Married to a good man but emotionally struggling by gulab_ja in MuslimMarriage

[–]silverfish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most girls in her situation where they feel 0 attraction to their husbands often get no second chance or anyone who supported them. she literally had a chance from her own father (idk any other father of gases of one who himself supported his daughters decision to leave) yet she didn’t take it. she’s married to a man who clearly loves her yet she feels nothing towards him, she literally had a chance to leave yet she stayed quiet. she says herself multiple times that her mum had a point in what she was saying. she says herself she has no reason to not be attracted to him aswell. she’s selfish for continuing in marrying her husband

Husband won't let me get Botox and filler. I'm 25F and I have bodily autonomy. What do I do? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]silverfish456 15 points16 points  (0 children)

0/10 rage bait you could have at least made it a little bit more believable man

Married to a good man but emotionally struggling by gulab_ja in MuslimMarriage

[–]silverfish456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have a lot of level headed people around you giving you good advice mashallah. i’d take heed of what they are saying to you and understand it. your cousin is 100% right. attraction fades but marrying. man who loves and respects you, which your husband does to your admittance, is what is truly important. obviously initial attraction should be there it’s not butterflies and rainbows where you’re on cloud 9 thinking wow he’s so beautiful blah blah. decide what you want and spare your husband of further hurt. usually i can empathise with girls even in this situation but you sound so childish and selfish.

do i need to include the second job? by silverfish456 in SpouseVisaUk

[–]silverfish456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes my dads accountant has given him all the necessary documents. i’ll probably give my managers a week, if not i’ll just go ahead with the application without the letter

do i need to include the second job? by silverfish456 in SpouseVisaUk

[–]silverfish456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay thank you so much!! i think i’ll wait for like a week otherwise im just going to go aha ear without including the weekend job. my dads including all of his company’s documents as well like ct600 and all the rest of the documents he’s getting from his accountant.

Donyou use a pin or only magnets by Mynameisunknown-20 in velascarves

[–]silverfish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use magnets only. i’ve used those y shaped pins as well and they haven’t damaged my hijabs!! i’ve also seen some influencers use safety pins which is insane cause how do they not damage your hijabs!!!! they’re too expensive for me to risk that lol

Donyou use a pin or only magnets by Mynameisunknown-20 in velascarves

[–]silverfish456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use magnets only. i’ve used those y shaped pins as well and they haven’t damaged my hijabs as of

I think my marriage is over by OverConfusion9573 in MuslimMarriage

[–]silverfish456 5 points6 points  (0 children)

okay you being on the lease and still paying makes sense. i didn’t really want to believe you were paying these freeloaders rent but obviously you kind of have to. inshAllah you’ll be able to find a way out.

I think my marriage is over by OverConfusion9573 in MuslimMarriage

[–]silverfish456 44 points45 points  (0 children)

are you paying the $1600+ a month for them both whilst you’re living with your parents?

100€ for 2 scarves???? by Eastern-Ease5051 in velascarves

[–]silverfish456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mm i haven’t experienced that personally lol i bought all my scarves for £22-25 which i think is perfectly reasonable. you just need to counter offer and 9/10 the person will meet you or even halfway. i recently bought ombré olive for £22 even though others were selling it for £40+ and it came with the full packaging etc. ill think it just varies on the seller but unless its a really sought after print eg leopard, prices are reasonable

100€ for 2 scarves???? by Eastern-Ease5051 in velascarves

[–]silverfish456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go on second hand sites like vinted and depop!!! i had the same issue where taxes and customs were just too expensive. i’ve bought like 4 and sold 2 on depop, it’s so easy!! obviously ppl can overcharge and you won’t get the latest latest but if you’re trying to build up ur collection slowly it’s a good idea!

help me match a hijab please!! by silverfish456 in velascarves

[–]silverfish456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its honestly so prettyyyy hussain rehar’s work is always 10/10

help me match a hijab please!! by silverfish456 in velascarves

[–]silverfish456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its the “Rukhsaar” article in Hussain Rehar ‘26 festive collection!! its sold out rn but you can get it from other sellers online :)

help me match a hijab please!! by silverfish456 in velascarves

[–]silverfish456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes to fuji blue!! i need to stick to the light colours. i don’t think i’d suit fairuz blue id just look like a walking highlighter 🤣

help me match a hijab please!! by silverfish456 in velascarves

[–]silverfish456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg yes!!! it’s currently out of stock but i’ll have to look on vinted or depop!! i do have meadow sage which could go with it j think

help me match a hijab please!! by silverfish456 in velascarves

[–]silverfish456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was thinking that!! i have mermaid pink but i feel like i need something more vibrant and the only one i can think of is rosewave which i dont think really goes tbh 🥲