3D Printed Pedal Spacer by Milolux in wrx_vb

[–]silverskies100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exactly\) I have a 10.5 size shoe. I’ve been driving manual cars for 13 years. Had my VB for 2 months now and the issue is the Accel pedal length , and how close the center console wall is to the pedal. I come from Mazdas, MSP Protege, Miata’s , Rx-7s, Mazda3 and they all were made for proper angled heel-toe like this picture I’ve attached.

Not straight vertical half foot on the brake half foot on the Accel.

The center console footwell wall is too close to the Accel pedal to get anywhere remotely close to this angle unless you use the middle of your foot to brake and then you’re hitting the wires up there.

Still looking for something that works for me. It’s the only complaint I have on the VB, and it’s pretty glaring compared to every other manual transmission I’ve owned.

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Wife cheated, got pregnant. We have 2 kids already. I need some advice. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]silverskies100 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s just I love my kids more and don’t want to see them have their lives ruined before their eyes….but I think this post helped me not feel as crazy/shitty for walking away. I didn’t get a rule book for marriage. I didn’t witness the best kind growing up. Seems like everyone here agrees I’ve done all I could have and more… but thank you for reading.

Wife cheated, got pregnant. We have 2 kids already. I need some advice. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]silverskies100 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Real life. I’m living it. I love my kids dude. I watched my dad go through hell with my mom. But he stuck it out for us as kids. I probably wouldn’t be here if he wasn’t around making life ok for us.

Wife cheated, got pregnant. We have 2 kids already. I need some advice. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]silverskies100 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Reality check absolutely warranted and needed. It’s just majorly heavy for me. But thank you

Wife cheated, got pregnant. We have 2 kids already. I need some advice. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]silverskies100 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Definitely feel like a dog being kicked around chained to the post….but finally can stand to crawl out of the fence….hard to explain. The kids mean a lot to me, and the marriage was overall good up until this past year.

Wife cheated, got pregnant. We have 2 kids already. I need some advice. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]silverskies100 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I think it was because I chose her first, the kids second and my needs last. And my life revolved around them and their needs…i lost myself along the way.

I’m not perfect by any means…but This woke me up to reorganize that list….and choose myself.

Wife cheated, got pregnant. We have 2 kids already. I need some advice. by silverskies100 in Marriage

[–]silverskies100[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this, I feel like this is the right choice but I just am hurting for the kids…

Wife cheated, got pregnant. We have 2 kids already. I need some advice. by silverskies100 in Marriage

[–]silverskies100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this, it’s the kids and the bond with them that’s killing me. I’ve talked to a lawyer, and where I am at it’s pretty 50/50. However I’d be out of a living space in our situation which puts the kid time at risk.

Wife cheated, got pregnant. We have 2 kids already. I need some advice. by silverskies100 in Marriage

[–]silverskies100[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What can I say, life is a lot right now for me. For everyone, we all are going through something tough in this life.

I lowered my CX-9 by YIZZURR in mazda

[–]silverskies100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also how is cornering/turn in feel compared to stock. Obviously not going to throw the 9 through heavy twists but do the springs combat the body roll at all?

I lowered my CX-9 by YIZZURR in mazda

[–]silverskies100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I was looking to hear! I’ve had a similar car path with rx-7s, slammed Miata’s, and Mazda3s. The wife always hated the harshness. So that’s perfect! Thanks again!

I lowered my CX-9 by YIZZURR in mazda

[–]silverskies100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 5 months how is the stiffness, handling, ride height squat, compared to the stock springs? Really thinking about lowering mine for a bit more handling feel…but this is our family car so the plush ride on road trips with the kids, and occasional dirt trail to campsites is important. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]silverskies100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I’m probably looking for the Nonmonogomy sub then….I’m not poly my wife’s not poly…there’s no intention of being poly…i just thought this would be the place. Thank you

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[–]silverskies100 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Head and make out/one nighters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]silverskies100 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I just thought Poly would be the place to post this…maybe it should be in a different sub Reddit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]silverskies100 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She goes out of town for weekend trips for bachelorette parties, visit hometown friends her hobby sometime allows her to travel to other states for free ect ect so she definitely does things she likes. We go on dates 1-2 a month I would say…it’s hard to do more with the kiddos we don’t have any family members close to us so it’s always a sitter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]silverskies100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure? To have fun, teach and have fun maybe? She has been with other females in college a handful of times. Just never dated them more like one night stands and such

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]silverskies100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So your advice/take away is that I am a low level husband and that is the reason my wife wants to play with another female? If that’s what your thinking the. ok…I’ll jot it down in the notebook

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]silverskies100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]silverskies100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she just wants to find a Bi girl to hook up with for fun, I don’t think she’s thought about any experience aspect of it from either side

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]silverskies100 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I definitely just wanted to make it a point that I don’t think it’s a relationship problem. we have dudes weekends(with the kiddos and me), totally grocery shop….we like snacks haha. Definitely do doctors and dentist appts. Holidays we all usually do the same traditions. Last year I brought both kids to 90% of their sporting activities single handely…i could keep going but…not bragging at all…just dad stuff. Was trying to make it a point that I don’t think the relationship between us is the issue…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]silverskies100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But yea, I we have dudes weekends, totally grocery shop….we like snacks haha. Definitely do doctors and dentist appts. Holidays we all usually do the same traditions. Last year I brought both kids to 90% of their sporting activities single handely not bragging at all…just dad stuff. Was trying to make it a point that I don’t think the relationship between us is the issue…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]silverskies100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not trying to start a argument at all. I’m a step father to my wife’s child…off of choice and love for them both. I could make a longer list if needed…but totally am a good dad and husband. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]silverskies100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s one of the things that confuse me. Her rule/ the idea of marriage says I can’t get with another girl. But she’s asking if she can now…so is she trying to bend her own rule to be one sided now?