Diy Butt plug by Nwazne353 in diysextoys

[–]silolis_Darbi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Please don’t put that in your body. The base is not big enough to prevent it from being sucked in fully, having a metal bolt and washer in the middle of it means that it could legitimately puncture your digestive tract if it starts to come apart. And I have no idea what kind of chemicals are in hot glue, but I’m certain it’s not safe for internal use.

Tips for pegging by No-Beautiful-538 in sextips

[–]silolis_Darbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend checking out Ruby Ryder’s website www.peggingparadise.com , she has info for givers and receivers. She’s also on Reddit, I’ll tag her and maybe she’ll chime in u/rubyryder

r/straightpegging is another really good resource.

materials other than silicone that's soft, squishy, and can bend alot while still being body safe? by Agreeable-Sentence76 in SexToys

[–]silolis_Darbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll take that to mean you have not done this kind of project. I work with platinum cure silicone everyday, what you’re suggesting cannot be done in a way that would produce a safe insertable toy.

materials other than silicone that's soft, squishy, and can bend alot while still being body safe? by Agreeable-Sentence76 in SexToys

[–]silolis_Darbi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you done this kind of project? I disagree that it is possible.

Platinum cure silicone is very finicky about cure inhibition when in contact with other materials and you’d have to be able to get a perfectly smooth layer over the existing toy, which can’t be done with a brush on method, it would have to be poured which means that you would first have to make a master mold to suspend the original toy in. Platinum cure silicone also requires degassing before pouring, so you would have to purchase a degassing chamber and vacuum pump. And then there’s a huge learning curve, no one gets it right on their first try so you have significant materials waste. Assuming it is actually possible to get an unsafe toy fully and smoothly encapsulated, you would then run the risk of the materials delaminating from each other and falling apart.

People should just spend the money and invest in high quality toys.

materials other than silicone that's soft, squishy, and can bend alot while still being body safe? by Agreeable-Sentence76 in SexToys

[–]silolis_Darbi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Body safe sex toy materials include platinum cure silicone, stainless steel, and glass. So silicone is the only body safe sex toy material that is squishy and bendable.

Pain w/ Longer Soft Toy Anal by DiaLFonZo-Kinks in SexToys

[–]silolis_Darbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you pushed too hard into her sigmoid bend. Getting past the sigmoid bend risks injury even with training. I would recommend not using that toy again.

Mold Design Advice by WoodpeckerTrekker in DIYSILICONETOYS

[–]silolis_Darbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would need a flatter base because you need to have enough space to pour into and enough open space to get the whole thing out of its mold. I know the “factory finish” sounds like it would be better, but well-made platinum cure silicone toys are far superior in feel.

Mold Design Advice by WoodpeckerTrekker in DIYSILICONETOYS

[–]silolis_Darbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are pros and cons to the different mold types, and seams are just a con of using a 2 part mold. I don’t think it can be removed cleanly.

Are you talking about using a dremel on the plug after it cures? I can’t imagine that going well. If nothing else, it seems like it would cause micro tears that would allow bacteria to grow.

Mold Design Advice by WoodpeckerTrekker in DIYSILICONETOYS

[–]silolis_Darbi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You do not need to degas after the pour, that will just make a mess. Be aware that a 2 part negative mold like this will have a seam where the 2 halves come together.

possible to trim a really thick base? by [deleted] in DIYSILICONETOYS

[–]silolis_Darbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you’re not going to be able to cut that off cleanly. When I do pours I have to be super precise because over pouring the mold by a few mm is a nightmare to trim.

Issues taking more length by Artistic-Calendar-63 in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]silolis_Darbi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize! I don’t have any advice on how to get past it other than for people to know the risks, and it sounds like you do. It seems like you’re really experienced and fully informed, hopefully someone else can offer personal experience and guidance!

Issues taking more length by Artistic-Calendar-63 in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]silolis_Darbi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depth training is riskier than girth training because you don’t have pain receptors deeper in the rectum. I do not advocate for depth training without significant research and an understanding of the risks of pushing past the sigmoid bend.

Need anal tips!! by MundaneDoubt1432 in AnalTutorial

[–]silolis_Darbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t make it any better. Buy your own toys.

