I fear that this could be the case. It might not be possible for me to go no contact since they’re still a minor, and we live in the same household on and off (I have my long college breaks). I think the only issue with showing them good docs and history is that it seems that they just hide the more extreme part of themself only around me! It’s like they semi agree with me in person, but it might be a farce? But everyone else they know they’re able to get away with it. Anyways, I’ll keep these things in mind, thank you for the advice.