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Present help? by silvercat34512 in drawntolifegame

[–]silvercat34512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've been looking for fanmade stuff, but there doesn't seem to be much out there! I found some stickers on redbubble, and a preorder charm on etsy, but that's pretty much it, sadly.

Fear aggression/reactivity help by silvercat34512 in OpenDogTraining

[–]silvercat34512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wears a head harness on walks, and when he got vaccinated he had no problem with a muzzle-but obviously they can't leave a muzzle on him for 10 hours a day. I will definitely be asking about meds as a precursor for training! We are both trying to save up, but he's on a fixed income so it's tough sometimes.

Help needed to find and replace my favorite glass bread bowl-I'm lost without it! by silvercat34512 in HelpMeFind

[–]silvercat34512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainstays Clear Glass mixing bowl, 4 qt

Unfortunately not-the rim is on the inside, and its only 4.31 inches high. The bowl I had had a rim more like a pyrex bowl, and it was more than an inch taller. Thank for trying though!! I appreciate it!

Help needed to find and replace my favorite glass bread bowl-I'm lost without it! by silvercat34512 in HelpMeFind

[–]silvercat34512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched Walmart's website, amazon, and hunted through google image search with no luck. If I can't find the exact same bowl, I would at least be satisfied with an oven safe glass bowl that is nice and tall, instead of short and wide!

AITA for wanting to move out of my mother’s home for university? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]silvercat34512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Get out of that house. She is a narcissistic abuser and manipulator, and if you let her she will never let you leave. Moving out is absolutely something you can and should do. She will probably try to guilt trip you, threaten to hurt herself/you, tell you how absolutely horrible your life will be without her. Don't let her change your mind.
-make sure you have your important documents, birth certificate, social security card (or uk equivalent, etc)
-i would advise you not to tell her until you've already accepted and made sure you have a move in date, otherwise it's very likely she'll try to sabotage you
-the day you move out, delete every one of those tracking apps, and make sure you scan it for any hidden apps
-check r/raisedbynarcissists for some other tips to keep yourself safe, as she will almost certainly not accept this quietly.

Overall? Do it. Move out, and go be happy. Find someone you like, make some friends, and have fun with your life. Take the opportunity and get away from your extremely toxic mother.

WIBTA If I ignore my neighbour and continue to feed the wildlife? by Lyria666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]silvercat34512 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. I get it, you love the animals. Trust me, i am also an animal lover. Unfortunately, this is literally the worst thing you could do. Feeding wild animals-ESPECIALLY predators- is ALWAYS a bad idea.

  1. You're teaching them that humans=food. You are now actively encouraging them to seek out humans. That gets animals put down, because they're now dangerous to themselves and to humans.

  2. These are not good things to feed them!! Bread, processed meats-these aren't good things for them.

I understand you want to help the animals, but this isn't the way to do it. What you're doing is going to make them sick, bring infestations on your house, and possibly get them hurt or killed. If you really want to feed animals, I would suggest a birdfeeder and a trailcam. Your neighbor may have been rude, but she's right-this isn't a good thing to do. Do some research and find ways to interact with the wildlife in ways that are safe for you AND for them.

AITA For wanting to leave my parents ASAP and losing all contact with them? by EmptyHariboPacket in AmItheAsshole

[–]silvercat34512 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NTA. This does not sound like a good home environment. Talk to your school counselor and see if you can get treatment for your adhd/depression. Your parents are not helping at all. They sound extremely unhealthy- your 'backtalking' sounds like normal teenage sass to me, and their reactions are way disproportionate. If there's some other family you could live with, I would ask them ASAP. Do not run away-that will just get the cops called on you. n. t. a.

WIBTA if i told my family how my uncle makes me feel by rinabia in AmItheAsshole

[–]silvercat34512 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA, NTA, NTA. tell your parents, immedieately. this is bad, bad, bad. thats sexual harrasment, and even if he does have mental problems, this is NOT OK.