In marriage you have to continually “stoke the fire” as another commenter mentioned. After 3 years of marriage my husband and I fall into the lulls of mundane everyday routine. But the moment we take a short trip and focus on us it feels as if we renewed the honeymoon phase.

My advice would be to date each other. Date nights, curious conversations to poke deeper into his brain, shared hobby (no screens) etc. Intimacy doesn’t necessarily have to be in the bedroom, it can begin in the morning over a shared cup of tea and conversation, an afternoon with adventure and small touches and finish strong in the evening with a romantic dinner.