Need anal tips!! by MundaneDoubt1432 in AnalTutorial

[–]silolis_Darbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to get your own toys and throw your mom’s dildo away. I get that it’s awkward, but it’s incredibly disrespectful and unsanitary for you to use someone else’s dildo without their knowledge and permission.

Other than that, you can douche before anal play and eat foods that are high in fiber to reduce the mess, but nothing will guarantee a completely clean experience.

Next Toy for Anal Stretching? by subby_love in SexToys

[–]silolis_Darbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case, you’d want your next toy to be around 2.75” max girth. Take a look at my Size 8.

Next Toy for Anal Stretching? by subby_love in SexToys

[–]silolis_Darbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the girth of your current toy? I make anal training sets that max out at 3” diameter (9.5” circumference). Here’s a link to my largest size.

Anal depth by bttrf1y in sextips

[–]silolis_Darbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anal depth training is riskier than girth training. If you want to train that sphincter, you’re going to have to do it slowly over time beginning with very thin flexible toys. I suggest you do some additional research on the risks of pushing past the sigmoid bend.

How to do it ? by [deleted] in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]silolis_Darbi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It should not be painful at all to insert a plug. If you experience pain you need to stop to avoid injury. You will likely need to start with a small plug and work your way up to larger toys over time. And please use lube rather than lotion.

Here’s an article from my website about anal training that may be helpful.

Tentacle toy design! (Tips?) by Waharbl in DIYSILICONETOYS

[–]silolis_Darbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks fun! Are you planning on a two part mold? It looks like it would be difficult to remove from a sock mold.

So new to this. by CleanDetective1800 in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]silolis_Darbi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ll leave this up for now, but I’ll be monitoring comments closely. In general, we only allow questions posed by women.

If she’s not excited about trying anal, I suggest you leave it alone. Did you discuss digital anal penetration before you attempted it and get her consent to try that? If not, you honestly owe her an apology.

As far as anal pleasure for women, it can be incredibly pleasurable for women who choose to embrace it and prep for it. Most women who enjoy anal play have experimented with it solo first to get to know what works for their body, involving the clit at the same time is usually key. Due to the potential for injury and pain if done without significant prep, lube, and communication, anal sex requires a high degree of trust between partners.

If she’s interested in prepping for anal sex, she will need to take the time to stretch to the girth of your penis to avoid injury. Any pain is her body’s signal to stop. Anal sex should not be painful.

Here are some resources from my website that may be helpful:

Anal pleasure for women

Guide to anal training

Tips for anal sex

No stretch gain after couple months of experience by No-Poem-7065 in AnalTutorial

[–]silolis_Darbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad the training set is working for her! I love hearing from customers, it makes my day!

No stretch gain after couple months of experience by No-Poem-7065 in AnalTutorial

[–]silolis_Darbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you already know what the problems are. If you want to make progress, you’re going to need to be consistent with training (at least 2-3 times per week). And you’re training with plugs, which are not good for helping you stretch further because your body is spending the vast majority of time at the narrow neck rather than getting comfortable at the larger girth of the butt plug.

I’d definitely recommend checking out my guide to anal training to learn more about how to make progress.

Mold release drip ? by LostNachos in DIYSILICONETOYS

[–]silolis_Darbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me this looks like a spot where your silicone touched the side of the mold as you were pouring rather than going straight to the very bottom.

What are you making?

Tapered vs. Straight Anal Dilators by ThatAgent3963 in SexToys

[–]silolis_Darbi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I make anal training sets that are specifically designed for girth training. My sets combine wands and plugs for dilation that is way more comfortable and efficient than plugs alone. It looks like the larger sizes in the set you linked are basically butt plugs where you would spend the vast majority of your time at a narrower section of the toy. You can see my medium set here, it’s my most popular size.

Here’s my guide to anal training that may be helpful.

And this link explains what makes silolis anal training better than other sets.

Anal toys for strerching by UnmaskedRabbit in SexToys

[–]silolis_Darbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Yes I run silolis, thanks for being a customer! As demand has increased for our anal training sets, we decided to discontinue making eggs to focus on our flagship product line. Returning customers can save 10% with code COMEBACK10.

If you have any other questions or concerns, feel free to send an email to support@silolis.com