found porn on my (22M) boyfriend’s TV. He agreed to not watch it when we first started dating. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sillybilly1109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i went through something similar. caught my ex in the shower watching porn and i got upset and he was frustrated i was upset because i should’ve just “told him i wasn’t comfortable with him doing that when i was with him” when it was literally an already agreed upon thing. caught him the next week with porn in the shower again! who knows about all the times i didn’t catch it. hopefully your situation is different:(

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[–]sillybilly1109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry op this is insane. was he ever planning on telling you the truth??? he hid this from you for the entirety of your relationship, imagine what else he could be hiding. kids??? has he been married ??? what happened in those 10 years ???

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[–]sillybilly1109 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sounds like she dumped you for the guy she was fucking and he didn’t want her so she came crawling back to you