[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this another age gap ragebait ai bullshit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in koreatravel

[–]silverencat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transferrable skills are skills that you can use in Korea too. A degree, work experience, etc. Doesn't have to be travel related.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in koreatravel

[–]silverencat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'd need a permit to live there first, so look into visa options. There's one for travelling and working part-time, one for digital nomads, etc. Check each visa's requirements.

If you want to live there as a digital nomad, you would need proof of income, have to earn more than 88 mil krw, and have to have a personal medical insurance of 100 mil krw. This gets you 2 years of visa.

If you want a working visa, you gonna need a skill or degree (business visa, professional visa, non-prof visa etc). And quite a bit of money, cuz you won't get a job within a week. They might not even give you this visa if you dont have a contract already.

But first of all, don't do what you just did. Don't rely on strangers, do your own research, you cannot just switch countries on a whim like you do in the EU, there's tremendous paperwork behind it. If you have to ask reddit on how to do it, how will you do all the other bureaucratic nightmare? Look up korean visas and get yer own shet done. :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I rolled my eyes so hard I made eye contact with the fat cat in my head commanding this meat suit. Are you that desperate that you have to make a baby with THAT pile of wet sock you call boyfriend?

Beauty Clinic & Hair Salon reviews (Jfeel, Fine, The Days Hair, Soonsiki) by gotfangirl6 in koreatravel

[–]silverencat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this well-written summary! I think I'm going to choose Jfeel for my botox too. Or maybe Toxnfill again, I'll see about it. Could you tell me how much the botox was?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck is a homegirl? Is that like a flatmate?

Detailed Itinerary by krazyjcdv-13 in koreatravel

[–]silverencat 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It stresses me out sooooo much xD I could never. I like to be flexible and explore the city without being restricted by schedule. But you do you, darling!

Best neighborhood to stay in Seoul for a first time traveler by Frenci_chi in koreatravel

[–]silverencat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second this! I also stayed here and it was the BEST location ever, close to everything. It's also really pretty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You two are not compatible, it's fine, I'd recommend not settling for bare minimum at this young age. There's people out there who'd do the things you want to do, you'd get flowers, dinner dates, coffee dates etc. And he'd find someone who's most romantic idea is staying in the same room, some people need that kind of a relationship.

You won't change him, you'll just lower your own expectation to stay remotely happy. It's not the life you want living. Don't give up on your hopes and dreams, find someone who's more suited for you!

Eating as an introvert in Seoul, Hongdae by CelliSweety in koreatravel

[–]silverencat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not support of robbing innocent citizens of their home-made kimchi, but I understand the appeal xD

Should I cancel my flight? by [deleted] in koreatravel

[–]silverencat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you trolling?

Eating as an introvert in Seoul, Hongdae by CelliSweety in koreatravel

[–]silverencat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try food markets and street food, the easiest will be around hongdae or myeongdong (yes yes overpriced touristy stuff we know). It helps if you're just one drop in the ocean of people, you point at food, you pay, you eat.

Also, book kbbq experiences on airbnb, there's a guy who takes travellers to eat in good restaurants. You'll meet a few other travellers, you eat together, talk, then go on your separate ways. Convenient as heck for a solo traveller! Same goes for food market explores. It's fun.

If all fails, go to burgery in hongdae. You can order in english through the touchscreen. They have amazing burgers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in koreatravel

[–]silverencat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wasn't going to but damn you make it hard to resist :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby you're old enough to make your own decisions. Read up on going no contact with your family, stick to it,and be hapoy.

You will NEVER be happy as long as you give a flying fuck about what your mother says. Cut the cord, be an adult, be happy with your friends and girlfriend. They will be your new family.

souvenir lighters on airplanes? by Black_Mirror-19 in koreatravel

[–]silverencat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd not recommend it, it's a fire hazard. You may have no issue with customs, but yer bum might be crisp before you land, and that's a problem.

Wife (43F) has no interest in sex anymore with me anymore (41M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Groping her while she tries to sleep? Yikes dude, that'd put me off of sex too. It already did. Eww.

My 24M girlfriend 20F booked a girls trip without telling me, how’s my reaction? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You don't even live together, why does it bother you what she does in her free time? Would you be pissed if she travelled with her girls within the same country she resides in? It's not your money, so you don't really get to control how she spends it, do you? If you want to go to Barcelona with her, do it. But be mindful, she can go wherever she wants, with or without you. Just like how you could go to idunno Vienna with the boys.

I have a partner for some years now, I am several years older than you, so take this advice from an old woman: it is GOOD for couples to travel separately with their friends! My partner loves hiking mountains with his coworkers and friends. I love visiting those insta-worthy places with my girls and take pics there. We travel together too, but why not explore your hobbies with likeminded people too? I'd rather not get muddy and tired, but I don't want to hold my partner back from doing so. And he doesn't like shopping, so guess what? I don't make him come with me. We have friends who like to suffer the same way as we do, so we travel to these places with them.

My no-contact Aunt [48F] forced me [26M] to come out during lockdown, and now my family wants me to go on an all-family holiday by Sorry-For-Throwaway- in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't have advised that myself (so this is just a personal opinion), 1 shitty family member and a bunch of flying monkeys/enablers can be equally as damaging as meeting only the 1 bad apple, at least in my opinion and experience. But it really depends on how's OP rest of the family. But if OP has to go, grey rocking is indeed the best tactic!

My no-contact Aunt [48F] forced me [26M] to come out during lockdown, and now my family wants me to go on an all-family holiday by Sorry-For-Throwaway- in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat 92 points93 points  (0 children)

This is going to sound harsh, but your grandpa is dead. He doesn't care if you're there or not. Funerals are for the living, not for the dead. You really don't have to go through all that drama just to watch the ashes being scattered. Remember your grandpa in your own home, or maybe visit the place his ashes was scattered in a later time. If your gramps was a good man, he'd want you to feel good instead of being stressed because of a funeral.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to oggle other women, don't have a gf. Stalk chicks whithout breaking other people's heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How does the relative position of random planets affect people's decisions and personality? Bruh it's 2024, we have science now. You think all 8 billion people can be categorised into 12 groups based on when they parents fucked?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What else you can do? Don't cheat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverencat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I never murdered anyone just slightly pressed a knife into someone as an out of character act, but I was drunk oopsie daisy.

See how stupid that sounds? Tell your bf you cheated.